Life is a long process, and so is love.
Once some people have a girlfriend, they settle down and never mess with other girls;
Some people get dazzled and are reluctant to give up, always dodging and wavering.
01.
When I was a freshman, Chen Yan and I have always been at the same table. Although you can sit anywhere, he has always been unshakable and sat next to me.
After two years, we have become very familiar with each other and there is always endless things to talk about.
I asked him, Chen Yan, you are so handsome, someone must like you, right?
He always smiled and said, yes, it’s you.
I will fight back right away, who would like a person like you, arrogant and arrogant.
During the evening self-study, he changed places at the back table and combed my hair as if no one else was around, still mumbling about how he feels like your future husband.
The ponytail he combed was really ugly, and there were still two bunches of hair in front of me that were not combed, but he proudly said that he would braid it for you next time.
Although it is very cold in December, he is always waiting for me downstairs in the dormitory. We go to class together, eat together, and go back to the dormitory together.
The weather in the south is very hot in June. He is obviously afraid of the heat, but he kept his fan blowing on me all afternoon and said he was not hot.
When the fan ran out of power, he would use the fan to fan me.
If you don’t like a girl very much, how can you be so nice to her?
02.
Since my drawers were filled with all kinds of books and there was no place to put my schoolbag, I asked the back table to put it at his place.
Just as he was about to hand over his schoolbag, Chen Yan yelled at the table behind me, "What are you doing? Give it to me." Then he grabbed the school bag and put it in his drawer.
When someone asked him whose schoolbag it was, he said it belonged to his wife. After saying this, he blushed, and so did I.
However, when I was alone and sweet in the ambiguity, he went behind my back and got together with others.
I know a girl who has liked him for three years. I asked him if he also likes that girl, and he answered simply, no.
We are still at the same table. We still eat together, study together, go to class together, and go back to the dormitory together.
Although he didn't confess his love to me, others thought we were a couple, and I was used to getting along like this.
Once, my best friends and I went out drinking, and during Truth or Dare, they asked me to send him a message, saying that I had liked him for a long time.
However, his reply was that he has a girlfriend.
I asked, is it the girl who has liked you for three years? He said yes.
It turns out that I have always been pretentious, mistaking his kindness to me as love;
It turns out that he said that I was his wife, but his heart was always wavering.
I just can’t figure out how he can be in a relationship and be ambiguous with me at the same time.
03.
People around him are very curious, how does he view love when two people who are so close are not together.
I'm also curious.
I don’t know the story behind him and that girl, and he never mentioned it in front of me.
I am 22 years old and a mature college student with my own outlook on life and values.
I know that such a boy is not worthy of my affection. My prince must be the only one who dominates me and will not let other girls take advantage of him.
So I am not sad, nor do I feel pity.
No girl is the best in the world, there is always a girl who is better than you passing by.
His life must be chaotic and charming, and his future world must also be exciting.
The country is easy to change, but the love will always remain.
In life, the most hurtful thing is nothing but feelings.
He will never understand your sadness and cannot see your tearful eyes.
People who are greedy in love usually accomplish nothing in other aspects.
Principles and loyalty are worthless in his heart. What he brings to women is nothing but sadness and despair. Every time he changes jobs, you will be exhausted and exhausted.
He can't distinguish the boundaries between men and women. He gives his feelings casually and comes and goes like the wind. You never know what he is thinking.
Instead of letting him reveal your scars from time to time, it is better to kick him out as early as possible.
A mature girl will not be sad when breaking up, but will only be happy that she escaped a disaster and can start a better love.
Once you see the other person clearly, you will quickly break away from each other and will never be sloppy.
Because she understands that good love nourishes life, and men who are carefree will show mercy everywhere.
