(Speed News reporter Gu Yuanyuan) The first time I saw Cao Min, I was attracted by her quiet temperament, a room of curtains, she was sitting in front of the sewing machine, accompanied by the sound of the sewing machine, The cloth in her hand moved forward slowly, forming a beautiful arc. Cao Min's home is in Zhikou Street, Sucheng District, and the shop is also nearby. When working, she would stop her work from time to time and glance at the door to see her husband He Yinghu who is sitting there, or say to her husband: "Go around and exercise, but don't run far!" It is full of care.
Because of love, they choose to be well
17 years ago, 22-year-old Cao Min and 20-year-old He Yinghu entered the marriage hall for the first time. At that time, both of them were still young People's impetuosity can't tolerate each other in life, and they have lived noisily for nearly ten years. In the end they chose to separate, and the only son was awarded to her husband He Yinghu.
"In fact, we didn't completely let go of our hearts. The feelings for each other are still there. It's just that he wants to go out and fight, and I don't want me to control him, and I don't want him to go out. In the end, I always quarreled because of this problem until the divorce." Cao Min recalled. After the separation, the two lived their lives separately, neither chose to remarry, and still loved each other in their hearts.
He Yinghu has the craftsmanship of ship repairing and went to work in other places, while Cao Min worked hard to learn craftsmanship, hoping to use his own strength to make the lives of himself and his son more secure. In order to be able to see her son more often, she gave up working outside where she had a higher income. Instead, she learned the craft of making curtains from a relative and opened a small shop near her home.
In the interview, when the reporter asked why the two did not remarry after they broke up, Cao Min paused for a while and said: "We met when we were a teenager, and our relationship is deep. Even if we get divorced, our two families often move around. "Cao Min said that He Yinghu is a very filial person. After the two are separated, he will bring wine to her home to visit her parents as soon as he comes back from the field. He will accompany her father for two drinks and help with work. . Cao Min also often goes to He Yinghu's house to help with housework and take care of the elderly and children. It can be said that they are divorced, but their hearts have not gone far.
Because of love,She chooses to have no hesitation
In the summer of 2016, Cao Min's peaceful life was broken by a sudden car accident.
On that day, Cao Min suddenly received a call from another place. The other party told her that He Yinghu was hit by a car in Tianjin and her life was dying, so her family hurried to Tianjin. In He Yinghu's telephone address book, Cao Min's phone number was still "wife", so the hospital called her directly.
After receiving the news, Cao Min couldn't believe it. She immediately contacted He Yinghu's parents. "It's true, I shed tears at once, and I can't stop it." Cao Min also called his parents and told them that he was going to take care of He Yinghu. Both parents supported her.
When Cao Min arrived in Tianjin overnight, He Yinghu was still rescued, and the hospital issued a critical illness notice. "In the ICU, his whole body was covered with white gauze. His entire face was severely swollen, and he couldn't see his facial features. His parents could hardly hold up seeing his son like this. I would have no tears anymore. There is an idea in my heart, as long as he is alive!"
21 days! This is the time that He Yinghu was rescued in the ICU, and it was also the time that Cao Min was waiting outside the ward. "People go in and some people come out of that door every day, but he hasn't woken up. I was looking forward to the door opening, but I was afraid of seeing the door open, so I thought that God could do a miracle and wake him up!" Cao Min said. Maybe it was God who felt Cao Min's pious prayer, maybe it was He Yinghu's tenacious desire to survive, and he finally woke up after receiving seven critical illness notices. Cao Min said that the idea of remarriage sprouted from that day.
In the car accident, He Yinghu suffered a trauma to his left brain, which caused him to be physically disabled at the second level. "In the beginning, he could not speak, nor could he sit up. When I held his hand, he would hold it back. It was very light, but I could feel it." Cao Min kept guarding He Yinghu's bed.
The two who had already chosen to be well-kept together were tied tightly by fate.
The person woke up, but the subsequent treatment recovery was very long. After returning to Suqian from Tianjin, He Yinghu began a arduous rehabilitation treatment. From being unable to stand at the beginning to being able to walk slowly, Cao Min stayed with him.
To help He Yinghu practice walking,Cao Min supported him on his shoulders to practice every day. You must know that He Yinghu is a 1.8-meter big man and he weighs a lot, while Cao Min is only 1.6 meters tall. Every time she walks back and forth with He Yinghu on the rehabilitation device, she sweats profusely, but she is Clench your teeth and hold on. "He is also anxious. If I don't support him at this time, he may give up." Cao Min said.
While He Yinghu was doing rehabilitation, Cao Min was busy with her career again. She said: "He can't make money in the future, so he can only rely on me, so I have to find a way." Cao Min She is a very determined and hard-working person. After she is busy with He Yinghu's rehabilitation training and sending her children every day, she goes to the supermarket to do odd jobs, and then goes to relatives' homes to learn how to make curtains in the afternoon. After one year, Cao Min became more haggard, but she felt it was worth it, and her little curtain shop opened.
Because of love, they hold their hands again
June 12, 2017, this is a memorable day for Cao Min and He Yinghu, Cao Min said: "It should be said that it is a new life "On this day, Cao Min pushed her husband to the marriage registry office in a wheelchair. After three years, they re-entered the marriage hall. On the marriage certificate they were filled with happy smiles, and their eyes were full of tenderness. Seeing them getting married again, the neighbors all clapped and praised them. "This wedding candy is not only sweet, but also bitter, because we can feel Cao Min's difficulty. She is too strong and too great." Cao Min's classmate said.
Why do you still choose to remarry after so many experiences? Cao Min paused for a while, rubbing the cloth on his hands and said: "I can't bear it! I can't bear his suffering! After all, he has been in love for so many years." Since the day when his husband was injured, Cao Min put down everything and returned. They used to respect their parents-in-law, take care of their husbands and children in their former home. In order to have a stable income and make it easier to take care of her husband, she worked hard to start a business and rented a shop in Lu Liu Chuangye Street on the west side of Kangbao Community to make curtains. Although their small days are not wealthy, their family is warm and harmonious and happy.
After experiencing the test of life and death, for them, watching and helping each other and company are the happiness they want. During the interview, the reporter noticed that although He Yinghu didn't speak much, he always wanted to help Cao Min by doing what he could.Cao Min said that some time ago, I saw an electronic rehabilitation device on Douyin that could stimulate the nerves of the hands, so I asked everywhere I wanted to buy it for He Yinghu to try. She said: "It has been like this for several years. There is a little effect, I want him to try, don’t let him speak, in fact, he is anxious, he wants to walk neatly, want to work." He Yinghu is also recovering little by little with the help of her lover, and happiness is coming towards them.
"Pampus reeds are threaded like silk, and rocks are not transferred." In Cao Min's body, we can see the great power of love, and we are even more amazed at her kindness and strength, and her perseverance. She used her actions to prove that "there is a kind of holding one's hand called never leave."
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