Once a man has an extramarital affair, what most people think of is wondering which woman he was seduced by? In fact, most of the factors are problems in the marriage itself. How can an extramarital affair occur in a healthy marriage? Every couple has a period of passionate love.

Once a man has an extramarital affair, most people think of which woman he was seduced by? In fact, most of the factors are problems in the marriage itself. How can an extramarital affair occur in a healthy marriage? Every couple has a period of passionate love. During this period, the relationship between the two parties will continue to heat up, and both parties will be very curious and full of freshness. When the love period ends, a period of indifference will follow. During this period, problems will arise in the relationship between the couple. If they are not taken seriously, problems will arise.

It is certainly unforgivable for a man to betray his marriage, but on the other hand, if a man truly loves you, how can other women approach him? An egg can turn into a chick at a certain temperature, but the temperature cannot turn a stone into a chick.

Once you discover that a man is having an extramarital affair, if you cry, make trouble, and hang yourself to face this problem, you will become a terrible resentful woman. When things get to this point, all you can do is to reduce your losses. Calm down first: find out the ins and outs of the matter, and don’t let outsiders know about your family scandal. People around you will think that you were dumped by a man. Your marriage is protected by law and you need to show calmness and elegance and maintain a common demeanor.

You don't need to cry in front of a man and beg him to stay by your side. You will appear more humble. He will not sympathize with you and can only trample on his dignity. Don't be dismissive of this matter on the surface, as if you don't care about him or need him that much. There are many men in the world. You can live freely without him, confuse him with your chic attitude, and then quietly collect evidence that is useful to you.

1: You can put the evidence you collected in front of the man, control your emotions calmly, and calmly ask about the time and reason for the affair, as well as your plans and thoughts about the future.

2: If you don't want to get divorced, you should take stock of yourself. If both parties have shortcomings, state your feelings frankly, and work together to solve the specific problems you are facing, and how to avoid doing it again in the future.

3::If you plan to divorce, collect evidence and file for divorce.

I also went to a marriage counselor. She has 13 years of successful experience in saving marriages

thousands of times. I told her my experience. Under her guidance, I no longer shed tears and made up my mind to do it. I had to grasp my own destiny, until one day, he made a table of rice and waited for me to come back for dinner. I couldn't believe my eyes, which showed that his attitude had obviously changed.

In the process of recovery, I gained a lot of insights,

1: Whether a marriage is happy depends on management. Two people come together because they love each other, but they just can't deal with certain problems, which leads to a growing rift and a decrease in happiness. What saves a marriage is not only the other person's heart, but also the ability to obtain happiness. If you don't know how to manage, then what you once loved will turn into not loving, and what you once loved together will turn into cheating, and you will look for other comforts outside. If you have the ability, it is not only a return, but also a step forward, moving together into a happy relationship.

2: To stimulate your husband’s sense of guilt. Cheating needs to make him pay a price. If it is too easy to forgive, the price of cheating is too low, and it is easy to commit the crime again. If he is not forgiven, the marriage cannot be saved.

3: To save a marriage, you have to fumble alone. Without experience, it is easy to take detours and it is very tiring. You need to learn from experienced people, seek consultation and help, and be targeted and prescribe the right medicine, so that you can get twice the result with half the effort.