A catty of cherries, husband becomes ex-husband

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Author: Rattle Bell

strongA bit expensive.

But I happened to be pregnant. I don't know why, but I really want to eat it.

The economic conditions of the family are average, and it is not even impossible to afford this little fruit.

My husband won’t buy it.

I just ignored my need for cherries.

The other party felt that it was not without fruit. After all, I forced myself to eat an apple every day for the sake of my child. The other party also accompanied me to the fruit shop to buy apples. Maybe he thought I did a good job. NS.

Then one day I passed by a fruit stall for a discount. The cherries for sale started to be 11 minutes old, and the owner reduced the price to 40 yuan a catty.

I stood in front of the stall for a long time before I picked out half a catty that seemed edible.

I am very happy to buy it home. I think my husband won't talk about me at this price, right? ? I was really young at the time.

I went to my girlfriend's house to play in a few days. She brought a half bowl of cherries to entertain me, and I happily shared with her about buying special fruits. She didn’t say anything. Silently filled the basin.

Then I wanted to eat it when my confinement was almost full, but I didn’t know why I suddenly wanted to eat it again. I asked my husband if he could bring me a little when he went out. He came back later, and I jumped over to see if there were any cherries like a child.

No.

He said 70 a catty.

I am a heartless and optimistic person, but at the time I felt like I was hit hard. I didn't have any emotions. I remember that I put on my shoes and sat on the bench in the community.

Looking at the lights in my building not far away,It feels near for a while and far away for a while.

This happened seven or eight years ago. According to the personality of the other party, it will definitely not be remembered.

But it doesn’t matter, it’s not my husband anymore.

I don’t like cherries anymore. "

reading this, I was choked for a long time.

mind a picture has emerged.

As night fell, a frail puerpera who had just given birth to a child was sitting on the bench in the residential area. Jumping outside, her parents smiled and looked at her arm in arm, making her lonely behind her back.

People passing by sometimes glance at her curiously, she just ignores her.

What was she thinking?

Will you regret getting married?

Will you regret having a baby?

I can’t figure out how. Why do I have to get the consent of my husband if I want to eat cherries for 70 yuan when I get married?

More should be sad.

I am not sad because I can't eat cherries.

is just a hindsight,My friend's distress, her husband's ignorance, and my stupid self-reliance at the time.

70 yuan only.

Two packs of cigarette money, two meals for takeout money, you can buy it if you save money.

All this is reluctant, she is in the heart of her husband, and the child in her belly is in the heart of her husband. What is the status of her?

Mom is not worthy of it, not even your child.

When a woman is the most vulnerable in her life and needs meticulous care the most, she gets sick during pregnancy, just a few years.

also didn't let you reach out and buy some expensive fruits. This can be a luxury.

It seems to be divorced by a catty of cherries.

But I think she must have experienced many similar moments before the divorce.

is not taken seriously, often overlooked, not to say wronged, to say a moment of hypocrisy.

It was only at a critical moment that the parachute could not be opened.

This kind of marriage, can't it be described as a place of death without burial?

We are traveling in Phoenix.

walking on the bluestone street holding hands, suddenly saw a child selling hand-knitted wreaths on the side of the road.

The wreath is very nice.

I was excited to go up and ask how much money?

The child said, 20 yuan.

I hesitated and mumbled: Why is it so expensive?

Don’t laugh. For the two of us who were still in college at the time, 20 yuan was a lot of money.

But I really like it. So even though I complained about being expensive, my legs were still nailed there.

As for Yanzu, he was pulling me by the side and was always reasoning with me. It was a waste of 20 yuan to buy a wreath. He said that the cost of this thing was very low and it was not worth it. He said he was going to collect some flowers and make one for me.

I don’t know what I thought. It's fine to pay directly now, why should he ask for his consent?

Maybe the brain is flooded.

That day, the child stared at me embarrassingly and sympathetically, and I stared at the ground awkwardly and uncomfortably. The ears were feverish and the air around him solidified, and he was the only one who kept chattering.

