Have you noticed a real problem, that is, in our marriages, more and more people’s marriages are actually in name only.
A seemingly happy family, living like a neighbor. I was just doing nucleic acid tests downstairs when I met a neighbor and chatted with me, asking if my husband was back? I said no, I have to be quarantined for a while now when I come back. Then I will come back. I just casually asked her how are you? She said that she and her husband had nothing to say now, and she didn’t know what was going on. She used to talk a lot and couldn’t finish talking, but now she has nothing to say. When she saw him playing games on his mobile phone, he had nothing to say. He felt like he was about to get divorced. I was too tired and couldn’t talk about him. As soon as I talked about it, his mother showed up instantly to protect him. He said he was very tired from working all day long. When he came back to play games for a while, you still talked about him and said that his husband was in the room. Smoking is not good for children. Let him smoke outside. Her mother-in-law even argued with her, saying that her son bought a house and could smoke wherever he wanted. She had never done it before when her old man sat on the bed and smoked. As she said, her mother-in-law is staying with them, and divorce will be a matter of time.
This mother-in-law is also true. Every time there is noisy here, everyone knows that their family is quarreling, and everyone knows that her mother-in-law is here...
For such a mother-in-law, she goes too far to protect her own children. If I were like this If my mother-in-law doesn't live with them, won't she live well with her old man? One generation has its own way of life. Besides, the daughter-in-law has done nothing wrong. Why should she meddle with things? If she meddles too much, there will be resentment. As a mother-in-law in the future, I will try to have as little contact with their family as possible, unless She needs me, otherwise she will never participate. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been like this since ancient times. If there is little or no contact, there will be no conflicts.
