Hello everyone, today I will share with you a story, a private prosecution from an aunt in our community. I hope that everyone who reads the story will have a different feeling.
I will never forget that morning, the hospital suddenly called and said that my daughter Shanshan had been splashed with hot water on her way to school, and her right cheek was too late to escape and was burned a lot. Kuaipi, now in the hospital.
Hearing this news, I almost screamed, and instantly restored the scene in my mind, and suddenly felt that the sky broke and the earth broke.
My baby girl, although she is not by my side since she was born, she was also taken care of by my grandparents and grew up in the palm of her hand.
Since she was young, she even measured the temperature of the footwashing water for her, and the porridge had to be kept warm and warm before she dared to drink it. She should have suffered a lot from a pot of hot water today.
In the hospital, Shanshan, who had a good appearance, was now covered with half of her face, and she looked helpless and pitiful. Suddenly unable to control my emotions, he cried out with a "wow".
The doctor said that although this kind of scald is not fatal, even if it is not infected, the scar may be relatively large, so be psychologically prepared.
The murderer was quickly caught, and it turned out to be Kobayashi, the property manager in our community who has left for a few months.
That day, my whole body was shaken into a sieve, and I screamed at it, and several police officers couldn't catch me.
" What's the matter you come to me,What kind of man is it to hit a little girl! "I waved my hands, excited, and my hoarse voice echoed in the huge interrogation room.
The murderer in front of me didn't care about my roar at all. He leaned back on a chair, put his hands on his head, and was at ease. Look at me.
"Sister Han, despair is not good, right? Then when you put us around, didn't we despair?
He continued: "Because of you, how many people in our team have lost their jobs?" Do they have no children to feed? "
Finally, he stood up and pointed to my nose and cursed: "Who do you think you are? Do you think you are the emperor after buying a house and becoming the owner?" I tell you, I will avenge you even if I sacrifice my life. "
My eyes turned black for a while, and I was stunned. I knew he must have cursed me with the most ruthless language before, but I never dreamed that he would hit my daughter with an abacus.
I don’t remember how I went home that day. I just felt that every step I took was like stepping in a quagmire, and I couldn’t help sinking down freely.
Yes, I have a grudge against him, very The big hatred, to be exact, is that I have hatred with all the people in the property.
In this community, I am one of the owners who are worthy of the name, and it is no exaggeration to say that since I moved in After this community, the property here has not been stopped.
Maybe I have experienced the injustice of other community properties before leaving a shadow, so when I encounter this occupation, I will become very extreme.
In addition, this house has exhausted most of the hard work of my husband and I. I still remember the joy of our family of three moving into a new home.
My daughter walked a few times in the living room of the new house and said excitedly: "Mom, is this really our home?"
At that moment, I held her tightly excitedly: "Yes , This is our home, and no one will drive us out anymore.”
The lights are bright outside the window, Oriental Pearl Tower is in sight, I think of myself who just came to this city, live in In the dark basement of the village in the city, I live in a space with mice every day. I am in the light and it is dark.
Later I married Lao Zhou with the same conditions. The marriage house was rented. When it was about to give birth, the landlord suddenly came to collect the house and said that I was too unlucky to have a child in her house.
I argued with her for most of the day, but she was finally swept out of the house. She held the real estate certificate in front of me and said: "I am the owner of this house. I want you to get out today. Get out today."
That night, there was heavy snow outside, and I had a big belly, dragged my luggage, and walked out the gate of the community in embarrassment with Lao Zhou.
When passing by the gate, the security guard was unwilling to open the door for me, and even taunted me: "You have no money to get married and have children. What guts, I'm being kicked out of the house now."
I had a quarrel with him, but the property manager who came to persuade us to look at our big bags and small bags immediately showed a contemptuous look: "Sister, hurry up, don't be embarrassed here. That's it."
That night, I felt that all the tears of my life had flowed away.
Since then, I have planted hatred for these security guards and the so-called property managers, and at the same time I secretly swear,You must rely on your own efforts to buy a house of your own in this city.
After my daughter was born, I put it in my mother-in-law's house and plunged into work. I have no background with Lao Zhou, so I can only work hard on my own.
Countless times, I felt that I couldn’t hold on, so I went to the rooftop to take a look at the lights in this city. Thinking of the near future, I will also be a member of these lights, and I immediately became full of energy. .
In order to save money, Lao Zhou and I can’t wait to split a penny into eight petals. Both of them control their daily expenses within 50 yuan. We know that housing prices in this city are too high. We His salary will never keep up with the price increase of the house.
The Emperor lives up to his heart. It has been nearly sixteen years in this life, and our daughter has grown from a baby to a young girl in Tingting. Only then did we finally save enough money and have our own home in this city.
For the decoration of this house, I devoted all my enthusiasm to it, step by step to arrange it into the look in my mind.
Everything is what I like, I can finally stand upright in front of these security guards, but the high property fees make me sigh.
