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"Since you think I gave less money, then you said it before you got married. If you collect the money, you are also married. You are now I just said it’s not right, how could I agree. If you don’t want to go on, then you can return the 90,000 gift to me!"
"That's not OK." Chen Lin refused without hesitation: "Our marriage has become an established fact. We want to get divorced only when we are in a bad relationship. I also promised you to get a divorce. You can refund the gift. Don't even think about it." Lin Fujun never dreamed of it. The wife who just married into the house can say something like this: "Then you are not a lied marriage?"
Chen Lin said non-committal: "I lied to the marriage? I married you all. What did I lie to do? Just Divorce is okay, don’t think about the rebate gift!” Finally Li Fujun had no choice but to sue Chen Lin in court. The couple who had just been married for three months had also completely torn their faces at this moment. How much love they had last year, then at this moment. It's embarrassing to curse each other with so vicious words.
28-year-old Chen Lin met Lin Fujun through online chat. The two have been chatting together as netizens, so they met when they knew each other for about two months, and both of them understood the purpose. Blind date, see if the other party is right for you. However, when Chen Lin saw Lin Fujun for the first time, he didn't look at him. Lin Fujun was just a wage earner, with limited income, and his appearance was modest. What made her most dissatisfied was Lin Fujun's age. He was 34 years old at the time.
However, Lin Fujun saw Chen Lin at a glance and was very attentive to Chen Lin, so after chatting for a while, he boldly confessed to Chen Lin, hoping she could give herself a chance.Chen Lin said that after thinking about it, she agreed, which made Lin Fujun very happy. And Chen Lin doesn't really like Lin Fujun, but she considers her own problems.
It turned out that Chen Lin was divorced once. Although she had no children, it was difficult for a woman in her second marriage to find another partner. In addition, her own conditions were average, so she did not have the capital to pick and choose. Seeing that Lin Fujun really liked him, he agreed, thinking about watching everywhere.
After confirming the relationship, Lin Fujun may be due to his age. He always urges Chen Lin to marry him, hoping to create a home with her, and Chen Lin has no objection to it. When they were in love for about half a year, the two met with their parents, so they set a date for their marriage. Lin Fujun also gave her a 90,000 yuan gift to show the importance he attached to Chen Lin. After
, the wedding went smoothly and got married. Lin Fujun thought that he could enjoy a normal married life, but never expected Chen Lin to have a big change in his temperament after the marriage. Not only did he not consummate the room with him, but even not let him touch him, Lin Fujun said "At first I thought she was shy, and thought it would be fine after a while, but she has resolutely refused for three months now. Who can stand it." Indeed, marrying a wife is to warm the heart, not to have a hot head. Buy a vase with money, you can see it or touch it.
and the reason, Chen Lin finally stated that it was because of the wrong number of gifts , which made Lin Fujun unable to accept: "The money was agreed before marriage. If it was not right, why didn't you say it at the time? Then I said this." However, Chen Lin didn't listen to any of his words. Once Lin Fujun touched him, Chen Lin immediately yelled, and the contradiction between the two became more and more serious.
In the end, Lin Fujun said helplessly: "If you think we can't make it through,Then divorce, don't torture each other. Lin Fujun thought his wife would refuse, at least he hesitated, but Chen Lin agreed on the spot. Lin Fujun said fiercely: "If you leave, then you will return the gift to me!" "Lin Fujun thought this request was reasonable, and the two of them would be broken if they took back the gift, but Chen Lin said: "Don't even think about returning the gift, we both have marriage facts, and I won't return it to you if we are divorced." . "
said that Lin Fujun was embarrassed. This was just getting married and was about to divorce, so why didn't you return the wedding gift? How could there be such a thing? Only after inquiring did I know that there was such a thing, Lin Fujun immediately felt that She was cheated into the marriage, but Chen Lin tried her best to deny: "I didn't mention the divorce, it was him. Why should I say that I cheated the marriage!"
However, Lin Fujun could not hear a word of these words. He immediately sued the court, and the two parties are also arguing about the matter.
Although the gift of 90,000 yuan is not too much, Lin Fujun is just one. For a wage earner, it is conceivable that the money is not a small sum for him. In addition to booking restaurants and banquets for weddings, it almost spent half of his life’s income, just to marry a daughter-in-law. With this kind of calculation.
Although Chen Lin kept saying that she did not cheat the marriage, all her words and behaviors confirmed that she was cheating the marriage, thinking that after the marriage, divorce would not be refunded, although there was a second marriage.
But there are no stupid people in the world, and the stupidest people are precisely those who are smart, such as Chen Lin thought that this behavior was reasonable and legal, but she used marriage as a medium to defraud her of money and did not fulfill her husband’s obligations, that is, rejecting consummation. This is a wrong behavior in itself. Although as a wife, she can also refuse consummation, but it is obvious that Chen Lin has a motive for rejecting the purpose of consummating the house, so her Xiao Jiujiu will never get what she wants, and it is inevitable that she will eventually be refunded 90,000 yuan.
Marriage is not a trivial matter.Don’t think of feelings as business. No matter whether Chen Lin’s case succeeds or not, Chen Lin will always be condemned by fame and morals. Moreover, she will not succeed. She will hurt a person who really likes her to the point that she will have nothing in the end. , Why bother.
It’s actually not easy to meet someone who likes you. Sometimes you need to ask yourself why you can make others like you, so you must cherish this hard-won relationship. If you can accept it, then take it seriously. If you can’t accept it, then resolutely refuse. The most taboo is to combine feelings and money. You will only lose watermelon and sesame seeds. Life is limited, cherish feelings!
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