Woman, why are you friendly, self-satisfied and dedicated to your responsibilities, but some people around you still disrespect and bully you? Is it because your personality is too simple and kind, or even too cowardly. When you get along with others, others see your character weaknesses, and people with bad conduct see that you are valuable and start to test your attitude? As long as you react with resistance, the other party will seize your weakness and then pinch and oppress you, because others see that a "strength-weak relationship" has been formed between you. And then go straight to your bottom line to bully you. Your excessive humility makes others think that you are too talkative, which in turn triggers other people's ingenuity, and even encourages others to hurt you "unscrupulously" and make every possible request to you.
Women, when getting along with others, whether they are outsiders or people around them, they must let others see that they are people with principles and bottom lines. If their own principles and bottom lines are touched, they will definitely choose to turn around and leave. End all relationships, or fight back. I am a person with independent opinions and analytical skills, and I will not be led by anyone to do things I do not approve of. I'm not stupid, I just don't want to expose other people's hidden thoughts.
Woman, if your personality is too weak, you must be aware of changing your bottomless concessions and kindness. Improve your own awareness. A good person will be bullied by others, and a good horse will be ridden by others. People's hearts are complex and unpredictable. No matter how dedicated you are, there will still be people who find fault with you and slander you out of thin air. Therefore, you must find the reasons within yourself and correct your own problems one by one. Start by changing all your own problems. Only by making yourself strong and principled will you win the respect of others and be gentle to you!
Women, if you are kind to the right person, the other person will treat you as a treasure. If you are kind to the wrong person, they will take advantage of you and plot against you. Therefore, if a woman knows how to distinguish among the crowd and get to know good people, her kindness will not be trampled on.