The property fee of this community is a lot higher than that of several neighboring communities. We bought a large apartment, and each year the management fee for parking spaces has to be paid nearly seven or eight thousand. For the shy of us, it is undoubtedly a big expense.
I have negotiated with the community countless times, but the people are light-hearted and can't change the status quo. I can only pay the money obediently.
After paying the money, I found that the so-called listed property company is nothing more than that. The hygiene of the community is not in place at all. There are all kinds of cigarette butts and confetti everywhere on the road. When there is no equivalent high service,My mind exploded.
I sent these photos to the owner group, and soon attracted a bunch of neighbors who complained about the property.
That day, the owner group has never stopped. Everyone is expressing their dissatisfaction with the property. Of course, some people jumped out and said that the property is not that bad. Everything has been slowly improving, but it was soon followed by others. The owner scolded.
From then on, this so-called group of property owners has become a "cursing property group." Those of us who are crusading against the property have found a common "enemy" through the same starting point. For a time, it was so lively.
One day, an owner complained about the security at the door, saying that the security was not responsible, and asked her if she was the owner.
"I paid the property fee, but I still have to ask if I am the owner? Have my money been paid for nothing?" the female owner said angrily in the group.
Another landlord jumped out and said: "Yes, we paid the money, they should remember our face, otherwise we are different from the tenant?"
Everyone agrees and expresses their opinions. Maybe it’s an unbalanced state of mind, or maybe it’s a long-term edification of negative emotions about the property. In addition, I am also a person with unclear emotional boundaries. At that moment, following their thinking, I actually felt that What they said makes sense.
I think of the previously rented urban village. The landlord yelled at me. Later, the urban village was demolished and we were forced to move to the community. Although we also paid the property fee, the property company's attitude towards the landlord and tenant was completely clear. different.
Once, I forgot to bring the door card and begged the security to swipe it for me. He first respectfully asked me whether I was a landlord or a tenant. When he learned that I was a tenant, his respect disappeared. , Yelled impatiently: "You tenants have the most trouble."
I will never forget the moment when the security guard changed his face.That feeling is really aggrieved.
"Complain to the security guard and let him go." One of the owners opened his head. Suddenly, all the following were queuing up for Solitaire. Thinking of the previous encounters, I followed Solitaire.
Now think about it, this is just a rabble carnival. Later, we never saw this security guard again.
At that moment, I did not reflect on how ignorant 's own behavior was. is actually a normal work inquiry. After all, there are so many people coming in and out every day. It is normal for the security guard to ask.
But with the resignation of the security guard, the breath and humiliation that I had kept in my heart for many years disappeared in an instant.
It turns out that the feeling of pleasure through suppressing others is so good, which makes me feel like I am completely addicted.
From then on, I seemed to be possessed by the devil, and I also began to deliberately find fault with the property. On the one hand, I felt that I had paid the money to make the best use of it, and they did not do well.
On the other hand, I suddenly discovered that this has become an effective method of decompression.
Sometimes when I encounter unpleasant things in the unit, I will find a reason and scold the property in the owner group. After seeing the aggrieved apology of the property staff, the pressure on work is immediately It was relieved.
I am totally obsessed with this feeling. Every morning, I will go around the community and take a few photos to save. As long as you are unhappy, put it in the owner group, under the banner of being good for the community, reprimanding the property for unprofessionalism.
Don’t underestimate these photos,In fact, the energy is very high and it is extremely inflammatory. If other owners have ordinary disputes with the property on the same day, these photos will help fuel the flames. After a few days, I will become famous among the owners. "figure".
Under this kind of psychology, I have completely ignored all the performance of the property company in the community, and turned a blind eye to their improvement. I even called many owners who have opinions about the property to denounce it in the group of owners every day. There is a tendency to put the property to death and then hurry up.
But I know in my heart that this kind of vicious slander of their reputation while enjoying the services of the property is quite abhorrent, but at this time I don't care about that much, because it feels really good to bully others with justifiability.
There is no reason, just happiness! Happiness is a reward that comes with it, and it can even surpass benefits. It's like being addicted to beating, and you would rather suffer punishment than beating.
One day I overheard a property worker complaining about too much work pressure. I was still a little bit overwhelmed. I was slanderous. You took the money. Shouldn't all of these be suffered?
It was a typhoon day. The toilet in my house was blocked that day. I immediately called the property to repair it. The staff said to me politely whether the weather is bad today. Can you wait until tomorrow morning?
I immediately went into a rage and shouted to the floor butler on the phone: "If you don't bring someone to fix it within an hour, I will complain directly to you."
Old Zhou looked at me in surprise and said : "Whether you want to be so exaggerated, it doesn't matter if you wait until tomorrow to fix it."
I glared at him and said, "What do you know! This is their job, ."
That day night,Under the heavy rain and typhoon, the building management and property manager brought the engineering team to fix the toilet overnight.
Actually, when I saw them entering the door wet, I felt ashamed in my heart. Suddenly I felt sorry for them. At that moment, I rarely asked myself: "Is it really good for me to do this?"
