Some people say: "The love between men and women is destined. Whether they can be together in the end is completely decided from the beginning." Yes, there is a time in life, but there is no time in life. Don't force it. The relationship between men and women In the final analysis, it is nothing more than fate.
Many people will experience many relationships and even many marriages in their lives, but in the end, there is only one person who can stay for them and become their final destination.
Because if men and women want to fall in love, they only need to look at each other one more time in the crowd, but if they want to finally come together and stay together for a lifetime, they must have a high degree of "soul compatibility" to do it.
Just like the saying that is often said on the Internet: "You don't know the origin of love, and it is easy to fall in love but difficult to get along with each other."
Yes, I deeply believe it. It is easy for men and women to fall in love, but getting along is much more difficult than falling in love. There have been countless men and women who were in love, but found that they were not suitable for each other during their long-term relationship, and then parted ways.
Therefore, In the relationship between men and women, whether men and women are suitable is the most important thing. How to determine whether a man and a woman are suitable? This is actually very simple. When men and women get along, these signs appear, which means they are suitable for being together.
The first sign: There is always more to say.
As the saying goes: "When you meet a close friend, a thousand cups of wine are too little." In many cases, it doesn't matter how much we can say. It is not determined by our character, but by the person we are talking to.
For example, when we talk to our leaders, we often can only whisper some polite words to flatter the other party. But when we talk to our good friends, we can say anything loudly and casually.
Below the word "love" is the word "friend", which shows that love is based on friendship. If men and women want to be lovers, they must first become friends, and true lovers must also be very good friends of each other.
As good friends, a man and a woman should naturally have endless things to talk about! If two men and women always respect each other and are polite to each other on the surface, but don't have much to say to each other, it can only mean that they only have the social relationship of love, but not the ability to have love. substance.
A man and woman like this, as long as no unexpected events happen, may be able to spend their lives together peacefully, but they cannot be called soul mates because they are not suitable.
The second sign: Everyone can guess what the other person is thinking
True love between men and women should not just be a social relationship that is generally accepted by people, it should also be a strong bond and connection of destiny.
If a man and a woman are only connected through the legal contract of marriage, then there is a possibility of divorce and termination of the contract at any time. Because such a marriage can only be regarded as a transaction, a transaction that makes life convenient for both men and women.
Only when a man and a woman have true love and eagerly want to enter each other's world, can they establish a stronger bond and connection than marriage.
When men and women have such a strong bond and destiny connection, they will be able to communicate with each other and always be able to guess each other's thoughts, because they have always wanted to work hard to understand each other.
As Suhomlinsky once said: "True love not only requires loving each other, but also requiring insight into each other's inner world."
Yes, because men and women truly love each other, they want to understand each other's inner world. Inner world; because you have insight into the other person's inner world, you can achieve mind-to-heart communication.
The third sign: both are able to consider each other.
Some men and women complained after getting married: "Why is my family always quarreling, fighting, and a mess, while other people's families can be so harmonious?"
In fact, , In the world of love, there are no two people who are completely suitable. All those enviable and beautiful loves are just mutual tolerance and compromise.
Therefore, whether a family can be harmonious does not depend on whether men and women are a perfect match, because in this world, there is never a true perfect match; it depends on whether men and women can consider each other, understand and tolerate each other.
Therefore, even if men and women have very big differences, as long as they can consider each other, understand and tolerate each other, then they are suitable for being together.
Emotional message:
Human life is a very long journey. During the journey, you will encounter countless difficulties and ups and downs. If you feel tired and lonely, you might as well find someone to go with you and finish this journey together!
In the journey of life, you need to stand side by side with your partner, support each other, and move forward step by step. When you are unhappy, he will come to comfort you. When he loses his temper, you also need to understand and tolerate him.
Because only in this way can you keep going until the end and never be separated!
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