My grandfather had no background, no high education, and only average abilities. But in the end, he became the monitor of the soy sauce production workshop from a temporary worker. This position may not seem worth mentioning now, but at that time, there were many people crowded i

Grandpa had no background, low academic qualifications, and average abilities. But in the end, he became the monitor of the soy sauce production workshop from a temporary worker. This position may not seem worth mentioning now, but at that time, it was used by many people. Even if you squeeze your brains out, you may not be able to get it. For this reason, grandpa was "proud" for a long time.

Later, when I also set foot on the job, I also encountered the same problem, so I ran to ask my grandpa what was the secret of "victory"?

Grandpa smiled:

"Learn Wang Yangming 's three things, you can do it too..."

Three things?

I'm confused. I'm just a small production squad leader. How can I invite the great sage Wang?

For this reason, I deliberately read a lot of information about Wang Yangming, and studied his "three no-minds" for a long time... Later, I finally understood my grandfather's good intentions.

So which of these three factors really have such a big effect?

Listen to me talk about it, and you will understand...

One, no matter what the person is,

A, B, C, Ding, Ji, Geng, Xin, Rengui, nine people entered a graphic design training class together. Because A has a relatively strong receptive ability, He learned the fastest, so he was often pestered by Ji Geng, Xin Rengui and several other students who were not good at learning to ask questions.

are all students in the same training class, so A naturally talks about everything he knows.

However, A's good deeds were quickly ridiculed by B, B and D:

"I make myself look like a master and expert, but I am just a student. What are you talking about?"

"I know only a little bit about it." He is a half-hearted person, and he is misleading others by teaching others. "

"Oh, there is a peacock like him in three acres of fields..."

Please tell me, if you are A, what will you do when faced with the ridicule of B, B, and D? what to do?

Some people say, of course, you should fight back, or simply imitate the ostrich and plunge into the sand without teaching, so as not to be criticized.

does this, is it correct?

Look at what Confucius did when encountered a similar situation, and you will understand:

It is said that when Confucius traveled around the world, some people ridiculed him:

"Look at that Kong Lao Er, lobbying and giving speeches everywhere, and making himself miserable. It's like asking a question in a university... As a result, no one paid attention to him, and he was as tired as a lost dog!"

When the disciples told Confucius these unpleasant and mocking words, Confucius laughed and said:

"Although I don't look like a dog, judging from my current desolate situation, I am indeed a bereaved dog...don't you think so?"

A saint is a saint -

" in life "Not laughing" is everywhere and happens every day. If we have to care about everything and pay attention to every word, won't we be exhausted?

As a human being, you should be more generous. Why care about those meaningless smiles? If you have this leisure, you might as well add a little knowledge and happiness to yourself. Why bother yourself?

Do you think so?

2, no matter people slander

writer Zhang Haipeng ( Zhou Dongyu , Zhang Yishan 's "Spring Breeze, Not as Good As You" starring is adapted from his novel "Beijing, Beijing"), once he crossed the border and became a real person He is the host of the show "Sou Shen Ji". As a result, as soon as the program was launched, it caused an uproar among netizens: What's wrong with

, you can't write a book anymore? Have you changed your career to become a host? ...not doing your job properly...thinking about money is crazy...hosting is not suitable for you, you should go back to being a writer, that promising career... .

and so on. Anyway, there are all kinds of things to say. In short, there is not a good word.

Faced with the doubts and slander from netizens, even Zhang Haipeng’s friends couldn’t stand it anymore and left him a private message:

“What’s wrong with you? Why don’t you stand up and calm down, even if you just say something, it’s good!”

However, Zhang Haipeng replied lightly:

"Forget it, scold me, it's their business..."

...

Many people say Stephen Chow is a selfish man with a bad temper. A very bad on-set tyrant.

However, facts have proven that Stephen Chow is not only a selfish maniac, but also a tyrant on the set. On the contrary, he is extremely generous, very considerate to his artists, and a person who is easy to get along with.

I would like to ask you, what should you do if you are faced with unfounded accusations or even malicious slander?

I believe that the vast majority of people will choose to "swear" back, even if it doesn't work, they will record a video to clarify...

However, Stephen Chow did nothing, said nothing, and just chose silence.

......

There are many people in this world, more than 7 billion, and there are many things, thousands and thousands of them, but in fact there are two kinds of people: men and women; two things: none of my business What's the matter? What does it have to do with you?

In this life, instead of carefully being a person who lives in other people's mouths, it is better to happily be a person who lives for yourself.

In the face of unwarranted doubts and scoldings, and even malicious slanders and slanders, only by not arguing or defending can we be truly magnanimous.

3, regardless of a person's honor or disgrace

Faced with Lian Po's deliberate instigation, unwarranted abuse, and even malicious insults to his personality, Lin Xiangru blindly tolerated and deliberately avoided it. In the end, even the cleaning people knew that Lin Xiangru was afraid. Lian Po is like a mouse afraid of a cat.

Suddenly, Lin Xiangru, who was once majestic and had always been regarded as a savior in myths and legends, fell from the altar, changed from a hero to a bear, and from a myth to a joke.

However, Lin Xiangru didn't take it seriously at all. He still had to eat and sleep every day. He took a bath and ate barbecue, feeling comfortable every second.

The soldiers under his command couldn't stand it anymore, so they came to ask Lin Xiangru:

"I said, Grandpa Xiang, why are you so big-hearted? Then General Lian almost rode on your head and pulled S, you, you Why don't you know how to be ashamed? Hey, our faces are almost completely embarrassed by you..."

Lin Xiangru laughed after hearing this:

"You are all ashamed because I am afraid of General Lian, but I am because You think I am ashamed and ashamed of being afraid of General Lian... Let me ask you, I am not even afraid of King Qin, but dare to ask him for fifteen cities in person. I want to ask, how can I be afraid of a small King of Zhao? ......

The reason why I accommodated and tolerated him again and again was actually based on the interests of the people and the rise and fall of the country. Think about it, if General Lian and I were at war with each other, the people would still be able to do it. If the country is stable, how can the country be undefeated? "

All the soldiers were ashamed when they heard this.

...

It is precisely because Lin Xiangru had such a broad mind that in his future career, even after suffering countless setbacks and blows, he still stood firm, became more comfortable as he lived, and achieved great things. career.

Compared with the evolution and formation of the universe, the ebb and flow of the earth are nothing. Compared with the tossing and turning of the earth, the reproduction and reproduction of all things are nothing. And compared with the rise and fall of all things, personal gains and losses are nothing. ?

people, you still need to recognize yourself, know the choices, and learn to let go, so that you can live more easily and understand more and more.

General comments:

Conduct your life in such a way that you don’t care about people’s ridicule, slander, honor or disgrace; then you will have smooth sailing for the rest of your life... You think so, right?

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