After this thought, I was shocked, and immediately hypnotized myself: "The properties are , who are bullying and fearful of hardship. I must show strength so that they will not neglect me ."
I am just like this, and I am ashamed. , While acting as a demon, the two mentalities switch independently, unpredictable.
Until one day, when I went to the restaurant at the gate of the community to eat, I heard a property officer complaining that our group of owners were difficult to serve, especially the room number of my house. I was so angry that my head was swollen, but on the surface Still light and breezy.
I secretly took a photo of the staff member who complained about me, and sent it back to the owner group to denounce it.
"Speaking ill of the owner secretly, is this your professionalism?" I directly asked the property manager.
Of course, it caused another torrential storm. This matter ended with the resignation of the property staff.
But I still feel uncomfortable, and I feel angry at the thought that I have to pay the money and be vilified. I took a sigh of relief and began to pick up on their work in the owner group, even to the point of being harsh.
For example, it is required to clean the railings of the entire building, and even initiate a lot of property owners to track the work of the property.
when working,I also stared at the camera that was online outside the door at any time. Even if the cleaning was a minute late, I had to complain. During that time, the property staff was tortured by me.
If this incident was an introduction, then something happened later that caused my behavior in to plant a thunder for the future victimization of my daughter.
Our community is a new community, and there is no parking space at the door , which leads to random parking of cars. In order to solve this problem, the property manager painted parking spaces on the roadside with paint.
His original intention was actually good, but I was already in a frenzy at that time. I caught him directly advocating drawing parking spaces without discussing with the owner, and directly called the headquarters and complained. The property manager blatantly sold parking spaces at the gate of the community.
Actually, I have no real evidence at all. I just speak my own tone. As I expected, the headquarters sent people directly to investigate.
In less than a few days, I never saw the property manager again. The customer service at the headquarters replied that he had resigned automatically.
In fact, at that moment, I was a little bit intolerable, but I was brainwashed by myself. I told myself that this was a punishment for the property manager's failure to do his job, and it was a problem of his own working ability.
Now when I think about it, all walks of life will have negligence.Sometimes there is really no need to go after and fight.
Because of this incident, I became famous in the first battle and became the "savior" that everyone praised among the owners. Except for Lao Zhou, he was half angry and warned me not to go too far. Respect every profession, this is a kind of education.
I am too lazy to talk to him, even refute him, the rule of law society, what can they do with me.
One thing I didn't expect is that there will be criminals in a society under the rule of law, who can only catch the murderer for you, but cannot heal the harm the murderer brings to you.
Finally depressed for a long time, all emotions will have a vent. Their vent is to use a pot of hot water to completely water out my daughter's future.
The story of her daughter being disfigured by splashing hot water soon spread, but the owners who used to find the property with me, turned the front of the car immediately, accused me of deceiving people, saying that I was evil There was a bad report, and I also said that because of my incident, the housing prices in this community have fallen by several thousand.
They completely forgot the days when they condemned with me. At that moment, I suddenly understood the true face of the keyboard man, they were only responsible for outputting maliciousness.
But no matter what, this murderer was indeed cultivated by myself, and I was the ultimate behind-the-scenes master, but the big mistake has been made, and it is too late to regret it.
, maybe God bless you,On the day of the incident, because the weather was too cold, Shanshan was dressed thicker. In that pot of hot water, only the right face was a bit serious. Because the rescue was timely, the recovery was relatively good in the later period, and we also did scar repair. , So, now I can’t see any burn marks on my face.
Great luck in misfortune! Of course, after learning from the pain, I made a very incomprehensible move. I made a special trip to the police station and sincerely apologized to Kobayashi. Yes, he was the Shanshan who hurt me, but it was me!
If I were a little more calm and rational, such a human tragedy would not happen. Now, for these things, both sides have paid a great price.
After seeing the letter of understanding I signed, Kobayashi finally broke down, covering his face and crying so hard, then I knew that he had been working in this company at a young age, and it was hard to be a manager. But because of my frequent nonsensical complaints, I was deducted from my salary, and I was eventually swept out.
The property of a listed company is very strict with regard to assessment and complaints. The moment he was asked to leave, he felt that the sky had fallen, and he hated me, so he was impulsive and unforgivable. Thing.
The police said that although the sentence is still sentenced, it may be less if you have your letter of understanding. Finally, he said meaningfully: "Oh, it's a pity!"
Yes, it's really a pity. Two young people who are young and prosperous, they have paid because of me. A huge price.
Besides forgiving him,What else can I do?
There is already too much malice in this world, and I don’t want to intervene.
Of course, some people say that we can’t even comment with the property about your experience?
I can tell you responsibly, in fact, there is no need to worry, the formal property company will definitely accept your opinions and help you deal with the problem.
And my ultimate goal is to, with this article, I would like to warn everyone to respect every profession and everyone, and the bills bought because of ignorance and mistakes must be the most expensive bills in the world.
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