Liu Li was unmoved and didn't care at all about Wang Tao's tears. She was disappointed with her marriage. Wang Tao had never been a responsible husband. Liu Li's family is in a remote rural area in Henan, and the whole village is mainly engaged in farming.

At the mediation scene, Wang Tao (pseudonym) cried bitterly and did not want to divorce his wife Liu Li (pseudonym).

Liu Li was unmoved and didn't care at all about Wang Tao's tears. She was disappointed with her marriage. Wang Tao had never been a responsible husband. What on earth is going on with

? Why did Liu Li say that Wang Tao was not responsible as a husband?

Wang Tao burst into tears

The beginning of the conflict

Liu Li's family is in a remote rural area in Henan, and the whole village is mainly engaged in farming. Wang Tao's family is in Liu Li's neighboring village, and they met and got married under the introduction of a matchmaker.

Life after marriage is ordinary. Liu Li and mother-in-law Zhao Jinhua (pseudonym) get along well, and there is no particularly tense relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Liu Li was still glad that she did not meet a particularly difficult mother-in-law.

Liu Li

Days passed. Liu Li's eldest daughter had excellent grades and her son was also sensible. This gave Liu Li hope for her life.

In 2011, when 's eldest daughter Wang Huan (pseudonym) entered high school, she chose a private middle school in order to reduce the family burden. Because of Wang Huan's excellent grades,

middle school gave her considerable preferential treatment, including three years of free tuition and an annual subsidy of 3,000 yuan for living expenses.

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Wang Huan has become Liu Li's pride. She hopes that her daughter will grow up healthily and succeed.

At this time, Zhao Jinhua approached Liu Li, hoping to borrow her household registration book as a mortgage to start a business for her nephew Xiaodong (pseudonym).

Liu Li murmured in her heart: household registration book? You can't borrow this thing casually. Liu Li asked her doubts.

The husband and wife at the mediation site

Zhao Jinhua assured that would be fine. Xiaodong is very entrepreneurial and is short of money now.

"What if Xiaodong really can't pay it back?" Liu Li asked.

"Then I'll pay it back for Xiaodong. Don't worry, I'm your mother-in-law. How could I cheat you?" Zhao Jinhua replied.

After hearing her mother-in-law's assurance, Liu Li thought that her mother-in-law usually treated her well, so she agreed to her mother-in-law's request.

Loan

No one is responsible for the loan

In early 2012, Liu Li was in trouble. People from the bank came to her door to ask for money. Dr. Liu Li was confused, thinking that she did not have a loan.

Liu Li suddenly remembered that her mother-in-law used her household registration book for a loan three years ago, so Liu Li went to Zhao Jinhua to tell her about being urged for a loan.

Zhao Jinhua's attitude was very good. said that she would go to collect the debt and told her not to worry.

Mother-in-law and Liu Li

A month later, there was still no news from Mother-in-law Liu Li. Bank debt collectors came to visit again and asked Liu Li to pay back the money as soon as possible.

Liu Li called Xiaodong, and Xiaodong said nonchalantly that don't care about the bank debt collector, just ignore her, and it doesn't matter if the money isn't paid back.

When Liu Li heard this, she felt bad and said, "The borrower is in my name. Will it affect you if you don't pay back? Now it's the second time you're in trouble."

Liu Li explained

Xiaodong told Liu Li not to care, there was nothing he could do if he didn't pay it back to the bank, After saying that, Xiaodong hung up the phone in a hurry, and no one answered when he called again.

At this time, Liu Li felt that her soft-heartedness had gotten her into big trouble. The loan beneficiary Xiaodong actually walked away.

Liu Li was furious. She was kind-hearted in the beginning to help, but she had to take care of the trouble she didn't intend to cause. Liu Li was helpless and went to her mother-in-law to discuss countermeasures.

Conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law began to break out

because her mother-in-law had promised her that if Xiaodong couldn't pay the debt, she would solve it for Xiaodong.

Zhao Jinhua promised that he would solve the problem, but after promising, Zhao Jinhua did not take any action.

Liu Li was very anxious, but she was helpless. At this time, the eldest daughter Wang Huan was about to take the college entrance examination. On April 6, 2015, there were only less than 60 days left before the college entrance examination.

Liu Li approached her mother-in-law again to ask for money

Liu Li approached Zhao Jinhua again and said,If the loan cannot be repaid, their family's credit may be affected, which will affect Wang Huan's future scholarships and grants.

