The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a troublesome thing since ancient times. It seems that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies. But where are the natural enemies? Aren’t all grievances gradually formed through prejudice and interaction? Especially when you encounter those mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who don't know how to get along, understand and tolerate each other, such conflicts are more likely to occur.
Recently in Zhengzhou, Henan, when a mother came home, she unexpectedly saw a very disturbing scene. The video showed that the mother-in-law of this precious mother was holding a child and video chatting with her father-in-law in her hometown. The mother-in-law complained to her father-in-law that it was because the child ate cold melon and ice cream, which caused the child to keep fussing after feeding, and she had to blame her. I kept holding it and couldn't rest.
The mother-in-law also said that she no longer wanted to stay at her daughter-in-law's house. If it weren't for her grandson, she would have gone back long ago. In another video, the mother-in-law is holding her grandson in one hand and videoing on her mobile phone in the other. When Bao's mother saw this, she stepped forward to remind her that the child was about to fall. However, her mother-in-law said to her daughter-in-law in an angrily manner, "I can't drop you." This made Bao's mother very angry but also full of helplessness.
This mother revealed that she just took a cold bite, and in life, they often have different opinions on raising children. Just about 2 months after giving birth, her mother-in-law started to have a second child. What makes it even more difficult for her to accept is that her mother-in-law often taught her children some words about not wanting their mother when she was raising her children. Fortunately, the children are still young and can't understand them.
I have to say that with such a mother-in-law, it’s strange that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be so good. Of course, good and bad are mutual. From the daughter-in-law's point of view, the mother-in-law is definitely wrong, but whether the daughter-in-law is considerate and tolerant of her mother-in-law is also a key factor in whether the mother-in-law is easy to get along with. In short, it would be better for the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to have fewer disputes, as this would be beneficial to both parties.
What do you think?
