Original illustrations|Princess Liuliu
Marriage is the tomb of love!
Before I got married, I never believed this sentence.
After getting married, this sentence became a nightmare in my mind for a long time.
01
Three years of love on campus, Xiaohui and I got married after graduation.
In the past three years, we have studied together, traveled together, rented a house off-campus together, rented out everything big and small in the house, Xiaohui never let me worry about it.
Xiaohui's meticulous care made me believe that this man is the one I want to marry.
On the day of receipt of the certificate, I asked Xiaohui: "Will you take care of me forever?"
Xiaohui held my cheek and said, "Fool, of course, I will take care of you for the rest of my life."
I have always kept it in my heart, I long to be collected, loved and treated with tenderness.
02
When we got married, the parents on both sides were very helpful. Xiaohui's parents gave us a down payment for the wedding house, and my parents bought the wedding car.
A monthly mortgage of 3,000, this kind of life is actually quite happy, ahead of many young people.
After half a year of marriage, I became pregnant and had to resign due to health reasons.
This resignation took three years. In three years, I went from a girl who didn't touch the sun with ten fingers to an almighty mother holding a child in one hand and cooking in the other.
03
Xiaohui, who earns money alone, is under increasing pressure because of mortgages and children's expenses.
WeChat chats are becoming less and less, and the replies range from daily sweetness to trivial words.
There are fewer and fewer phone calls, and it has become a repetitive statement for reporting on and off work.
I often work overtime until I get home very late, and I fall asleep before I can say a few words.
Although there were grievances at first, but seeing Xiaohui’s exhaustion, I tried to understand him,Be considerate of him.
04
Later, the days like this lasted longer and longer, and I became more irritable when my emotions could not be resolved.
No one listens, only to cry secretly after being irritable.
I began to wonder if marriage is really the grave of love.
The beautiful expectations that have been promised are all illusions.
Xiaohui came home very late that day, and I couldn't help it anymore.
I broke out and yelled at Xiaohui, crying bitterly.
Why do I have to sacrifice so much? I can't put on makeup, can't go shopping, can't party with friends, everything in the past has nothing to do with me.
And you said that you can take care of me forever, but it's not like this.
05
Xiaohui was surprised, why I became like this.
He felt that he was greedy for the family every day, but in the end he got a complaint.
That night, both of us were deeply distressed.
I'm crying, and the child is crying, I hold the child like I grabbed the last straw.
I hate Xiaohui who is silent, and I hate myself who is so furious.
is so much like the bitter woman that people say, it is clearly the way I hate it the most.
06
After that night, I figured it out.
In " King of Comedy ", Stephen Chow said to Cecilia Cheung that "I raise you" is just the most beautiful words of poison.
Girls who really listen to it may not be happy, and some are even swept out every minute.
, the most poisonous love sentence, has actually fulfilled its mission when it was said.
Thousands of words of love are nothing more than the only meaning they want to express, which is "I love you".
07
Love and marriage are really two things.
I used to think that since I am married to you, I am yours, and you have the responsibility to take care of me for life.
In fact, this kind of love will only be too heavy.
Because no one can experience what you have experienced, even two people who love each other cannot truly empathize.
No one person can fully occupy and own another person, and no one person can fully bear the life of another person.
Therefore, whether two people love each other or get along, they just want to achieve happiness in life through 1+1>2.
It is impossible for each of us to live life with fairy-tale love, but we can live the life of three meals a day into love.
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