Story summary:
Xiao Li and Xiao Zhang are cousins. They grew up playing together and have a close relationship. After both of them got married and started a business, they each had their own families. Especially last year, they discussed and jointly chose a community in the city and sold a house in the same building. The two families have become closer and are almost inseparable. They eat together every day, ride in the car together, and even live together casually. .
However, the good times did not last long. The two families gradually developed a gap and complained to each other. In the end, they became enemies. Xiao Li sold the house and moved to live elsewhere. The two families became inseparable enemies. Let’s explore the origin of the story. , especially what to pay attention to in life.
Cause Analysis
1. Eat.
Xiao Zhang’s family of three must have one meal every day. If they have to go to Xiao Li’s house to eat, the food feels the same as it should be. Sometimes it doesn’t suit the taste and they point fingers. But it’s good to treat Xiao Li’s house to you once a week.
Think about it, no matter how close you are, it won’t work, unless it’s your own parents, who always want to get something for nothing and eat for free , who is willing to serve you and listen to your “comments”.
2, live.
Xiao Zhang and Xiao Li's family live in the same building, very close to each other. The two families are almost inseparable. Xiao Zhang plays very late at Xiao Li's house every night, after dinner, watching TV, etc. Xiao Li's family has Sorry to remind you, the key is that sometimes when you drink too much, you leave home and just lie down on the sofa or bed at Xiao Li's house to sleep, just like you are at home, and you still feel good about yourself.
This kind of approach will inevitably affect other people's rest. They only consider personal feelings and do not consider other people's lives. How can it last long.
3, OK.
Xiao Zhang’s family owns a car and rarely drives it, so they often hitch a ride on Xiao Li’s family. Sometimes they ask for help on long distances for different reasons. Even if they refuel on the way, they don't say anything, or treat them to a meal, give them a red envelope, etc. It feels like it should be the same.
There is no such thing as love for no reason. I took a ride from relatives and friends, took advantage of it, and didn’t even say that I would do it again in the future.
Brief summary
1. Don’t get too close to relatives. During the biggest events such as festivals or weddings, just be polite to each other.
Especially when you are in embarrassment and down, you should not visit relatives and friends frequently, which will make others look down upon or even disgust you, don’t you think?
2. Favors from relatives also need to be repaid, don't take them for granted. Treat each other with food and treat each other with courtesy. You can't just ask for it, but you must also give it in time.
Taking someone else’s car should not be taken for granted. Should I pay for gas?
3. Try not to stay with relatives, which will affect others' normal rest. No matter if it's once or twice, or a day or two, no one can bear it after a long time.
The key is to affect the normal rest and life of others and bring a lot of inconvenience, don’t you think?
Summary
Are old traditions and experiences still justified? Above, I only communicated with my friends from the three aspects of food, accommodation and transportation. Everyone is welcome to speak freely, exchange guidance, make timely additions, and share life insights. Thank you.
