The famous social psychologist Maslow believes that if your heart changes, your attitude will change; if your attitude changes, your habits will also change; if your habits change, your personality will also change; if your personality changes, your life will change. It will also change.
Everything originates from the heart. Inner motivation determines people's attention and affects people's thoughts, emotions and behaviors.
TED speech told a story.
Lucas grew up in a single-parent family and lived a difficult life. He had a mother and a younger sister at home. However, he could not face the pressure of life and played night and night, unable to extricate himself.
During the summer vacation when he was about to become a freshman, his mother was seriously ill and sent to the emergency room.
had gone through various difficulties together. The most important person in life was struggling on the edge of death. Although my mother had the courage to fight against the disease, she finally passed away.
In this way, Lucas became the head of the family. He had to support himself and take care of his sister.
It's summer vacation and Lucas has found a full-time job. His only goal is to go to work every day, day after day. He never gave up any opportunity to make money, and his determination to support his family never wavered.
He didn't want his friends to know that he was working part-time. Every time his friends asked him to go to a party at night, he refused on the grounds that he had to teach his sister homework.
He is used to the rhythm of work every day and no longer buys junk food. Instead, he prepares healthy dinner and breakfast for the next day after work every day. In addition to working every day, I cook until school starts.
After school started, Lucas had to cope with many things at the same time. He changed to a part-time job to ensure that he attended every class so as not to fall behind other classmates...
Such days lasted throughout college, and he did not drop out of school midway. , but graduated with honors.
After graduation, he got a high-paying job and maintained his old life schedule.
Finally, his sister also entered college. He and his sister started their own families and maintained a good relationship.
Imagining that his deceased mother would be happy for Lucas, Lucas changed his attitude towards life, from the original bohemian to the master of his own destiny. For him, the most important thing is "motivation".
Strong motivation can inspire people's potential. After the death of his mother, he was led by the responsibility of being the head of the family and taking care of his sister. He had no choice.
We often see in movies that when a boxer is about to lose in the last round, he will remember why he boxed, and he will suddenly gain explosive power.
