Hi, good evening, I am your little emotional blogger Postman Thirteen.
Tonight I would like to share with you the story from three hundred and forty-three .
Just deleted a delivery address
Just canceled the weather forecast of a city
Just... lost you
He and I met in school. At that time, we were more than friends, but not lovers.
We have made an appointment and will be together when we are admitted to the same university.
We passed the age where we could not fall in love, but we were separated in two places. He and I were admitted to schools in different places.
As a result, we didn’t raise any objections to the fact that we were together after graduation, and we all pretended to be stupid in a tacit understanding.
But we still go to each other's school occasionally. The distance is very long, but it can't stop me from wanting to see him.
I understand that even if we can't be together, the good memories from before still exist.
At that time, I thought, since we can’t be lovers, let’s continue to be good friends.
At the very least, good friends have a longer shelf life than lovers.
At least, we can talk about everything, and the occasional ambiguity can make each other feel good.
But those of us who consider ourselves "good friends" have long since exceeded the boundaries of friendship in the eyes of our friends.
They had already assumed that I was with him, but he and I didn't know it.
So, he and I came together when we were so ambiguous and without expressing our feelings to each other.
However, after we got together, we found that many things began to change.
For example, if someone said that they were busy with other things before, and the time was too long, the other person could hold back even if he missed it again.
But I can’t do that now. I will start to be irritable and have random thoughts. What is the other person busy with? Is it really that busy?
still said, I just don’t want to reply.
Slowly, there are more and more problems between us. Coupled with the fact that we are in different places, many things that can be explained clearly when we meet in person, but change it into language, but it takes a long and long text, and the final effect is only worse and worse.
Because the words across the screen are cold and biting to lovers.
is just like us, we know the root causes of many problems, but still have no way to solve them.
Long-distance relationships are difficult. We knew it from the beginning, but we didn’t expect it would be so difficult.
I can’t see or touch it. The desire to share it with you at a certain moment will gradually become numb after getting no response; the feeling of missing you at a certain moment will also become even missing because you are “occupied” again and again. , and dare not say it easily.
Then let’s meet.
Yes, all problems can be solved by meeting.
We thought so at the time, but every time we met, we seemed to slowly get used to this long-distance relationship.
Every meeting in a long-distance relationship is passionate, but every separation will be filled with reluctance and sadness.
Also, no matter which method you use, it will become a habit, and eventually, it will become a natural thing.
The passion will eventually fade one day. After all, long-distance love is just a stopgap measure between two people, it is just the desire for the love that they could not get at the beginning.
People are always like this, greedy and don't know how to cherish.
People are greedy and want more. After losing, they will learn to reflect and cherish, but they don’t know that all this is of no use.
The maintenance of a relationship actually has nothing to do with whether it is a long-distance relationship. What can defeat a long-distance relationship is never the long-distance relationship itself.
What can maintain a love relationship is understanding and trust.
Finally, may you survive everything and be happy.
I am postman Thirteen. I wish you a good sleep tonight, no dreams, good night.
