There are three reasons why a man loves a woman into his bones

Wen丨Xixiang Youqing

Time is not long, I hope you will see each other in my words!

In love, women are always more insecure and insecure than men.

Desire to be loved and a firm choice is the expectation and hope of many women for love. Especially in the fast-food environment of love, the scarcity of true love makes women crazy.

However, I don't know since when it has become a norm for men to change their hearts.

In this case, most women have misunderstandings and always feel that if they want a man to continue to love themselves, they must either be beautiful or give everything to him.

Beautiful appearance is indeed a bonus, but it is not enough to make a man love you to the bone. After all, good-looking skins are the same, and men's aesthetics will continue to change.

It is also a good idea to exchange love for love. After all, you will get rewards if you give. But love is different from other things. Humble giving is actually a subtraction.

In a man's world, touch and love cannot be equated. So, if you try to exchange for a man's long-term love for your kindness, it is unrealistic.

is like Wang Manni in the TV series " Thirty Only " and Jiang Baili in "Cracking Orange in Huainan". The former is the representative of beauty, while the latter is a typical example of humble pay.

Wang Manni attracted Liang Zhengxian because of her excellent appearance, but this love is not long and not deep enough.

Wang Manni is just one of his many girlfriends, and he says that he is not married in name, but he actually has a fiancée.

Let’s take a look at Jiang Baili again. She has liked Gobi for many years. Every time he is injured in love, she is willing to accept him again.

Seeking reconciliation and being abandoned is what she often experienced, but she still came on call,Just go away. And her final result did not go as she had hoped, instead she was bruised all over her body.

It can be seen that no matter whether it is good looks or flattering, you can't get the love you want. These are all on the surface. A man may be excited for a while, but it will never last too long.

Want to keep a man's heart, it needs some permanent characteristics. As a woman, you need to understand that a man loves a woman for three reasons:

First: dedicated and serious, good character

I saw a discussion post on the Internet, and many men said that they could not tolerate women betraying themselves, and felt that women with poor moral character were scourges.

Indeed, men, like women, want to have a loyal and sincere relationship. After all, the feeling of being betrayed and left behind is heartbreaking.

Not only that, but the male chauvinism in men's bones makes them particularly concerned about whether women are loyal to them. They will feel that a woman's betrayal is provoking themselves.

However, it is not an exaggeration to say that nowadays, women who treat their feelings exclusively and seriously are not catching a lot of them.

Therefore, a dedicated and serious woman can be favored by men. Such women are extremely precious and rare for men.

And character is what anyone will value when choosing a spouse. After all, being with a person with a character problem is to fall into a bottomless pit.

Ximei often said that character is more important than ability. One thing that men and women value very much is whether women can reduce trouble for themselves and whether they can make themselves feel comfortable.

Therefore, a woman with a single passion and good character,Will become a man's love. When a man is with such a woman, he can experience the happiness of life and the purity and sincerity of love.

Second: kind and gentle, understanding people

Every man's original intention is to find a virtuous wife and become his own "good helper". After all, life is not sweet everywhere, but there will be a lot of suffering.

Although men are strong, they are not superman. Under such circumstances, men are eager to have a gentle, kind, understanding partner, at least to have a trace of comfort in the event of a breakdown.

It is easy and pleasant to get along with gentle and considerate people. You don't have to be too careful. And such a woman is actually not easy to meet, and more of them are a little willful and unreasonable.

Things are rare and precious, and gentle women are men who desire to explain their words. Therefore, when encountering such a woman, men usually hold on tightly.

Regarding this, Ximei wants to remind women, , you can’t have a temper, but you must know how to take measures and make sense.

You have to know that no man can stand a bad-tempered woman. Gentleness is the key to opening a man's heart.

Third: Have a unique personal charm

"Beautiful women make men fascinated, and knowledgeable women make men stalwart."

One of the reasons why a man loves a woman into his bones is that The other person has a unique personal charm, such as talent, style, temperament, and even a feeling.

Charm is always the source of love. If a man chooses you because he is attracted to you, his love for you will last longer.

And, As it settles, your charm will be more flavorful, and he will love you more and more.

Charisma doesn't just come from the outside, more often it comes from your inside. When you become good enough, there will naturally be a man who loves you to the bone.

So, instead of struggling with your imperfections all day, it is better to use and enlarge your own shining points. You have to know that every woman has her own unique personal charm.

Concluding remarks:

"Love has always been a matter of thousands of times."

In the face of love, women desire to be the only man in their own hearts, and more eager. Can change a man and become a man who loves him to the bone.

But you have to understand that any possession is not falling from the sky. You have to work hard, and then you can reap the fruits of happiness.

It is difficult for a woman with these three qualities not to keep a man's heartbeat, and these qualities are not something every woman can do.

Concentration is the guarantee of feelings, understanding is the magic weapon for getting along, and personal charm is the source of love.

Maybe, men's mate selection criteria are varied, but you have to know that in their hearts, there is really no resistance to such a woman.

There is the term "white moonlight" in love, and such a woman can be called "white moonlight". It has nothing to do with beauty, nothing about giving, just for that special.