When I was 20 years old, I felt that the world was really unfair. Why were some people born with good conditions, such as good looks, good family background, and good education, while I was so mediocre and poor?
When I was 25 years old, I thought I was pretty cool and was living a pretty good life. I graduated from a secondary school and got a bachelor's degree. I went from being a trainer at Pizza Hut with a salary of 2,000 yuan to a babysitting lady in a confinement center with a salary of 8,000 yuan.
I have not become an elite or leader in this society, but I am happy for every little progress I make.
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I came out to work in a technical secondary school and suffered "severe beatings" from society.
My name is Pingping. My parents are both authentic farmers. The conditions at home are not good. After farming, my parents will also choose to work in surrounding cities. Since I was a child, they have told me that I should study hard and use knowledge to change my destiny. Unfortunately, I failed to live up to their expectations. I was never very good at studying, so I had to go to a technical technical school, and I wasn't very good in my major. I started working when I was 22 years old.
My first job was as a trainer at Pizza Hut. The salary is very low, less than 2,000 yuan per month. I live in a small, shabby single room in an urban village. At that time, I felt that since I was working, I couldn’t use my parents’ money. In the first month when I started working, I was very nervous and I was afraid of eating instant noodles.
had just entered the society at that time. He had not been "beaten" by the society and had no care at all. I had only been working for more than a year when I encountered an online fraud and lost 2,000 yuan inexplicably. I was sad for a long time and thought: Why would you choose someone like me to lie to? I'm so poor!
Girls of the same age wear exquisite makeup and carry big-name bags while sitting at Starbucks drinking coffee; while I pass the dishes, serve cashiers, and take tables at Pizza Hut. How I wish I was one of them, but I know how big the gap is between dreams and reality. I have no money, a cup of 33 yuan coffee is my daily meal expenses.
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earned a salary of 8,000+ yuan in a confinement center, and also passed the undergraduate examination.
The opportunity to learn to be a nanny was coincidental. A relative I know enrolled in a class to recover after giving birth, and wanted to open a maternity and health care shop on his own. He said that the salary in the maternal and infant industry is not bad, so why not give it a try. Although I am not married, I love babies. Relatives and friends also said that I am very fond of babies. Babies that are born will cry when others hold them, but I always smile when I hold them.
My salary is too low, and I urgently need an opportunity to change my income situation. So I first went to find out what a nanny does every day and what skills he needs to master. Many courses on the Internet teach very scattered things. They explain one thing at a time, which makes me confused.
I signed up for the gold medal nanny class of Lebang Education with the mentality of giving it a try. During this period, my skills improved by leaps and bounds, and I felt like I had endless power to push me to learn. Slowly, I developed the habit of reading books, taking notes, and reviewing knowledge every day. Thanks to these study habits developed in the training, I regained the motivation to take self-study undergraduate degree in and , and obtained the self-study undergraduate degree one year later.
Salary has increased: monthly income from 2,000 to 8,000; academic qualifications have increased: from technical secondary school to self-taught undergraduate degree; I can clearly see my changes, progress, potential, strength, and new possibilities .
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Some suggestions for girls aged 20-30
1. The starting point is low, and it is more important to increase self-value as early as possible. Don't make excuses for yourself, right now, right now, learn to drive, study, make money, improve your appearance... do anything that is beneficial to you, start from now on.
2. Don’t think that learning is useless. Many times, knowledge is your confidence, your cultivation, your trump card, and the weapon that allows you to leapfrog classes in one step when the opportunity comes.
3. Youth and beauty will depreciate, but ability will not. No one’s youthful appearance can be preserved forever, but a career of your own can make your future life happier. Financial independence gives you more choices and confidence.
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