Half-way couples usually mean that after divorce, they bring their children and start a family again. Such situations are not uncommon in life, but some have achieved happiness, and some end up in a bleak old age. Of course, everyone has the right to pursue happiness. Once they get no comfort in their marriage, they will choose to divorce, and if they meet the person they like, they will live with them. But the prerequisite is that you can't hurt your children, and you can't abandon your own children to raise other people's babies, otherwise you will end up miserably.
living together for 21 years, but being driven out when old
I read such a story on the Internet, a 72-year-old man named Yang Ziqiang, he divorced his husband and wife 21 years ago, Choosing his favorite girlfriend, Mr. Yang abandoned his biological son and his original wife to live with his girlfriend. This has been 21 years.
The two did not receive a marriage certificate, but he was very conscientious and took the initiative to take care of his girlfriend's two children. However, as he grew older, Mr. Yang was treated unfairly. He said that at the age of 72, he was increasingly disgusted by his girlfriend's family. He seldom talked to him during normal communication. If he didn't agree with him, his family would be beaten and beaten.
Even if he turns on the air conditioner at home, he has to be careful, and he even has to pay 4 yuan for the air conditioner every day, otherwise his girlfriend will accuse him of wasting electricity and put it on the wall. Some charge details. Old Yang felt that he had been greatly insulted, and it made him clearly feel that his girlfriend's family disliked him.
At the same time, he also said that his girlfriend was going to visit relatives in the United States with his daughter, and he didn't know if he would come back. He also thought that this was a precursor to sweeping him out, although his girlfriend's daughter promised him 10 yuan a day for living expenses However, Mr. Yang felt that this was sending a beggar. He also thought that his girlfriend's family was killing the donkey. He was useless and became a burden when he was old, so his family wanted to throw him out quickly.
The girlfriend’s family is well handled,Claiming that the "stepfather" had a weird temper and deliberately looked for things
It was just that when the reporter was interviewing Mr. Yang's girlfriend, he heard from the other party that it was Mr. Yang's temper that was getting more and more weird and his family could not bear him. In addition, Mr. Yang’s girlfriend also said that she was getting older and older. She was taking care of Mr. Yang when she was young, but now she is a little bit powerless, and the whole family did not dare to go out. It's just that Mr. Yang himself was stunned with his family.
Of course, the reporter also interviewed the daughter of an old-age girlfriend. According to her, this "stepfather" gets angry at every turn and often threatens his family. Sometimes he says he wants to drink pesticides and sometimes he hangs himself, which makes people really intolerable. She also said that her mother and the elderly did not receive a marriage certificate at all, and her mother is now in a state of no divorce. It can be seen that the marriage between Lao Yang and this girlfriend is not legal, but why can the relationship last for more than 20 years? The children of the old-age girlfriend did not object to it, which is unbelievable.
His own son came to help, and an agreement made the old man nowhere to be self-confident
However, Mr. Yang argued that when he was young, he used to buy odd jobs to support his girlfriend’s son’s family. He also paid out some of the money. Now that he is old and useless, the whole family wants to sweep themselves out of the house, and it feels maddening to think about it. But the attitude of the old girlfriend of Yang's family is very firm, insisting on separating the two elderly people. The daughter of the girlfriend also said that her mother has been a nanny for him for more than ten years, and she has contributed and paid for him. She is very worthy of Yang.
Mr. Yang had no choice but to call his own son for help, but his son came up with an agreement and immediately made old man Yang Zhiqiang faceless. The agreement clearly stated that Mr. Yang had derailed during the marriage and that the common property of both husband and wife belonged to the wife. After the divorce, the relationship between father and son will be severed and there will no longer be any intersection.
That means Mr. Yang abandoned his wife and son 21 years ago and chose to be with his current girlfriend.Regardless of his family's opposition, he resolutely pursued his true love. But nowadays, his girlfriend and his family are asking to break up when he is old and weak. Such an experience is embarrassing.
Finally, after mediation by the reporter, Mr. Yang's girlfriend decided to return the 20,000 yuan he paid for his son to buy a house, and Yang Ziqiang's biological son chose to take it with him. He went back to the countryside to provide for the elderly. But when faced with the reporter’s camera, Mr. Yang regrets it very much. He said that he should not abandon his own children to raise other people’s children, nor should he betray his wife’s derailment in marriage. Now he can only use pain The price to make up for the faults of young people.
The "love" pursued at the expense of life will eventually cost a lifetime
In fact, everyone has the right to pursue true love. However, the love on the moral level is not worth blessing. Just like the old Yang above, he used to go to his head for love, but he ended up in despair in his later years. Fortunately, his son accepted him regardless of previous complaints, but how can he make up for the damage he caused to his wife when he was young?
There are many people like Yang Lao in life, but those who abandon their own children to raise other people's children, what about their later life? It must be the same as this old Yang, who was despised everywhere, and eventually became a lonely family. Therefore, I advise everyone not to be unfaithful to marriage, not to be irresponsible, not to take care of other people's children when you love the house and do not care about your own children, and you must know that blood relationship is constantly cut off, and it may be your fault. Will pay the price of a lifetime.
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