02
I don’t like to control the development of things. I live in this world and enjoy the present more. Destiny will push me forward and let me see the result. No matter good or bad, I will face it bravely. Yes and acceptance.
It has only been more than two months since we met each other, and I think that is enough time. I have already experienced secret love, flirting, and mutual love, so that counts as a win.
After that, I knew it was time to start a new journey. I was brand new, resurrected, and full of vitality, just like a child happily welcoming the sunshine and hope.
My current boyfriend is also a little kid, even smaller than that boy back then. Because after experiencing that year-long relationship, I no longer feel that we are so strange. is not popular with the world. Instead, I am very grateful to God for always bringing fresh blood to me.
With the last experience, my boyfriend and I get along more harmoniously. I had a very good chat with him. He felt that I was like a girl of seventeen or eighteen years old, naughty and quirky. It was this girlishness that deeply attracted him, coupled with the maturity that age has brought to me. and rich social experience. The two temperaments are mixed together to exude a unique charm.
03
I think what I love is love, not a specific person. Loving someone is too persistent, because you may not be destined to be with them in this life, but if what you love is love, you always have a chance.
If you have the opportunity before getting married, you can have more relationships, because only by experiencing more, experience more, can you know what you really want and who is suitable for you.
In this way, there will be no personality differences due to hasty marriage, which will end in divorce.
You should be open-minded when it comes to love and be willing to accept a relationship anytime and anywhere, so that you can easily have love.
04
If there are too many rules, secular views, and too much concern about external conditions, financial strength, work, age, family status, etc., even if there is a good person standing in front of you, you will not choose, so I missed many opportunities for love.
When Nick Cheung Ka Fai was not the best actor yet, and was just a sidekick, Guan Yonghe was already very popular, but she did not dislike him. She liked Nick Cheung, and now they are role models in the entertainment industry. couple.
When director Ang Lee was still an unemployed young man, his wife raised him without hesitation.
When Ang Lee won the Oscar for Best Director, what he was most grateful for was that his wife never left him.
05
Whether it is a celebrity or us ordinary people, don't be too worldly. Whether you are in love or married, you must really like that person.
Don't bully a young man into being poor. You have no way of knowing what he will be like in three years' time?
Even if you find a person with a good job and a good income, sudden changes can happen at any time, and he can change from rich to penniless.
06
So anything can happen. Don’t live in your head. You should trust your intuition more and don’t reject anyone who makes you feel comfortable. Even if this person cannot be successful at the moment, this relationship can become the next one. The basis of relationships.
