Introduction
When many old people reach their old age, they think that the only person they can rely on is their wife, because only their wife will be by their side when they need it. Although they also have children, they also have their own families and cannot be with them all the time. By your side, and when you are sick, what you want is the care of your wife, who can accompany you and chat with you. The two of you can accompany and take care of each other. It is precisely because of this that more and more elderly people now have I am willing to choose to remarry in my later years. Only in this way will my life be happy in my later years.
A 55-year-old Aunt Zhong also had the idea of remarrying after she was widowed. Later, through the introduction of others, she also met a very satisfactory partner. However, as soon as they got together, the man made a very excessive request. Aunt Zhong After hearing this, they broke up immediately. What on earth is going on? Next let us take a look at the following story.
Aunt Zhong is 55 years old
I am 55 years old this year. After I retired, I became a fitness coach . It’s not that I love working, but that I know the pain of not having money. When I was young, my family was special We are poor. We often don’t have enough food to eat at home. We also have many brothers and sisters. It is really not easy for our parents to raise us brothers and sisters. Every day, our parents pay a high price to provide us with food. Even if they don’t have good food themselves, We are always allowed to eat the food first. Perhaps it is because my family has been poor since I was a child, so I have always lived a frugal life. If I can, I will frugally. It is precisely because of my frugality that I have saved money for myself. Some pension money, otherwise I really wouldn’t dare think about what to do in my old age.
When many people reach my age, they have retired to recuperate at home and travel around. But I am different. I feel that my body is still very healthy and I can still work for a few more years. If I work for a few more years, I can still save tens of thousands, so that when I actually retire, my life will be happier, and I can pay for it myself when I get sick, without asking anyone for help.
Since my wife passed away, my children have also started a family and started a business. Their lives are slowly getting better now, but the pressure is also quite high. It is not easy to support a family. Money is always needed. If you don’t work hard, your family will be ruined. They can't afford it, so I don't want to trouble them. As long as they live their own lives, I can take care of myself.
When I first retired and looked for a job, I didn’t just look for a job. I had my own ideas. I also like dancing and I used to keep fit, so I wanted to find a fitness coach. I like this kind of work very much. I can exercise my body and make money at the same time. It’s a good way to kill two birds with one stone.
There are several gyms near me. I have also gone to know a few of them. I think they are quite good and the requirements are not high. I am very satisfied with them in every aspect. Finally, with my understanding, I came to a gym that was good in all aspects. I am very satisfied with the gym. When I first went there, although I had a foundation in fitness, I still had to train for a week. After the training, I could officially start my job. During the training, I realized that being a fitness instructor is not that easy. , there is a lot to learn, not only skills, but also common sense. These are all things that need to be learned. Apart from fitness, I have never learned these knowledge and skills before, so during the training, I took it very seriously. Not a single lesson was missed. After the training,
was finally able to officially start working. At the beginning, it was a little hectic, but the customers I met were all very good and it was not easy for them to understand me. Most of the people I worked with were elderly people. They are all well-educated people who come to exercise and do not lose their temper easily. Sometimes, when I am too busy, they practice on their own without my help.
After a few months, I got along very well with these customers and colleagues. Every day I was not lazy. When I was bored and had nothing to do, I would learn new actions and knowledge. I feel that since I have chosen This job, then I have to learn to do it well and not let others think that I am here just for fun.
What makes me satisfied is that I chose this place. My colleagues are very kind to me. When we work, we help each other and save a lot of money in life. The gym includes two meals. In this way, I have breakfast, lunch and dinner in the gym every day. The company benefits are also very good. We often take us on trips, picnics, and team building, and I have made more interesting friends. It’s really fine.
However, no matter how happy you are during the day, it is quite boring at night, especially when you look at the empty house, there is no smell of oil smoke at all, and there is not even anyone to talk to. Every time I go home from work, I I don't want to go back because my home is too deserted and I don't feel safe at all. I really want to have someone by my side to accompany me.
Later, one of my clients said that he saw me alone every day and wanted to introduce me to a partner. I didn’t want to be alone. If I met a good partner, I might consider it, so I I agreed. I’m really grateful to her. She’s not related to me, and she’s willing to help me introduce someone to her. It’s really nice. I’ve been on blind dates before, but they were not suitable, and some of them were not suitable. request, so I didn’t continue with them. I think that when it comes to finding a partner, don’t be in a hurry and choose slowly. Sooner or later, I will find a satisfactory partner.
Later, the client introduced me to Lao Zhang. When I first met him, to be honest, I didn’t have a good impression. However, he was very enthusiastic and came to my place to accompany me and chat with me every day after work. When we were together, he accompanied me home. It was precisely because of his warmth that my heart moved. Later, I tried to get along with him, and if it was suitable, I would partner with him.
When I fell in love with him, I found that he was a pretty good person. Often when I had something to do, he would come to my side to help me immediately. Not only could he do housework, he could also cook, and his cooking skills were quite impressive. , I was very moved. Such a good man is really rare. None of my wives have ever been as capable as him.
So I decided to live together with him. However, when the two of us wanted to be together, we had a dispute over whether we should go together or get a certificate. I hoped that we could just go together, which would save trouble and not be so It’s troublesome, and Lao Zhang feels that only by getting the certificate can he feel at ease and be happier. Although he is very good, I did not agree to his request. I think the two of us still need time to understand each other. We can’t pass Get the certificate quickly, or wait until you get to know each other well before getting the certificate.
In the end, Lao Zhang had no choice but to agree to my request. His agreement made me feel that he really cared about my feelings. Only those who care will make concessions. After confirming the partnership, I moved the next day. When I moved to Lao Zhang's house, I thought that the two of us would be happy living together in the future. But who knew that on the night I just moved there, he made a very excessive request to me. Makes me think he's going too far.
He said: "Now that we are together and you have moved into my house, we will live on the AA system from now on. Our living expenses will be on the AA system, but you must do the housework. You are a woman, and small things like housework are originally done by women, so you can do this. I am a grown man and it is not appropriate for me to do these things every day."
Before he could finish speaking, I was already angry. I have never seen such a shameless person. According to what he said, what is the difference between me and a free nanny? As someone who contributes both money and effort, I would never agree to such an exorbitant request even if I die, so I said to Lao Zhang, "You have such a wonderful idea. You want to be with me, but you are not willing to give up the money. You asked me to take care of your life, but I tell you it’s impossible. I’m partnering with you because I want to live with you, not to be your nanny. If you want to find a nanny, just find someone else. I’m not something you can reach. "People, do you think I'm a woman, so I'm easy to bully, and you're a stinky man, let's break up, it's not appropriate."
I really didn’t expect that the two of them broke up as soon as they got together, but I don’t regret it. I’m glad that he made these requests right after we got together. Otherwise, I wouldn’t have known that he was so outrageous that he would look for whoever he wanted. Who goes, I won't be so stupid.
Summary
It is normal for an old man to find a wife in his old age, but if you want to find a true wife, you must be careful and not be too casual. Some men are like beasts with human faces and hearts. They do one thing in front of others and another behind their backs. They were so good to you before. He just wants you to fall into his trap so that he can deceive you. Fortunately, he is just a partner and has not remarried. Otherwise, he will really regret it and cannot escape. That is the most troublesome time. So when you encounter such a man, you must know how to stop losses in time.
