[Guoxue Culture] In case of emergency, be quiet, in case of major events, be quiet, in distress, change, and in favor of things

The product is present, the heart is hidden.

In life, many people feel uncomfortable when encountering problems.

However, there are also some people who "Taishan collapsed in front of them without changing their colors", at the crisis, they used a clear mind to come up with a solution to solve the current predicament.

In fact, in a person’s first reaction to an accident, he hides the knowledge, insights, character and cultivation he has accumulated during his growth.

How to deal with and solve problems is the best way to see a person's tolerance, vision, knowledge and pattern.

01 "Relax" in emergencies

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It should be slow."

" Disciple Guidance" also said: "Don't be busy, busy too many mistakes."

Urgent affairs are always stressful and disturb people's minds.

easing is to first calm down your mind, observe carefully, clarify your thinking, and determine the plan. It is to prepare for the next action in order to achieve the effect of getting twice the result with half the effort.

In an emergency, if you are impetuous and eager for success, you will often make mistakes.

Qing Dynasty Zhou Rong recorded a story like this in his "Chun Han Tang Collection".

One winter, Zhou Rong wanted to enter the county town from a nearby river port, and ordered the children to tie up a large stack of books with wooden clips to follow.

It is getting late, the sun is about to set, and Wangwang County is about two miles away.

He asked the ferryman: "Before the city gate is closed, is it still time?"

The ferryman carefully looked at the book boy and replied: "Go slowly, it's okay; leave in a hurry and close it."

Zhou Rong listen After thinking that the ferryman was playing with them, he walked quickly with the book boy.

Halfway, the boy fell, the rope broke, and the books were scattered all over the place. When the books were sorted and bundled, the city gate in front was tightly closed.

Zhou Rong’s self-evaluation at the end of the article:

"Everything in the world is self-defeating and self-defeating! If things are slow, they will be rounded up, and the results will be difficult."

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Slowly when you encounter urgent things, give yourself a mood and environment to do things, and then, immerse yourself in this, work selflessly, you can often achieve twice the result with half the effort.

When your mind and actions are stable, you will eventually be fulfilled.

02 Be "quiet" in big events

"Tao Te Ching" says: "Quiet is the impetuous monarch."

"Jing" can overcome the impatience in people.

Keeping quiet is the basis for a person to sharpen his will and cultivate his character.

In life, we often encounter many unpredictable emergencies.

The more anxious you are, the more confused your mind will be, and the easier it will be to mess things up.

A lot of wisdom in life is often hidden in calmness and calmness.

read " us three " by Mr. Yang Jiang ,I was very impressed with her "It doesn't matter".

The door hinge at home was broken and the door could not be closed. She smiled and said "It doesn't matter".

Qian Zhongshu has a scabies on her head, she feels irritable, and she comforted her, "It doesn't matter."

Whenever her husband encounters something depressing, she will gently persuade "it doesn't matter".

Her life is calm and calm, no matter what happens, she never seems to be flustered.

Behind the simple three words "It doesn't matter" lies Yang Jiang's life philosophy of "Calm down and seek stability".

When things happen, they can be as calm as when nothing happened, calm down all kinds of worries, and then things that have happened will naturally disappear.

Only by calm can we make decisions, and we can do things when we do things.

03 Difficulties have to "change"

" I Ching" says: "It turns into everything without leaving it."

This world is a cycle of all things, often twists and turns. back and forth.

In life, we will always encounter many unsolvable problems.

When encountering difficulties, if you do not change your thinking in time, you will easily get stuck in the horns and cannot extricate yourself.

"The mountain can't come and I will pass." When encountering difficulties, I know how to be flexible and turn my thinking, which can often solve the problem.

Life is like a process of digging a well.

If you can’t get water in one place, and you insist on continuing to fight, it will only waste more time and energy.In the end it was just in vain.

Be flexible in time, analyze calmly, find a place where water is easier to dig a well, and then you can find clear spring water.

Li Jing of the Song Dynasty said: "The trick to save fraud is nothing short of change."

Rivers flow into the distance because they are good at turning;

People with wisdom are good at changing their thinking and using external forces to resolve difficulties and problems. It will be solved.

At critical moments, what needs to be changed in difficult times is precisely our thinking.

04 You have to "converge" when you come to it

Confucius There is a saying, "A gentleman is not arrogant, and he does not take his own merits.

does not value himself too much , Is a kind of self-cultivation, is a kind of maturity in mentality.

"There will always be people who come in the back, and people in the front. Save me from time to time and decide to be the master."

There are mountains outside the mountains, and there are people outside the people.

People with a larger pattern are more restrained when they are "satisfied".

Actor Chen Daoming is full of poems and books, full of righteousness, Ji Xianlin praised his knowledge, Qian Zhongshu and him became a year-long friendship.

In an environment where everyone calls themselves a "teacher", Chen Daoming always considers himself an "actress". He said: "An actor is my profession, and I am an'actress.' You can't take yourself too seriously."

Being humble, low-key, restrained, and moderate, it will make a person have a broader mind and a bigger picture.

Keeping a humble heart at all times is the biggest hole card for being a man.

The monthly profit will lead to a loss, and the water will overflow if it is full.

Mu Xiu Yulin,The wind will destroy it; the behavior is higher than the people, and the people will not.

The bigger the pattern of people, the more they know how to be humble and low-key, to seek high from the low, to sustain themselves with humility, and to achieve themselves.

The ancients said: "Personality is present in the matter, and the heart is hidden in the body."

The true character and pattern will be reflected in the reaction and handling of encounters.

In the world, we have to face countless things and choices. When the mind is broad enough, the difficulties will be less, and when the vision is high enough, the world will be smaller.

At the critical moment, if you look farther and enlarge the pattern, we will reach a different realm in our lives.