In the end, I really don’t want to listen. Let's go, I won't buy it anymore.

After a few steps, I probably saw my depression. Yanzu added dryly, and went to other places to check again. What's the matter with his family selling garlands?

is really magical.

We walked a few streets in the afternoon, but we did not meet the boss who sells wreaths again.

What's more heartbreaking is that I keep seeing passers-by girls and their companions walking by with their hands holding hands and wearing wreaths on their heads. I am embarrassed to ask them where they bought it, so I can only get sulking silently.

Back to the hotel that day, I cried. Really howl and cry.

He asked me what’s wrong,I can't say a word.

Can I speak directly? can not.

It’s just a wreath. Are you going to fight with your boyfriend over something you haven’t bought? Now I feel shameful in writing articles.

At that time, I only thought in despair, this trip is also not to be traveled, and love is not to be discussed.

I can't bear to spend 20 dollars. Does this man really love me?

After a few years, we both became more familiar with each other. Every time I mentioned this, I furiously pulled him out and whip the corpse.

He is always embarrassed and helpless: As for it, it's just a wreath, remembered for so many years. If I knew this, I would let you buy it, and I would buy you a car without eating.

I sneered.

is the same as a pregnant woman who wants to eat cherries for 70 yuan,Am I angry because of a 20 yuan garland?

is not right.

I can understand that he simply thinks that the stuff is expensive and not worth buying.

But the problem is that when I am young, I will stubbornly think:

I don’t even like money in ’s strong9. It's worth buying.

I don’t know if you have any.

As I get older, I lose my eagerness for something.

Probably the threshold of happiness is high and people are numb.

the joy of receiving gifts,Not as pure as when I was a kid.

When I was ten, my parents bought me a five-dollar Barbie doll. I was so excited that I couldn't sleep well for several days.

At the age of 30, I bought tens of thousands of bags, and maybe at most I was happy when I placed an order.

Seriously, now I’m going to Phoenix again, and I don’t even bother to look at the wreaths on the street-I deceive tourists, and I just wear it for a long time. Little girls will like it.

It is better to eat rice noodles covered with meat.

But didn’t I just like flashy romantic, naive little girls?

Regarding the flower garland, it was not until the time I went to Thailand in 19 that I completely reconciled with Yan Zu back then.

that trip,He said he wanted to give me a gucci bag, but we didn't find it in two shopping malls.

The car that happened to leave from Bangkok that day was about to drive.

I said, don’t buy it this time, right? It's over in case of a missed flight.

He probably remembered the lesson of the wreath for a moment. Definitely say no! Must buy it today! Forced me to run for several streets like a mad dog.

Two people ran wildly, their hair was flying, the big guy was covered, the heart was beating wildly, and finally paid in the last mall.

I still remember that when I was flying in Bangkok that day, watching his flying bangs wanted to cry and laugh.

If I can’t tell, I feel like cnm. I didn’t choose the wrong person.

I wrote a paragraph on the Weibo .

A reader told me,Her boyfriend doesn't love her very much, nor is it romantic. Usually the two people often quarrel over trivial matters, there are no gifts during the holidays, and they never wait for her to walk. When quarreling, boys always have only one sentence " I’ve never been a person with a funny personality and a coaxing person. If you are sick, I’m willing to spend one hundred thousand for you to see a doctor, but I won’t buy a thousand gifts for the holidays because of waste. I don’t. It will be the icing on the cake, and will only give charcoal in the snow. ”

Life itself is made up of countless details and moments.

What makes people tired is often not the distant mountains, but the gravel in the shoes. It is rarely the vigorous farewell to life and death that defeats the feelings, but some even yourself. Many small disappointments that I didn't realize.

I know that happiness cannot be quantified with money.

But there is a saying that goes well:

, all "too expensive"It’s a premium, don’t buy it, just eat it”, it’s all “you don’t deserve it”.

Many times, how can you explain to the other person: _pstrong p0

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span5 You are willing to go through fire and water for you and give everything.

But if you want me to spend more money for you?