Zhao Jinhua’s expression changed immediately, and he started to curse. Liu Li called Xiaodong with her mobile phone and asked Zhao Jinhua to resolve the matter.

finally got through Xiaodong's call. Zhao Jinhua was unwilling to speak, and Liu Li could only watch as the call was hung up.

Mediation scene

Zhao Jinhua’s grandson (the child of Wang Tao’s eldest brother) came over and directly scolded Liu Li and said : "Why do you ask my grandma to pay you back? Why do you keep forcing my grandma?"

Liu Li explained that at the beginning, It was my mother-in-law who promised that if something happens now, she will be the one to be found. They had a big quarrel and Zhao Jinhua's grandson left.

Less than half an hour later, Wang Tao's brother Wang Jian came over. cursed loudly when he entered, saying that Liu Li bullied his mother and was not good to the family.

Helpless Liu Li

"Was your mother-in-law there at the time?" host asked.

"Here, sitting aside without saying a word, without a word of explanation." Liu Li replied.

"Do you know what happened? Do you know the attitude of your family at that time?" The host asked Wang Tao

The host asked

Wang Tao shook his head and explained, He was not present at the time. At that time, Xiaodong took the household registration books of several houses. After borrowing more than 300,000 yuan, Xiaodong was completely unable to repay Liu Li's family.

Liu Li said that she hoped Wang Tao would discuss with her mother-in-law and her family what to do with the money. But Wang Tao didn't want to live or die, and he didn't want to hurt the harmony between the two families.

Liu Li thought that this matter could not be delayed any longer, so she discussed with Zhao Jinhua whether all the money could be spent and repay the money first.

The couple confronted

Zhao Jinhua directly refused, saying that she had no use for the money, and the money was also in Liu Li's name. Why should she spend this unjust money now?

Wang Tao became angry. thought that Liu Li was responsible for this incident. She didn't tell him when she borrowed the household registration book, and now she blamed it on him.

The host talked with Wang Tao

"It was your mother who borrowed this money." host said.

"The problem is that the money did not come from my mother's hands, and she did not spend the money." Wang Tao said.

"It is your mother who can take away the household registration book, and your mother also guaranteed this." host.

Wang Tao expressed his opinion

If Liu Li should not force the elderly to pay, it is understandable. After all, the elderly are powerless.

But Wang Tao should set an example and go to Xiaodong with his brothers and sisters to discuss how to repay this loan? Instead of all blaming Liu Li.

Wang Tao said that he thought Liu Li's method was wrong, which made the family angry. Wang Tao thought that his family still had savings, so he could just repay the loan without involving his mother.

Liu Li cried and complained

Of course Liu Li didn't want to. She was kind-hearted in helping, but in the end she didn't lose any good reputation. She had to use her family's money to repay the loan. She also took a step back, even if she wanted to pay half of it.

The stubborn Liu Li was unwilling to suffer the disadvantage of being dumb. After a big quarrel with Zhao Jinhua. Zhao Jinhua was forced to summon the whole family to contribute money to repay the loan.

The loan principal and interest totaled 48,000 yuan, of which Liu Li reluctantly shouldered 20,000 yuan.

Liu Li complained

After this matter was resolved, the arrival of another incident completely made Liu Li feel despair. Wang Tao filed for divorce from Liu Li.

What's going on? Liu Li was so wronged by her husband's family. Instead of comforting her, Wang Tao actually filed for divorce? Is there any hidden secret in this?

Liu Li moved out of Wang's house

The couple separated, and the conflict escalated

Wang Tao's sister told him that asked him to take good care of Liu Li, show his manliness, and scare her with divorce, so that she could restrain herself.

Wang Tao said that his thoughts were very simple and he didn't think too much at the time. He just wanted to scare Liu Li and make his family's life peaceful.

Liu Li sighed deeply and said, Wang Tao is like this. A word from anyone in the family is more effective than hers.

Liu Li's determination to divorce

Liu Li also felt hopeless in such days. She agreed to Wang Tao's request, moved out of Wang's house with her children and rented a house outside.

If this matter were to happen to any normal person, they would ask for justice like Liu Li, and even forcefully give back the full amount.

Such a reasonable thing was blamed by Wang Tao for causing discord between the two families, which is really sad.

