Guide:
How do friends grasp the relationship?
Can you and your old classmates have nothing to say?
The friendship between gentlemen is as waterless as water, why can the friendship last forever?
"origin"
I came to Beijing to see a doctor, and didn't call him until the afternoon of my return to tell him that I was going back.
Qianshan asked him why he didn't tell himself earlier that even if he couldn't accompany him, he could at least provide accommodation.
Fa Xiao said, knowing that you are very busy now, parents and children need your care, so I didn't bother you.
"text"
Old friends are not unfamiliar with time and distance, but they feel that they are all grown-ups, and long-term friendships are adequate and intimate.
is like between a tree and a tree, a certain distance must be maintained in order to grow healthily.
Friends should always keep a little respect.
This respect is to keep your distance, which is to prevent over intimacy. If you break through the interpersonal boundary, you can instantly feel that the friendship in the adult world is also very fragile.
In fact, the most comfortable relationship between people is: there is a stop in action, a bound in words, and a degree in everything.
No matter how good the relationship is, there must be some leeway, and you must not overspend your feelings.
Interpersonal communication is the most taboo and unstoppable. Relying on each other's relationship, making all kinds of excessive demands, and then failing to understand each other's difficulties, it will eventually become the sentence:
"No matter how good the relationship is, it will be taken for granted.”
Secondly, in life, managing your own mouth, keeping your own heart, keeping your own proportions is the most basic respect for others.
Meeting with old classmates, mutual damage is a must-have item . But if one sentence makes the original lively atmosphere instantly awkward, it means that your language has hurt others.
Although language is intangible, it can be as comfortable as a spring breeze, or it can be turned into a sharp blade, directly through people’s hearts. Straight-talking can make you appear smart, and it can also make you feel confused. If no one is there to help you out, it is estimated that this beam will be settled.
Points; Sophisticated and less open, but nodded after seeing through the favor. "
The degree of comfort you make determines the height you can reach.
Don’t be unobstructed on a whim, good words can really turn decay into magic, you are the most magical person!
There is also the degree.
Only by grasping the "degree" can you maintain a good relationship.
Friends need to be honest with each other, they also need to look at each other carefully, and they also need to think about the stage and space of their friends.
Some friends are slow and some are active, so you need to grasp the "degree." Many times, when we get along with people, we don’t know how to get close, but we don’t know how to "distance".
The right time and occasion can often make things a mess.
They all say that "gentlemen's friendship is as light as water", because it is "light", so it can not be tired and lasting, and it can also keep each other independent in communication.
In all comfortable relationships, there must be a sense of appropriateness.
Keeping close and distance may be the most appropriate way of communication.
If you are well-informed and familiar with everything, the relationship can last.
So please remember that the most comfortable relationship between adults is to stop in action, to have a boundary in speech, and to have a degree in everything.
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