Extramarital affairs are invisible
The word "lover" originally meant a couple or a lover. Nowadays, when you hear this word, most people will be very sensitive to the inconvenience. A derogatory relationship that is open, invisible, and unable to be officially named.
Japanese writer Junichi Watanabe 's "Lover" describes such a relationship.
The 32-year-old Katari Shuko was negatively influenced by his father, and 49-year-old Mr. Tono has been dating for four years as a lover. Xiuzi has always been single, and Tono has a wife and children.
They can last four years of lover relationship, to a large extent Xiuzi handled their relationship correctly.
Shuko likes Tono very much, and enjoys her time with Tono, but she never interferes with his life outside of herself.
She thinks that as long as the two of them are happy together, it is enough. After the date, Tono didn't care about everything, but she didn't even ask, she didn't think it had anything to do with her.
For several years, he has often come to her house for dates. She has never given him the key. She always insists on keeping her independent space.
She enjoys Tono's love, but she does not accept his financial gift. On her 33rd birthday, Tono liked the watch she gave her and she was very happy, and another gift of one million passbook made her very angry.
Tono said that he would deposit 200,000 yuan in it every month in the future. Xiuzi thought that was the future he wanted to buy her, and instantly felt that his love was impure and mixed with impurities.
So Shuko refused. She didn't want to live with Tono!
Although she confessed to her with her company colleague Okabe when attending a friend's wedding, she also had the idea of getting married and having children, but they all passed by quickly. She loves freedom more than marriage.
Xiuzi only wants the happiness of two people together
However, life did not develop as she hoped. Tono's wife discovered their relationship and insulted her face to face, and Tono also offered to live with her.
Only then did Xiuzi realize that she had been involved in their family, which made her feel very distressed.
When Tono asked for a date again, Shuko refused to meet. He insisted on slapped her for the first time and forced love to her.
The violence made her surrender, and it also turned all his goodness to her into vain, leaving a scar in Xiuzi's heart.
In order to retaliate and avoid Tono, Shuko took the initiative to date Okabe, but was worried because of the message that Tono was injured in the phone recording.
Although she was still angry, Tono was injured and hospitalized and she was worried about her. So she hurriedly bid farewell to Okabe and rushed to the hospital to visit Tono.
However, her identity prevents her from entering the ward at all. There is his child there, and she does not want to destroy his image in his child's heart.
When Yuanye went to her after recovery, he told her seriously again: He filed for a divorce, and his family will no longer keep him. He wants to marry her.
Frightened, Xiuzi flatly refused, and finally left amidst the furious violence and roar of Tono.
Love is enough, forget it for the rest of your life!
Actually, Xiuzi thinks too well. As the saying goes: If you want to be ignorant, you can't do it yourself. The lover relationship in this world will be discovered after all.
Most women are sensitive. Tono's wife only asks her husband and does not care about her husband's whereabouts. It does not mean that she knows nothing. It is just a disguise of a shrewd woman in front of her cheating husband.
Therefore, Xiuzi only enjoys her sweet love with Tono without interfering with his family. It is simply unrealistic. Her final exposure is also inevitable for the development of the relationship.
In the end, Tono asked her to get married. He thought she would be very grateful and moved, but he was rejected. He didn't know that this was a threat to her: a threat to her freedom and a threat to her life.
Tono didn't know this because he didn't know Shuko from beginning to end. But Xiuzi knew him very well, he was definitely not the one she wanted to get married and spend the rest of her life together.
Everyone is a polyhedron, and what remains in the eyes of a lover is often the best. Some people say "XX is only suitable for being a lover, not suitable for being a wife (male)" for this reason. Because the men and women who enter the marriage live together every day, the "halo" of the two parties in the eyes of the other party will slowly fade, and other shortcomings of each other will gradually be exposed. If you can run into each other and tolerate each other, you can go on for a long time; if you can't tolerate it, it will break.
presumably this relationship experience,It will bring Xiuzi some growth, and may change her view of marriage and love. I hope she will not repeat the same mistakes again, but enter a happy marriage with a man who truly loves her and has a sense of family responsibility!
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