Human relations have always been a troublesome thing. Especially when it comes to wedding gifts, when faced with invitations from classmates and friends with whom you don't have a close relationship, it is a big problem whether to go to the appointment or whether to give gifts. Because the relationship has faded, if you go to an appointment and give gifts, it is very likely to end up being a meat bun beating a dog.
Recently, when a woman in Chongqing got married, she specially invited her old classmates from college. The woman and this old classmate had a good relationship when they were in school, but after graduation, as time and distance separated them, the contact between the two gradually diminished. During this marriage, the woman thought of her old classmates and felt that her marriage should be "blessed" by her old classmates.
But what she couldn't believe was that her old classmate actually sent her a greeting card, saying that she was getting married in September this year, so she would not send any gift money, and the woman would not need to send her any gift money then. However, the woman was shocked by what her old classmate said, and said she couldn't accept it at all. It seemed like the old classmate would stop interacting with each other until they died.
Netizens also commented on this:
"My friend and I got married not long ago. We discussed it in advance, and the gift money was waived. Saved me having to send it back and forth."
This is good. Ah, and she also wrote blessings in her own hand, so if she doesn’t give you a gift, you don’t have to give her a gift, which is great!
"I think it's good. When my child was one month old, I took away the red envelope from my colleagues. I said I won't give it to you when you have the child, but it requires a good relationship."
In fact, as long as it is sensible, Everyone will see that this method is very appropriate. After all, they haven't had much contact with each other for two years. To put it bluntly, if it weren't for marriage, wouldn't they have been separated from each other for the rest of their lives? And for a so-called friend who is destined not to have much interaction from now on, sending blessings and clearly stating that no gifts will be given to each other, I don't understand what the woman is shocked about?
What do you think?
