We have all seen-an older man and a much younger woman walking around hand in hand (and vice versa).
Most people usually have one of the following three reactions to this situation:
- admiration. They thought, "Man, that guy is cool and can do this."
- disgusted. They think, "I am ashamed of them. People should date their peers."
- Conflict. They don't think about anything at all.
If you are a member of the first group, or you just think that age should not affect the person you are dating, then I have some suggestions for you.
1. Don't pretend to win someone.
Okay, so you have decided to date someone who is much older or much younger. How to do?
The key is to find someone who is willing to do the same thing. If so, then there is no need to trick them into liking you.
So don’t worry about pretending to like Taylor Swift or John F. Kennedy trying to impress people.
2. Don't be discouraged by haters.
Some people think it is wrong to date people who are very different in age. beautiful. Ask them to date people of the same grade.
As for you, please feel free to play according to your own rules.
"Do things that make you happy, even if
It means you can always find things against others." people.
No matter how strange, different or outrageous your preferences, I to you guarantee that will always like the same things.
This is also true for large age differences. It's up to you to find that person.
4. Be inspired by your favorite celebrities.
Jerry Seinfeld is 21 years older than his wife. Andy Griffith is 30 years older than him. Fred Astaire ? Forty-four years old.
I know I know. The only reason you worry that these celebrities can do this is because they are rich and famous. This helps, but it is not required.
There are many ordinary people who have done the same thing.
5. Do what makes you happy.
So you just consider not being with people with very different ages just because of other people's ideas? shame on you.
Do what makes you happy, even if it means going against the advice of your friend, therapist or mother.
Do you really want to be with someone who is not suitable for you in order to please others? bring it on! I hope not.
Have you ever date someone who is obviously older or younger? How's the effect? What advice can you give to men in similar situations?
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