picture/from the Internet. Please contact us for deletion if there is any infringement.
Get married, have children, have children, and start a family. The cycle starts over and over again. In this cycle of life, people who are not close to you will gradually drift away from you.
People who are closely related to you will appear in front of you due to different circumstances, and in-laws are the new relatives that will be brought to you due to the fate of your children.
You had no intersection in the first half of your life, but because of the fate of your children, you were forced to become the most familiar strangers.
Your relationship cannot be considered as acquaintance, but you are forced to smile when you meet and say things that are sincere or covert.
The relationship between in-laws is undoubtedly the most fragile. After all, you had no emotional foundation in the first half of your life. Everything is the result of the bond between your children. Such a relationship foundation can easily fall apart if you are not careful.
Therefore, no matter how good the relationship between your in-laws is, you should not have any financial dealings with them, lest you end up suffering the consequences.
1: Money is the best test of the human heart, and it is always exposed inadvertently.
The human heart is the most complex. You will never know the truest thoughts in the heart of the person smiling opposite you.
Maybe the other person has hidden evil intentions, or maybe the other person doesn't treat you sincerely. Of course, these various dark thoughts will not be exposed to the sun.
In order to maintain superficial harmony, you must not easily have financial dealings with your in-laws.
Once money is involved between in-laws, the already complicated relationship will become even more complicated. You will have a creditor-debtor relationship superimposed on the in-laws relationship.
The relationship between creditors and debtors is one of the most likely to turn against one another.
Whether it is the creditor or the debtor, they need to bear corresponding risks. If you, as a creditor, borrow money from your in-laws but fail to pay it back within the stipulated time, you will be troubled no matter what you do.
reminder, affecting feelings. If you don't push, if the other party has no intention of paying back the money, then you will have no choice but to swallow your grievance in vain, and your hard-earned money will be wasted.
If you are a debtor, if something unexpected happens to your repayment plan, or if you are unable to repay the debt as promised, it is a foreseeable result that the relationship between your in-laws will break down.
Money can test people's hearts the most. It will always expose you unbearably inadvertently. Being exposed is often a burden that your relationship cannot bear.
2: Money exchanges with in-laws are most likely to affect the relationship between children
If money exchanges only affect the relationship between in-laws, it is also a great blessing among misfortunes, but often everything has disconnected causes and consequences.
If you think that money exchanges with your in-laws are just mutual aid between adults, then you are thinking too simply.
Don’t forget that what connects you is the union of your children with each other’s children. A single move affects the whole body. All interactions between you and your in-laws, whether good or bad, will affect your children without exception. marriage.
Especially when vital interests are involved, human nature dictates that it is always easier for both parties to reveal their ugly faces.
Some people may feel that they are superior to their relatives because of their status as a creditor because they lent money to them, and they always show off their power at home without any scruples.
Maybe the debtor will feel psychologically that his conditions are not as good as those of the other party because he borrowed money from his in-laws, so it is easier for him to feel humble...
All these thoughts will be inadvertently projected into his behavior. , the behavior of in-laws is often the most critical factor that determines whether the relationship between children is harmonious.
The creditors will be carried away with their pride, and the debtors will be worried if they cannot repay the money on time, which will become a grain of snow falling on their heads.
When it comes to an avalanche, no snowflake is innocent. When children have problems in their marriage, the quality of their relationship with their in-laws will also have a certain bearing on it.
Some people are very devoted to their relatives and wish to give all the good things to them in the hope that they can give special treatment to their children.
I have to say that such selflessness will bring you trouble. It is still appropriate to maintain a somewhat mysterious distance between people, so as not to be annoying.
The most important thing that in-laws should pay attention to is that it is best not to have financial dealings with each other easily.
No matter what, this is a business with only losses but no profits. Be careful, in the end, you will lose your wife and lose your troops. The gains outweigh the losses.
END
