all say that it is difficult for people to grow old, but the difficulty lies in the unfilial piety of their children and the difficulties in their old age. As people get older, their physical functions decline, leading to disease.
Children are busy with work and cannot visit the elderly often. At this time, in addition to physical illness, the old man has to endure mental torture.
What they are often unable to resolve is their heart-wrenching loneliness, longing for their children to be with them, but the reality is often unsatisfactory.
The following experience of this old man tells us, what should the old man in this period do?
My name is Deng Taiping, I am 86 years old and I am alone. A small room was occupied by the elder son, and I rented it in a small hotel.
The elder son Deng lives at home and does not want to leave, so I have to take refuge in the younger son.
The youngest son, Deng Fei, originally had a wife. Because he liked gambling and didn't ask for improvement, his wife suddenly disappeared one day in anger.
He searched everywhere but couldn't find it. Since then, his nerves have been stimulated and he is crazy all day long.
He does not have a job and lives on subsistence allowances. My monthly retirement salary is more than 3,000 yuan. In addition to the rent, the rest is subsidized to the younger son.
So, why does the elder son occupy the father's house and refuse to leave? The reason he gave was surprising!
He said that the old father has been married five times in his life, and his mother is the second wife of the old father. Three years after his old father got married, she fell ill.
After his mother passed away, his father gave him to his aunt in the country to raise him. The condition of the aunt's house was very poor and he couldn't even eat enough.
Three years after his mother left, he married a new wife, Deng Fei's mother. Later, Deng Fei's mother also fell ill and passed away.
Then he found a few more wives, most of which were the nanny he hired, and in the end, most of them became his wives.
Deng Xian said that if my father has no other skills, he has the ability to please women.
The father later had a daughter.When he grew up, he married out of town. She seems to have a serious opinion about her father, and she has never returned to her natal home.
Old Deng was very beautiful when he was young and was admitted to Central South University . After graduation, he has been teaching. However, none of his children are talented.
All his children have seen and remembered what he did. What can children learn from the old man? In the end, there is no affection between relatives!
Regarding the current situation, the neighbor told the truth: Lao Deng did not learn well, and he was irresponsible to his family and his children. This was the result in the end!
Lao Zheng himself admitted that he has a bad reputation in the eyes of his neighbors, and he has a good idea of what he has done, but why does he still do that?
In the end, he wrote "the son is not the father's fault" on the paper to show his regret.
The old father's two legs were very painful when he walked, and he was carried by the youngest son back and forth. Deng Fei went to Deng Xian with his old father on his back.
Deng Xian said that he wanted to take good care of his father's daily life, but his father did not want to live with him.
He said that his father is a bit partial and lives with his younger son, just wanting to subsidize him with his pension.
And Deng Fei said that Deng Fei wanted to be with her father and also wanted his pension. The two sons quarreled with their father over the old age, and each said what was wrong with the other.
Deng Fei was so angry that he carried his old father and left. Deng Xian caught him tightly and refused to let him go, but he pushed Deng Xian to the ground.
This is what the two brothers did. They are both in their 40s. Why can't they earn money to support themselves? Have to fight for his father's pension? Sad!
Back home, the old father's leg hurts so much that he is ready to go to the hospital for treatment. He took his passbook and went to the bank to withdraw money, and it surprised him!
The bank staff told him that the 120,000 yuan in the passbook was missing.After careful inspection, the staff found that the money had been taken away by Deng Xian.
The old father immediately found Zheng Xian and asked him why he took the deposit privately? Deng first refused to admit that he took it, saying that the nanny took it to him. The nanny also said that she couldn't say what the old father did.
Anyway, it is not right for the son to take his deposit without his father's consent. For this reason, the younger son is going to sue Deng Xian with his father and ask him to return the money.
For this elder son, the old father was completely disappointed. He wanted to sell the house out of anger, and the younger son agreed to do the same.
Deng Fei said that he sold the house to his father for 60,000 yuan, and the remaining money plus the 120,000 that Deng Xian spent, was divided equally between the two brothers.
In the end, in order to calm down the situation, Deng first admitted his mistake and was willing to move out of the house and let his old father live first.
Deng Xian knelt in front of his father and asked for his forgiveness, begging him to take into account his only grandson and be able to divide more when he distributes his property in the future.
Deng Fei said that he was still young, and he wanted to marry a wife to start a family, and he couldn't share it with Deng Xian.
The old father looked at the two sons silently, not knowing what to do.
From the relationship between the old man and his two sons, it is not difficult to see that the two sons are with the old man and they want the old man's pension.
Both sons racked their brains. The eldest son simply stayed at home and secretly took away the old man’s savings.
In order to get the pension of the old man, Deng Fei did not hesitate to fall out with the boss. There is no family affection between father, son and brother.
The old father begs five wives in his life for himself, but lacks the education of his children, so they still want to rely on the old father's pension to make a living in middle age.
Parents should regulate their behavior, and every word and deed infects their children. There must be a standard in mind for what should be done and what should not be done.
Therefore, parents must not only raise their children, but also train them to become talents, so that the family can be harmonious.Only when the children are successful in their careers can the elderly enjoy their old age!
Parents must plan in advance, otherwise, the children will be unfilial, and the old age will be bleak. Who will come to reason?
You said, who is responsible for the bad evening scenes for the elderly? There are elderly people who do not respect themselves, what should the children do?
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