wrote an article about being domestically abused a few days ago. The content is nine years after marriage, I always look forward to someone hurts and someone understands, especially my mother-in-law can be fair. Seeing my hard work and the endless fatigue that has been born out of nothing for so many years, I can say "work hard"; at the same time; , I hope she can participate in family building, cook for us when she is able, instead of escaping all the time, even if his son beats me and we get divorced, we will never pay attention to it and deal with it with "cold violence".
A vibrato that my mother-in-law once sent was probably "Nowadays, women have jobs and money, and what else do they do? What are they doing?"
has a job, and money is my own ability. Keeping silent with women in family conflicts are two concepts.
People who do not work will never see the hard work of workers, and people in different jobs will not see the difficulty of each other. Although there is no empathy in this world, people should have a basic empathy with others.
Because of my long-term circling at work, children, and family, my body is debilitated and "wet work" is caused.
My mother took care of me for more than three months. My mother-in-law said no greetings, and then another man quarreled with my mother, we divorced, and we fought such deep conflicts.
Although we had an appointment with the mother-in-law to sit down and talk about her son and her problems with me, she still did not show up, but kept communicating with her son secretly, and hung up the phone when I was at home.
The man is kidding, and he chooses to ignore it, a home that only knows you to work but has no warmth, it breaks me, makes me break out, and the man moves his hand.
Afterwards, I wrote an article. In the message area, there are good-hearted people who persuaded me to reflect, and there are also people of the same kind who asked me to take good care of myself. Most people expressed the same family misfortune, and most people suggested divorce.
Actually, we have been to the Civil Affairs Bureau twice, only because the man regretted it later and it was too ugly to be in the crowd, so I gave up temporarily and came back to fix it.
My heart is very soft. Everyone is a good person. It is not easy to resent someone. A soft word can quickly let go. Although the standards are very low, they are still ignored.
Someone said,What does your life have to do with your mother-in-law?
I think she gave birth to her son, she has the responsibility of criticizing and educating, and the family is also counted as her, and she has the responsibility of maintaining harmony. If a son marries a daughter-in-law, he just throws his family and people away to a woman who doesn't know her alive yet, so that she can take care of her life and don't care about anything. In the future, when she needs me, the law will not allow me to ignore it, right?
There is a reply from an aunt in the message area. I like it very much:
There is another person who has a different opinion:
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1p1p img Let's leave, let's leave...
Human feelings are so fragile that life is lonely. In the more than two hundred comments in the article, everyone loves me and persuades me to leave. I am really grateful.
But why don’t I get a divorce?
If you get divorced, you will either stop looking for it. If you find the reincarnation of the status quo, you may meet a good mother-in-law, but you may not necessarily meet a good man, you may meet a good man, and you may fall into the new economy Embarrassed.
Giving birth, earning money, raising children, maintaining family relationships, life can come back, life cannot withstand the toss.
I saw a professor's speech today. He said that his students had found four wives and married the second one. The second one has no problems with the first, but has the problems with the second; I married the second and married the third. The third did not have the faults of the first and the second, and had the faults of the third,Divorced again, married a fourth, still the same ending, one less fortune away from one time, one less fortune away from one time, and the final conclusion: marrying everyone is the same.
A sister in the message area said: I have the same experience as you, not even as good as you, but I will not leave, I will guard the life I created and love myself well.
Look, no one really wants nothing in a marriage!
Some people say that love is conditional. If I love you, I have to be like you, either with a lot of love or a lot of money. If there is neither, then I will love myself.
Loving yourself well is a woman's most hopeless choice in life. Who doesn't want to share love with others, who doesn't want to live happily and lively?
How many women are still not selfish enough after all? We will not only love ourselves, disregard our family, and we will not abandon our children and be alone. Women are animals of fraternity after all.
A few years ago, I persuaded a sister to divorce.
She said: "I can't let go of my baby!"
Just like this, a beautiful girl who tortured herself like an old lady in just two years. But she didn't give up until she contacted some time ago and she told me that her second child is over a year old!
I asked her if her family relationship is better, she said that can survive , and then she kept talking about children with me.
This is a woman, soft-hearted, sensitive, fragile and gentle. Not divorcing is not about how much love you have, but you have to gamble your life once again in your life, and your life can’t be spent.
Isn’t divorce a new game?
There are many states of life, each of them recollects in life, I also made up my mind over and over again, and only then wrote the bad side and shared it with all beings, and asked for self-surrender.
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