Foreword:
56-year-old Aunt Lin said that although her monthly pension is only 2,000 yuan, she thinks her life is sweeter than honey. What is going on? Listen to what she said.
Aunt Lin:
I am fifty-six years old this year, and I went through the retirement procedures at the beginning of last year. When I completed the retirement procedures and got the retirement certificate, I felt relieved immediately. When I thought that I would not have to go to work, I would receive a monthly pension, and I would feel relaxed.
I divorced my ex-husband very early. Although the child was raised by my ex-husband, he did not ask me to pay a penny for support. However, I want to rent a house and maintain my own life. I still feel huge financial pressure. .
I am a flexible employment worker. Since I gave birth to a child, my body has become very weak. I cannot bear high-intensity work. As long as it is physical work or work pressure is too high, my body is There will be problems. It is often that the little money I earn from working is not enough for me to see a doctor and take medicine.
Because of my health, I often change jobs. When my body can't bear the new job, I will quit immediately, and then I will stay at home for a period of time, wait for my body to recover, and then find a new job.
Because I can't work continuously, I always can't save money. Before I find my next job, I have to borrow money to live and wait until I find a new job before earning money back to others.
The reason why my ex-husband didn't let me pay for the child's support was precisely because he knew me too well.
Although I feel guilty for my children and think that I have not fulfilled my responsibilities as a mother to my children, but due to the limitations of my physical condition, I really can't do more for my children.
Many people who saw my life embarrassed and persuaded me to find a man to marry again, so that I would not have so much financial pressure to make my life a little easier.
Although I know well that finding a man with good financial conditions to remarry can indeed help me get out of the huge financial pressure, but I believe that every man, he will not be able to go to the end with me.
Back then, my ex-husband loved me so much that he married me home happily. However, we haven't had a few years before, and he can't stand me anymore.
When I have a job, I will be exhausted after get off work. I can't do anything when I get home. I have to let my ex-husband come and serve me. When I was out of work, it was only because I was exhausted from my last job that I quit my job and went home to recuperate. At this time, I still have no energy to do housework, and I have to be served by my ex-husband.
My ex-husband and I have been married for five years. Apart from giving birth to a daughter for him, I have no further contribution to the family. My ex-husband’s salary is not high. It’s a bit hard to feed me and my daughter. I also want to earn as much money as possible to help my ex-husband reduce some of the financial burden. It's just money.
The ex-husband was weighed down by both economic and physical strength, and he was too heavy to lift his head. For a while, he even suffered from depression and needed medicine to relieve him.
Seeing the uncomfortable look of my ex-husband, I really can’t bear to drag him down, so I took the initiative to ask for a divorce. The body is also worn down, then our daughter will have no support from now on.
The ex-husband was overwhelmed at that time, so he had no choice but to nod his head to agree to the divorce. He was still a man, and he actively gave me all the savings in the family, but he had not allowed me to pay a penny for the support of my daughter.
I just left home with the money, used the savings from my ex-husband, rented a rental house, and started a wandering single life. I still don't work long in every job, but fortunately, even though I have had a difficult life for so many years, I still survived.
Before I retire, the public rental housing I applied for was finally approved. I was assigned a single room. Although it was only more than 30 square meters, I finally had a house with my name written on it. I don’t have to worry about the landlord rushing at any time. I'm going.
The month after I moved into the rental house, I reached retirement age,When I got my pension passbook for the first time, I was very excited. Although there was only two thousand yuan in the passbook, I felt more satisfied than ever.
Although my pension is not much, it can at least guarantee my daily life. I no longer have to withstand physical discomfort and force myself to work, and use the money I earn to support myself. From then on, even if I don't work, I won't be starved to death, and I can even make myself better.
Although my pension is only two thousand, it is more satisfying than those who earn 20,000 yuan a month. Because I have tried hard to earn money, I cherish this kind of "laying earning". life.
As long as I am not seriously ill, my pension will be enough for my daily consumption. Under my careful calculation, I can save up to 800 for myself every month, and I can save up to 10,000 in a year. You can save so much money without paying a little bit of hard work. Just think about it and enjoy it.
My biggest consumption every month is three meals a day. In order to save money, after retiring, I sever contact with my former colleagues and friends because I have to spend money to interact with people, so you have to come and go. There will always be some unexpected expenses, which will disrupt my plan to save money, so I can only put an end to all contacts in order to avoid spending money indiscriminately.
Although I have no friends after retirement, I am not lonely. Apart from cooking and tidying up the house, I read books, listen to music, and use my phone every day. I have never felt that the day is hard to pass, or even feel that time flies quickly.
all say that when a person lives happily, he will feel that time passes quickly, and when a person’s life is difficult, he will feel that life is like years.
I think this sentence is very reasonable, because before I retire, when I have to work hard to maintain my work, every day is suffering, and it is impossible to interpret my feelings of going to work and going to the grave.
Since I retired, the day has passed in a blink of an eye. I feel like I have just gotten up, and I haven't done anything yet. The sky is already dark, and it's time to go to bed.
These two completely different experiences made me feel the power of the state of mind,And cherish every day after my retirement. Although I only have a pension of 2,000 yuan a month, in addition to saving 10,000 yuan a year, I can also arrange a trip for myself.
Of course, my travel is not to those tall cities. I just follow a special tour group and go around our city. Although it doesn't cost much, I feel extremely happy.
I think the way to make myself happy is not how much money I earn, how good food I eat, how expensive things I use, and how luxurious cities I go to.
All those happiness just float on the surface and don't have much meaning. I think a person's true happiness is a good mood emanating from the inside out, which can make people feel the power of happiness from the bottom of their hearts.
Although my monthly pension is only two thousand, it is even happier than a person with a monthly income of twenty thousand. I cherish my current life very much. I feel that my life before retirement is just living, and my life after retirement is real In the sense of life.
Nowadays I take time to exercise every day. As long as I am free from major illnesses, I can continue my happy life. When I am getting older and getting worse and worse, I should have saved a lot of savings at that time, enough for me to see a doctor.
What makes people surprised is that since I retired, my physical condition has been unexpectedly good. I am no longer sick and crooked like a Lin Daiyu , and I have never been to the hospital again. So I am very confident in my body. Before the age of 80, my body will not have any major problems.
In my opinion, happy old age is nothing more than this. Although I live in a public rental housing and have a pension of 2,000 yuan a month, I still feel extremely happy.
Concluding remarks:
In fact, in the final analysis, although money is a prerequisite for maintaining a basic life, money is not the only criterion for measuring the happiness of the elderly in their later years.
is like Aunt Lin. Although she doesn't have much money, she is not less happy than others. Therefore, it is not important for a person to have more money and less money. What is important is a person’s good attitude, as long as he can make himself physically and mentally happy,It must be a happy life.
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