I don’t know since when, extramarital affairs have become a very common thing, especially among men. Some men rely on their own money to have mistresses, mistresses, and mistresses outside. It is pitiful for the women at home who are still playing the role of good wives and loving mothers. For a woman, family and marriage are her world. How could she know that her marriage was already in jeopardy.
When a woman focuses on her family and marriage, a man’s extramarital affair is devastating to her. Women who learn the truth are often heartbroken and ask themselves and their men over and over again, "Why are you doing this to me?" Some women will take some measures to save their marriage after learning that their men are having extramarital affairs.
As everyone knows, if the method is used improperly, it will be counterproductive. Therefore, when a man has an extramarital affair, these behaviors of women are the most stupid. Not only can they not save the marriage, but they may also put their marriage in dire straits.
1. Torturing yourself to gain sympathy
The moment a man chooses to have an extramarital affair, a woman has no place in his heart. He knew how much harm his actions would bring to women, but he did it anyway. This fully shows that men no longer care about women’s feelings. Her emotions had nothing to do with him.
If a woman wants to get a man's sympathy by torturing herself, this road will obviously not work. A man will not sympathize with a woman. On the contrary, he will look down on her even more, thinking that she has no character at all and will just accept everything she does. Compared with women, mistresses are more attractive.
2. Make yourself better
Logically speaking, there is no problem with women’s idea of making themselves better. The mistake is that the woman chose the wrong time. After a man cheats, if a woman chooses to improve herself because she is not good in all aspects, it means that she subconsciously thinks that she is not as good as the mistress, and that she has no confidence in herself at all. Moreover, no matter how excellent and beautiful a woman becomes, it cannot change the reality of men cheating, let alone stop men from looking for mistresses.
3. Cry, make trouble, and hang yourself
Cry, make trouble, and hang yourself. This seems to be a common tactic used by some women to solve all problems in marriage. This method has been around for a long time, but in most cases, it is useless. After a woman does this, a man will become more tired of you and more impatient with you. In sharp contrast, the mistress is gentle, considerate and considerate. As a result, the man's heart is more inclined to the mistress, and he hates the woman even more.
4. Fight with the mistress
In order to vent their anger, some women will find the mistress and fight with the mistress. The woman must not have expected that when she and her mistress had a physical conflict, the man would turn toward the mistress instead of her. If you hit the mistress, you will expose your most aggressive side, and the mistress's tenderness will make the man feel distressed and tempted, and the man will be even more dissatisfied with you. Even if you are the injured party, it seems to be a kind of deservedness in a man's heart.
When a man has an extramarital affair, it is understandable that a woman wants to save her marriage. However, when it comes to the choice of methods, women must think twice before acting. Never act impulsively and do something that they will regret. If you still want your marriage, you must be sensible and sober.
