Mo Yan said in "The Late Bloomer": "A truly strong person does not forget, but accepts. Accepts parting ways, accepts the impermanence of the world, accepts loneliness and frustration, accepts sudden powerlessness, accepts one's own imperfections, accepts confusion, uneasiness, A

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Mo Yan said in " Late Bloomers ": "A truly strong person does not forget, but accepts.

accepts parting ways, Accept the impermanence of the world, accept loneliness and frustration, accept the sudden feeling of powerlessness, accept your own imperfections, accept confusion, anxiety, anxiety and regret.

Adjust your state, find the strength to move on, and become a better version of yourself.”

Only by constantly strengthening and defeating oneself can a person defeat others.

01. Feed yourself

Feed yourself and live a decent life, which is the primary pursuit of adults.

A person who cannot even support himself lacks the courage to take care of others, lacks the energy to help others, and most importantly, has no money to establish himself, let alone other things.

The most direct way for adults to support themselves is to be financially independent.

When you are still relying on your elderly parents to support yourself in your twenties or sixties, life may be easy and happy for you, but you don’t know that the pain and pressure are just transferred to your parents;

When you get married and have children, you still live a life with upward palms and need to look after your husband. When your parents-in-law look bad and are reluctant to buy expensive things and don’t dare to buy the clothes and shoes you like, you may think this is the truth about marriage, but you don’t know that if you deceive yourself for too long, people around you will get tired of it;

When you can’t withstand any accidents in life, Never buy anything expensive and necessary for your parents, never pay for your own passion and likes,

When you don’t dare to get sick and don’t dare to live as you want, don’t worry, the pressure and troubles life will give you have just begun, which is even more disturbing. Crazy fun is waiting for you.

You don't have to make a lot of money or have a lot of savings, but you do have to have a career, job, or skill that can support you.

Never think of relying on anyone, parents, significant other, or siblings. Everyone has their own life and their own pressures and responsibilities.

Any guarantee and financial support given to you by external forces is unreliable and uncertain.

If you work hard to make money, you must at least be able to support yourself. You don’t need to be rich, but at least you can live with dignity. Even if you are a little poorer, you must support yourself and have the confidence, freedom and right to choose. This is the real sense of security.

02. Take care of yourself

Take care of your body, take care of your emotions, and take care of your life.

Good health means getting rich.

No matter what happens, you should pay attention to and take good care of your body.

If you eat on time, rest on time, and have a regular diet, you will have fewer minor physical problems, your mood will improve, and your life will get better and better.

The body is our only reliance and support. Only with good health can you have good emotions, and stable emotions are the support for a stable life.

Life is a series of links. No matter how busy you are, you must remember to eat, no matter how tired you are, you must remember to rest, and take care of your body and emotions. This is the most basic consciousness and responsibility of adults.

03. Adjust yourself

There is a saying: "The most important growth in life starts from accepting your own ordinaryness."

Everyone will be anxious and dissatisfied with their current self, so they are in a bad mood, but life still has to be Continue, the most important thing is that we must learn to adjust ourselves.

You can talk to friends, go shopping and eat to distract your attention. The sadder you are, the more you need to love yourself.

Everyone has his own troubles and problems. Learn to enlighten and adjust yourself, not to consume yourself internally for unworthy people and things, and not to bother yourself with unnecessary entanglements.

04. Believe in yourself

Whatever you believe, you will become!

The belief that "Revitalize My Life" wants to convey to contemporary young lives: "Life may not always be good, but people with a small universe in their hearts can always turn crises into opportunities and make themselves a miracle in the eyes of others."

Believing in yourself is not a blind arrogance of feeling good about yourself, nor is it the recklessness of a newborn calf who is not afraid of tigers.

But when you feel like you can't hold on, when you feel like you can't hold on, when you feel like you're in terrible shape, you can help yourself and cheer yourself up.

Believe in yourself, which is a powerful force. Don’t give up easily and don’t feel inferior easily.

When you fully trust yourself, you will have better motivation and courage to face more unknown difficulties.

05. Control yourself

Control yourself and fulfill yourself, which is the best way for a person to keep improving.

When you enter the society, no one has the obligation or the right to control you. Everything depends on your own consciousness, which is in line with the saying, "The more self-discipline you have, the more freedom you have."

Once we leave school and enter the society, we will No one will look after us like before.

What kind of person we can become depends entirely on ourselves and self-discipline.

Whether you go to bed early and get up early or stay up late watching TV shows, work hard or give up on yourself, live seriously or just muddle along, you can only control yourself.

Take care of yourself, take care of your body, and stay healthy; take care of your emotions, maintain a normal and positive attitude; take care of your life, take care of yourself, and you will have defeated the world.

06. Reflect on yourself

Those who know how to reflect are the ones that life will truly reward.

In life, we all make mistakes, say the wrong things, do the wrong things, invisible or unintentional. The accumulation of small mistakes makes us who we are.

Small mistakes are not allowed, big mistakes are easy.

Any tiny mistake may bring unnecessary trouble to us. People around you may understand and tolerate you once or twice, but if the number of times is too many, everyone will lose patience and stay away from you.

Only by correcting the subtleties can we improve and improve day by day.

07. Appreciate yourself

Maybe you are not perfect, but you deserve to be appreciated and liked by yourself.

Appreciate yourself and accept yourself.

No one is perfect. Understand yourself clearly, view your shortcomings and advantages correctly, do not feel inferior because of shortcomings, and do not be conceited because of advantages.

Keep a normal mentality and appreciate yourself as just right. Even if you are not the most beautiful or the best, just an inconspicuous existence among the ordinary people, don't be depressed by it.

Appreciate your own strengths, appreciate your own strengths, and appreciate your good places.

When you accept yourself with more confidence, you can let yourself shine more and attract people who truly appreciate you.

allows us to become truly strong people, no longer afraid of falls and failures, face ourselves bravely and face every day bravely.

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