Liu Li and Wang Jian had a conflict

What Liu Li didn't expect was that after she left the Wang family, she was still bothered by the Wang family's affairs. Wang Tao's eldest brother Wang Jian planted corn first on the land that belonged to his family.

This completely angered Liu Li, and she issued an ultimatum to Wang Tao: Stay away from the Wang family and separate everything, otherwise they will get divorced directly.

Example of the child's behavior

Wang Tao complained, thinking that Liu Li did things inappropriately. His brother used to be very good to the two children, but now he doesn't call or say hello when he sees people, which is extremely rude.

"Do you think it was Liu Li's influence?" host.

"It must be true. Children are afraid of Liu Li. It must have been her education." Wang Tao replied.

Wang Tao also said that 's eldest daughter directly said that he had no responsibility or anything. Wang Huan was taught by Liu Li to be a blind wolf. She didn't care about him as a father and didn't think about who supported her education.

The couple argued

Liu Li argued loudly. Wang Huan was not like that at all. She just asked Wang Tao to solve the matter without directly talking to him.

Moreover, Wang Huan's tuition was all paid for by herself. Wang Tao would only run away. She would do everything, but she would not get any benefit from it.

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Liu Li's biggest problem is that Wang Tao keeps blaming her instead of solving any problems. Liu Li calmed down and said weakly : Shouldn't I force my mother-in-law to take the money?

It is not difficult to see from Wang Tao's words that to this day, he still believes that everything is Liu Li's fault.

At the mediation site, the mediator could not contact Zhao Jinhua, and finally contacted Wang Jian.

Contacted Wang Jian on the spot

Wang Jian said that the land was originally his. It was after his father passed away and he held a funeral, so the land was his, and he expressed his unwillingness to interact with him in the future.

Liu Li was furious. The land was obtained by supporting the elderly. At first, it was said that one family would take care of one elderly person, but Wang Jian refused to do so and did not take care of the elderly.

Liu Li took the old man home and took care of him for many years. She originally said that the land belonged to them, but Wang Jian turned against him after the funeral and took away the land.

Wang Tao looked remorseful, but still insisted that it was because of Liu Li that he had fallen out with his eldest brother.

Wang Tao's attitude is chilling. He still hasn't realized his mistake until now. Instead, he keeps avoiding the question. Where will this matter eventually go?

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Mediator Mediation

Mediator Xu Chengang raised a question , why did Wang Tao cry so sadly at the beginning?

"I feel that Liu Li has no merit but hard work at home, and I don't want Liu Li to leave." Wang Tao replied.

Xu Chengang said that Wang Tao is hopeless and now he only feels reluctant about the divorce and has no regrets about the matter.

Mediator Xu Chengang

Although many people like honest people very much, because honest people are reliable and down-to-earth.But this kind of honesty in Wang Tao is a kind of incompetence.

This kind of honesty makes people feel desperate. Despair for family, life, and future is like a ship without a mast, unable to withstand any wind and waves.

As a husband and father, I have no sense of responsibility or responsibility, and I don’t even have a decent attitude.

Wang Tao and Xu Chengang

Mediator Li Xiaoyun told her opinion . She believed that Wang Tao was the "Ostrich King". When encountering things and difficulties that he did not want to face, he would just dive into the ground and avoid problems.

It was not Liu Li who pushed the problem to Wang Tao, but Wang Tao who pushed all the problems to Liu Li. This completely understands Liu Li's collapse.

At the end of the matter, Liu Li insisted on her initial point of view and chose to divorce the problem. She did not want to struggle and sink in the quagmire, unable to break free.

Mediator Li Xiaoyun

Postscript

As the saying goes: You cannot have the intention of harming others, and you must have the intention of guarding against others.

It is difficult to paint the skin of a tiger but its bones. There are many kinds of friends. Good friends are rare, but bad friends are quite common. However, bad people are often tactful and difficult to see through.

There are differences between people. Some are kind-hearted, some harbor evil intentions, and there are also people with bad intentions. So, what is a bad guy?

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Bad people are often not overt or covert, and like to stab people in the back. Most people frame themselves because they are familiar with the people and relatives around them and know themselves well. People like

are very purposeful and have means and thoughts. It is difficult to detect them without careful observation.

When you meet such a person, any explanation will be feeble. Stop talking nonsense, get to the point and take action.

Let everyone know your innocence and shut up the bad guys. This is the most direct and effective way to fight back.