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heard a story about a girl who attended the wedding of her first love and witnessed him marrying her own happiness.

That girl is very good-looking. From the time they met to the time they got married, it only took more than a year, but I stayed with him for seven years. The position that

thought belonged to him was eventually occupied by someone else. However, she no longer wanted to delve into it.

Because, from leaving to letting go, the girl has experienced a lot and is used to time without each other.

1. I loved you, so what?

It is said in "Listen to the Sing of the Wind": "There is no need to think before and after, everything is already in the past."

Probably, this is the state of one person truly letting go of another person. Even if it is mentioned, it can be laughed off.

I once knew a friend who gave everything he could to others for the one he loved.

However, in the end, he still married someone else. Even the day he left, he never looked back.

Once upon a time, she asked the question "Do you love me" countless times? ’ In the end, the boy answered him with action.

Sometimes, it costs a lot to grow up with someone, and the other person may not necessarily accompany you to the end.

Some people just hope that they can meet someone to rely on to help them grow on their way forward.

However, they do not love the person who protected them. So, why do you think that because you love him, you will be an exception?

2. I can let go of

Letting go of someone alone is probably a kind of accumulation of experience on the way of growth. But not everyone can do it.

In " Spring Departs Again ", the guest Lu Ying mentioned her six-month marriage at the beginning of the program and said that she still couldn't let go.

She was accidentally diagnosed with nephritis during a physical examination. During the treatment, her husband clearly greeted her and made her feel true love.

However, I didn’t expect that the first thing that person did after he recovered was to ask his father to read a message and file for divorce from him.

What she thought was true love never actually came. That saying, ‘Husband and wife are like birds in the same forest, but when disaster strikes, they fly separately. ’ But it is indeed reflected vividly.

But no matter what, she will eventually find a way to forget all this and start a new life of her own, instead of holding on to the past.

Just like Voltaire said in "Aphorisms": "It is not the mountains in the distance that make people tired, but the grain of sand in the shoes."

Love, if you have to hold on to the past, then you will end up You will find that it will hurt you more than emphasizing the future.

3. You can't always wait on the road

At the wedding of my friend's ex, he gave the other party a big red envelope, which surprised many people who knew their past.

At the party after the wedding banquet, my friend mentioned it himself. He said: 'After all, she has been with me for a long time and I have to give her some face. "

Sometimes, you always have to let go of what you can't let go of. After all, you can't always ask others to wait for you on the way.

Similarly, you yourself must always move forward. There is not only one person in this world If you love you, you will always meet someone who is more suitable for you.

If you have a chance, you can renew your relationship. However, if you are destined to miss it, don't hold on to it.

People can sympathize with the person they love, but, I will not sympathize with a person who gives up himself for others.

Everyone must learn to love himself first, and then stop loving others.

4. Some encounters are not easy.

Some things are right. People have to travel through thousands of mountains and rivers before meeting them, and they may even make you experience some hardships and scars.

However, as long as that person is right, then, even if there are some twists and turns, what does it matter?

The first step of true love is to let go of the past, for you and the right person.

If everything is destined to go with the wind, I do not wish you happiness, but I will eventually learn to let you go.

and above, I wish you sweet dreams and good night.