The relationship between men and women is not as sweet as what is written in novels, or there are so many storms.
In fact, the lives of most people are very ordinary, even repetitive. Two people who have been together for several years or even more than ten years can still see the differences even if they just stand in front of each other and say nothing.
Just think about it, she has never had any inappropriate thoughts and loves the other person wholeheartedly. Her eyes and behavior can naturally tell all the answers. On the contrary, if there is something wrong in your heart, you will inevitably be unable to look directly at the other person when their eyes meet.
Generally speaking, a woman can only say these three sentences if she has "stolen someone". They are very accurate.
"I am blind to choose you"
Life is full of choices. As the saying goes, you have chosen your own path and you have to walk it on your knees.
Indeed, there are thousands of roads in life. Which kind of road you choose will determine what kind of scenery you will have. What kind of person you choose will naturally lead to what kind of life you will have. However, love is not a mess of one person, but the management of two people.
When a woman doesn’t work hard, but puts all the troubles in her life on a man, she is often desperate for the relationship, or has already found a way out.
Generally speaking, a woman will subconsciously say "I am so blind when I choose you" after she has stolen from someone. This also means that she actually has a better choice.
Otherwise, in her subconscious mind, she will not compare you with others. Even if she doesn't love you anymore, she will only think about leaving. As for where to go after leaving, she didn't think clearly.
"My affairs are none of your business"
Indeed, even if two people are together, or even married, they are still two independent individuals.
can still have his own life, his own pursuits, and his own circle. but. Just because you are lovers' lives, you also have the right and obligation to care about the other person's life. Especially when it comes to interacting with people of the opposite sex, you naturally need to be concerned about it.
In fact, only if a woman has stolen from someone before will she object to you intervening in her relationship with other men. Even when you are suspicious, she will confidently say: "My affairs are none of your business." At this time, even if she did not regard herself as an outsider, she regarded that person as an alternative answer to her life.
Otherwise, if she is really upright in her heart, when you doubt and ask questions, she will explain more instead of rejecting you.
"If it works, then break up. If it doesn't work, break up."
Breaking up, for women, most of the time, is actually synonymous with retention. However, this does not mean that all breakups are for the sake of staying.
Some women clearly have no hope in a relationship and have even thought about leaving countless times. But I still stay here just to wait for you to say goodbye, and I don’t want to be labeled as a heartless person.
Generally speaking, if a woman has cheated on someone and is confident that she has enough charm and can win a better person, she will casually say to you "If it works, then break up." At this time, if you have no objection and even break up, for her, it is not a sad thing, but another expression of new life.
A woman is like this. She has already found a new home, and she will not leave in a hurry, but will wait for you to take the initiative to say it.
