The world is ever-changing, and people are also diverse. In the world of adults, we have long been accustomed to not overly distinguishing between right and wrong.
Because, except for specific good and bad, everything else is different, and there are not so many nit-picking differences between right and wrong.
What's more, everyone is different, especially boys, who have different levels in the eyes of girls.
Some boys are just sweet and will be nice to the people around them. If they have some money, time and love, they will radiate it to their relatives, friends and lovers. They are commonly known as "little sun type" men. They give everything The light of oneself is also the light that one brings.
But most of the boys in life are demanding type.
He will consider more about the practical significance this relationship brings to him, and whether it can bring maximum help to his career or economy. He will get a benefit from this kind of maximum benefit to himself. A sense of security and satisfaction. You can't say he is bad, but you can't say he is good either.
In other words, if your family resources are lower than that of a "little sun type" giving person, do you think he will care?
will not.
On the contrary, he will feel that he is very happy to know you. You have many shining points, and he values these very much.
To put it bluntly, as long as a boy like that likes you, no matter you are ugly or beautiful, he will block everything for you.
To put it more intuitively, you can look at Zhang Jiani and her husband, and change it to Wang Sicong . Do you think Zhang Jiani can hold it?
When you are with a "demanding" man, you are in a bad mood, you are offended, and your relationship with your mother-in-law and your daughter-in-law is in trouble. Can you reason with the demanding man confidently?
I'm sorry, if you show off your face, the other party may only coax you based on the situation. Isn't it bad that he is the demanding man? No, he grew up in such a family environment. Before doing anything, he was accustomed to thinking about the space that was beneficial to him before doing it.
That is his inertial thinking. It is difficult for you to use love or some kind of value that you think is meaningful to shake or change his already formed thoughts and cognitions.
Because that is his ability to survive, and it is also the deep-rooted things and dramas that he uses to see the world and deal with things and people. If these are missing, it will kill him.
He may also be very selfish and realistic. If you give him what he wants, he will keep you by his side. If someone can give him better, he will naturally start to dislike you, but as for his mouth, he is He won't say it outright, and he will make you feel that it was your fault that he didn't make a better choice, but that you were ashamed of him.
Therefore, don’t think that a woman is very scheming and skillful, and that’s why she stayed with a “successful” man.
may just be the man she chooses. She makes balanced efforts in all aspects and constantly makes up for the difference, just enough to satisfy him. She is also very goal-oriented and patient, but in the eyes of outsiders, this is praised as her emotional intelligence. Sometimes, people say this I have to endure it and bow my head.
No matter what kind of boys they are, girls must remember their original intentions and remember that in the end, loving each other comfortably is the most nurturing and heart-nurturing thing.
Perhaps in this increasingly utilitarian era, everyone wants to negotiate terms and add chips to relationships in order to find more favorable situations for themselves, but don’t forget that love is the most unpredictable and unpredictable thing. of.
It is possible that all these things you do will only look ridiculous, and ultimately be worthless and end in disgrace.
When talking about money, talk about money carefully. When talking about feelings, talk about feelings sincerely. Don't confuse money and feelings.
Otherwise, in the end, you may not know whether you are talking about money or feelings.
