Women are emotional, and sometimes they are very blind when it comes to love. Even if the people around them think it is not worth it, they will love them with all their hearts. Although love is beautiful, sincerity needs to be given to the right person, and all the efforts will be appreciated. Get cherished and rewarded, otherwise if you meet someone unkind, you will not only suffer a lot of grievances after marriage, but you may also lose both your life and wealth.
In life, many marriage models are in which the male is the breadwinner and the female is the homemaker. The man is the backbone of the family and is responsible for making money to support the family, while the woman devotes her energy and time to the family. At critical moments, she will also use her savings to support the man. In order to make the family better, husband and wife are a community. Only by working together and supporting each other can they face the ups and downs in life. However, human nature is also very selfish. Some people will accompany you through thick and thin, but cannot accompany you. Fugui, when you meet such a person, don't hand over the initiative easily, otherwise the harm you will suffer will only be greater.
Xu Ting is a love brain, advocating the supremacy of love and freedom of marriage. For her, the most important thing is to find someone she likes. Until she met Yang Hui, Yang Hui was handsome and enthusiastic. Under his pursuit , Xu Ting quickly fell in love, and even developed to the point of getting married.
But this relationship is not favored by the people around him. The reason is that Yang Hui is a Phoenix man and his family background is not good. Xu Ting does not mind at all. In her opinion, the relationship is the most important in marriage. As for the other things, It's entirely possible for two people to work hard, and one day you will have what others have.
With a beautiful longing for love, Xu Ting married Yang Hui without asking for any gifts or a house. They also spent a happy time after the marriage. Yang Hui was indeed very good to her, almost obedient and responsive to all requests. In order to enable her husband to have a better career, Xu Ting not only devoted all her money, but also took care of his worries at home and kept the house in order.
With Xu Ting's help, Yang Hui's career began to get on the right track. He thought that the quality of life had improved and the family would get better and better, but Yang Hui changed. Maybe it was the poverty that had always made him feel inferior. He can't hold his head up in front of his wife. When he is no longer worried about money, his vanity and sense of superiority become stronger. Or maybe it's because his wife has devoted all her energy to the family in the past two years and has not taken care of herself as before, and her figure has deteriorated. She began to look out of shape, and the clothes she wore were lackluster. Yang Hui was no longer attracted to Xu Ting, but began to dislike her.
Faced with her husband’s sarcastic remarks from time to time, Xu Ting chose to tolerate it again and again. Unfortunately, excessive tolerance is connivance. His wife’s weakness did not allow him to return to the family. Yang Hui eventually betrayed the marriage. Xu Ting cried and made trouble for this, but Yang Hui The relationship was never completely divorced. Seeing the marriage fail, Xu Ting had no choice but to make a choice for her own life. She directly proposed a divorce and asked her husband to leave the house.
Yang Hui is a person with a good face, and he doesn’t want this matter to become known to everyone, so he has to compromise, but he is still angry in his heart and directly sarcastically said: Divorce me, who will dare to want you in the future? Xu Ting replied coldly: I will only live better if I leave you.
Buffett once said: The most important decision in your life is who you marry. When it comes to choosing a partner, you will lose a lot if you make the wrong choice, and the losses are not just monetary. It’s true. Marriage is a lifelong relationship. Only when you choose the right person can you have true happiness after marriage. Therefore, when you are in love, you should not love too blindly, let alone choose to get married impulsively. Spend more time to understand the other person’s character. and temper, take the next step when you feel it is suitable, instead of stepping into the palace of marriage based on temporary goodwill, otherwise you will often be wronged when you encounter someone who is not kind to you.
Similarly, when your marriage is facing failure, you should not blindly blame others and fill yourself with negative energy. After all, life is your own. Only by finding a way out for yourself to the maximum extent can you avoid falling into a dilemma and encountering problems. When you are with the right person, you must cherish it, but when you really trust the wrong person, you must also have the courage to stop the loss in time. Do not struggle repeatedly in an unfortunate marriage and waste your youth. Only by taking the initiative can you start a new one. Life. #Marriage##Emotion##Emotional Office#
