Modern society is not like the old society anymore. People admire free love. The marriage of men and women is no longer the order of the parents.
To use the current buzzword: we all want to marry or marry in love.
But in fact, in real life, there are still many husbands and wives who can't help themselves because of some last resort.
They don't have much deep feelings, and there is no reason to go together, but they just feel that divorce is unnecessary.
Anyway, the two parties live together, not just to have a company by their side, so inseparable things have never been considered.
Many people want to say, since marriage is not important, and divorce is not important, then what is the meaning of this type of marriage?
Let’s not discuss this issue. In fact, we can think about it from another angle. How did those who are so-called married or married in love end up?
Do they have a happy marriage and family? Are they bound to be in love with their wives or husbands from blue silk to gray hair?
The answers to these questions are of course uncertain. You can never predict where the relationship will lead.
young people are always naive and fearless,I thought that forever would really be forever, so I pursued love with the courage not to hit the south wall and not look back.
But the storm of life has not really come yet, so you are just talking on paper and dreaming of an unattainable spring and autumn dream.
When the storm sweeps through the little world that you and your love have built together, do you dare to pat your chest to ensure that you will never leave him, even if you sacrifice your own interests, you must protect him well?
If you have a hint of hesitation, then you don't have to laugh at those couples who don't have any emotional foundation but still choose to live together.
Because in essence, the marriage between you and your lover is the same as their loveless marriage, the same weak and full of cracks.
In the final analysis, it is enough to be a couple as long as they can see each other. As for soul mates, spiritual partners, etc., these are mysterious, but there are not many couples in the world like this. Relationship, in fact, we ordinary people do not need to force it.
No matter how strong the love is, it will eventually be shocked by time, and then the hot and hot sincerity will be poured cold from the beginning to the end by the cold water of the years.
Therefore, in this kaleidoscope-like world, the biggest constant is the word "variable". Instead of believing in eternity, it is better to believe that the world is fragile and has no firm truth.
Take a 10,000 step back and say that there can be family affection between couples who are not in love.They can help each other and walk through the ups and downs of life hand in hand.
When the old age is about to come, lie snuggly together on the rocking chair, watching the clouds roll, the flowers bloom, and wait for the end of life. The ending of
is actually much better than those idiotic men and women who finally parted ways so that they don’t know each other, and just conceiving such a scene in the mind is enough to make people look forward to and yearning.
Couples who are involuntary and have no feelings but still bond are not necessarily unfortunate. In the dark, God has built a bridge for you two long ago, but you didn’t realize it. That's it.
We are all an incomparably slim piece of dust in this vast universe, so many things are the wisest decision to go with the flow. You say you have to fight against the sky and the earth. Such courage is indeed worthwhile Amazed.
But what did you gain in the end, it’s just a bruised self and a heart that will never heal. When you grow up so big, you should have understood that many things will happen without our hard work. changed.
So, it's better to cherish everything you have now, to be content and to be happy. If there is no emotion, there is no emotion. If you can't help yourself, you can't help yourself.
As long as you are not in despair, and you have not lost faith in life, then your loveless marriage is not a burden to you, and this means that your marriage does not Will drag you, hold you back, and make you breathless.
No matter how vigorous and vigorous you live, you will eventually return to eternal peace after death, but when it comes, there is no one to accompany him, how sad and deplorable it is.
So at that time, who cares about the person holding his hand, and who cares about whether the other person has affection for him or not. The important thing is that there is such a person, not that person makes him like it. Or have you ever loved.
Couples who are involuntary and inseparable without feelings do not have to complain or feel pain, because fate is destined.
Since God arranged for you to meet, you must have his intentions, so you just need to go with the flow and live your own little life.
Hard work In a boring and plain marriage, find something meaningful for yourself to do. Don’t entangle love or not. If the other person doesn’t love you, love yourself.
In this lifetime, whoever has lived with is not always with himself.
If you understand this, you will find that life is actually not that difficult.
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