Text/Rain without EQ
Figure/Network (intrusion)
Although each couple has a different pattern of getting along with each other, it can still be judged that the couples who often stick together, they The feelings are deep. On the contrary, during the day, they are husband and wife, but at night they are like neighbors. Some have betrayed each other and even refused to bed with each other.
If a man meets such a wife and does not dare to get a divorce, then he will have grievances in his heart. If he encounters something again, he will not want to pay for the other party anymore. However, there are many involuntary.
The 66-year-old uncle shared his own personal experience: After his wife cheated on her, she had to sleep with me in a separate room. Now she is sick, what should I do?
Uncle Zeng, 66 years old
01
I am 66 years old Zeng, who is a small business. My wife is Mei Yun, 8 years younger than me, and works as an accountant in a company.
Although she is also a woman in her 50s, she pays attention to maintenance and looks very young with her fashionable dress.
It is natural for women to love beauty. I am not against it, and even agree. It is a kind of pride for me to have a beautiful wife.
But when his son was in high school, there were scandals about Mei Yun and her colleagues. I can't believe that it's true, but people spread it with noses and eyes. That night, I couldn't help looking for Mei Yun.
The result is self-evident, that is, no result, but Mei Yun's counter-attack.
I believe in Mei Yun, I hope she didn't do anything sorry for me.
From then on, our relationship between husband and wife has become weaker and weaker, and it is even harder to find happiness in a marriage of feathers.
I am busy with business during the day, and only have time to meet with Mei Yun at night.But the unhappiness between the two of us accelerated the formation of the gap between the heart and the heart. We didn't touch each other all day, and we had nothing to say when we met. It became our normal life.
02
When we are our age, the couples are mostly in the ordinary, seemingly affectionate, but in fact they are torrential and dark. There is no perfect marriage.
Days continue so tepidly, but God treats me unfairly. When I rode home that night, I accidentally overturned the bike, fractured both legs, and finally got the root of the disease on my right leg and was a little limped.
From then on, whenever Mei Yun saw me, she was full of disgust.
The previous business can not continue as usual, and I feel that it is not worthwhile to ask for personal help, so I have to find another way. Before long, I rented a small shop and sold some for daily use. The business is not booming, but it is enough to feed itself.
After my son went to college, the burden on his shoulders became much easier. Between me and Mei Yun, we just said whatever we wanted, and no longer had any scruples.
From then on, when the two met, they either had nothing to say or were angry. My parents come to the house occasionally, and Mei Yun always finds excuses to go out and hide, and when my relatives come, she also gives her face. For this matter, we often make trouble.
After every quarrel, I also reflect on myself. I am a man, and I have to bear with and forbear all the time, but at this moment, I forget this. The main crux is still related to the emotional rumors of Mei Yun.
Which man does not want his woman to be emotionally single?
03
No matter how bad the relationship between husband and wife is, it is still a family. We just quarreled, and no one mentioned the word divorce.
But then, Mei Yun's actions were more cruel and terrifying than divorce.
My son has started to work, and the burden on my shoulders has been relieved a lot, thinking that Mei Yun may increase with age,Looking at the relationship between husband and wife for decades, the attitude towards me will change. It turns out that I was wrong, but something unexpected happened to me.
On New Year's Day, Mei Yun and I came back from a friend’s son’s wedding. She suddenly asked me to sleep in a separate bed. I asked her why. She said that I was getting older, snoring loudly, and talking in sleep. Sleeping together seriously affected her sleep quality. Really hell, sleeping together for decades, no matter how much I adapt.
In the case of my disapproval, Mei Yun resolutely moved from my room to another room that night. My self-esteem was severely damaged, and after getting angry, I no longer ignored her.
After a while, I suddenly discovered that Mei Yun and I were going to sleep in a separate bed. It turned out that she had another man outside.
I filed for divorce with her without hesitation, and she did not refuse.
Right at this moment, the son said that he has a girlfriend and is pregnant, so he decides to get married soon.
As a last resort, the divorce between Mei Yun and I had to be delayed.
04
After my son got married, they moved into their new home, and Mei Yun and I lived in separate beds. The divorce matters are all in their hearts. It would be embarrassing to not want the parents to divorce as soon as the son gets married. I want to wait a few months to get a divorce, and Mei Yun agrees.
It may be that the fate of my husband and wife with Mei Yun shouldn't be so broken. When the two were discussing how to divide the family property, Mei Yun suddenly fainted on the ground. As a result of the examination, the brain tumor of requires craniotomy, and it also carries certain risks.
Really fate is doomed, the divorce has to be stranded again.
After Mei Yun's operation, she needs someone to take care of her. Of course, this is my husband's unshirkable duty and responsibility.
Looking at Mei Yun, who was lying on the hospital bed and was still not fully awake, this woman who had betrayed her marriage and went to bed with me, I felt extremely sad and very helpless.
Thinking of Mei Yun's contemptuous eyes at me,Harsh words; attitude towards my parents and relatives; also imagined her being with other men; I can’t wait to throw her in the hospital right away, hire a caregiver, and then I won’t come to see her again, no matter what Everything about her, regard her as someone who has nothing to do with me.
This can be regarded as a kind of revenge. The husband and wife have treated her for decades. On weekdays, I try my best to meet all her requirements. The money I earn is in charge of her, and I do as much housework as possible. I am an ordinary man and can only do this. Sometimes, my temper is bad, and of course she has been wronged. No one is perfect, I have a clear conscience for her.
Now, marriage is inseparable. I am very painful and confused. I want revenge but I can’t bear it.
Written at the end
Every family has hard-to-read scriptures, and what Uncle Zeng encountered can be said to be even harder. I have worked my whole life for this family, and when it was time to enjoy my life, the marriage changed and there was no chance of divorce.
Although people have reached this age, they have lived very well, and they know that marriages are mostly improvised, and whoever is with them will have such a day, but I am afraid that I will always be burdened with encounters, and I have to escape if I want to.
Life is unpredictable, and no one can guarantee that today is happy and what tomorrow will be. When you enter a marriage, you have to take responsibility, think more about what you do, and try your best not to do things that damage your marriage. A heartache is hard to heal.
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I am the rain without emotional intelligence, a woman who loves to write emotional text, welcome to pay attention and leave comments.
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