A gray-haired old woman turned out to be like an ignorant child, lying on the ground and crying, her body twitching constantly, her mouth still shouting "I don't want to live anymore" to vent All my dissatisfaction and pain. Everyone wanted to pull her up to calm her down, but she refused. No matter how they persuaded her, she couldn't control her emotions and vented herself in front of everyone like going crazy. Why is her emotions so broken and out of control? What kind of story is hidden behind all her complaints?
This old man lying on the ground is called Luo Wanxiu. He is 75 years old and has two sons, both of whom are married. Logically speaking, she should be very happy and happy. She has no troubles at work. The two sons have married and established a business to honor herself. She should be enjoying her old age. How could she be so unbearable in front of everyone and make trouble so much? Luo Wanxiu, lying on the ground, murmured something about her son. It seemed that it was her relationship with her son that caused her to be in this state. Luo Wanxiu revealed to reporters that her relationship with her son had suddenly deteriorated, and she couldn't accept that her son became like this. She wanted to seek help for her son to reconcile with herself.
She took out a stack of papers to show to reporters, all on it was her son's insults to herself, "personality distorted, low moral character, selfishness, cruel heart" a series of insulting language like a knife, a knife A knife pierced Luo Wanxiu's heart, tears could not stop streaming, even the reporter said that this was too much. Not only insulting her own mother, but also cursing her own mother, "Lonely family, betrayal, no one left is the end of your life." Luo Wanxiu was very sad when she faced the insults of her own son, she held her chest and looked up to the sky. He cried for a long time, not understanding why his son suddenly became so cold-blooded and merciless.
Luo Wanxiu took out a family portrait and told reporters that he was very happy at first, and the relationship with his son was very harmonious. He has worked hard for many years to raise his son, and the whole family depends on her to work alone. I have income and a good life now, but since my son was newly married,He turned against himself and didn't want to receive him. Luo Wanxiu was very chilling when it came to speaking.
The wedding day of the second son, Jia Yi, was supposed to be a lively and happy day, but on this day a nightmare happened. Luo Wanxiu said that on the day of the wedding, he had wrapped a red envelope of 1,000 yuan to welcome his daughter-in-law, but his son Jia Yi insisted on driving himself out of the new house. Throwing her out of the stairs, and insulting her with insulting language, saying that she is a "remarried girl", not clean and unworthy of receiving newly married sons and daughter-in-laws. Talking about Luo Wanxiu's emotional breakdown again, she is torn apart. She was crying bitterly. She didn’t understand why her son who had grown up so hard would treat herself like this. Before the marriage, her son was still holding hands with herself for a walk. On the day of the wedding, she actually drove and insulted herself with her parents-in-law, which hurt Luo Wan. Show heart. Why did the mother and son, who were originally in a harmonious relationship, suddenly make such a fuss? Are there other unknown stories behind this? So the reporter decided to find Luo Wanxiu's son Jia Yi face to face to understand the situation.
When the reporter followed Luo Wanxiu to Jia Yi's home, he knocked on the door for a long time and no one agreed. Luo Wanxiu said that maybe both her son and daughter-in-law were at work. She told reporters in a somewhat uncertain voice that her daughter-in-law was working at a nearby insurance company. Maybe she could persuade her son Jia Yi by persuading her daughter-in-law. So the reporter came to the place where his daughter-in-law Xiao Yu worked. Unfortunately, Xiao Yu was busy in a meeting and it was not convenient to come forward. The reporter discussed with the security guard and wanted Xiao Yu to come out and meet her mother-in-law. When I came to myself, not only didn't come out in time, but avoided her mother-in-law and didn't want to see her.
When Luo Wanxiu saw his daughter-in-law and did not want to see herself, he cried and made trouble at the door of Xiaoyu's unit. The security guard was not surprised to see this situation. He said that he often saw this old man come here to find his son and daughter-in-law, but the relationship between them seemed not so good, and he was reluctant to meet Luo Wanxiu. Luo Wanxiu’s crying in the unit alarmed the leaders of the unit. The leaders all came to persuade and appease Luo Wanxiu’s emotions. After hearing about Luo Wanxiu’s experience,The leaders also expressed sympathy. The leaders were forced to take part in the family affairs. One side calmed Luo Wanxiu's emotions, and the other side persuaded Xiao Yu and her mother-in-law to have a good talk, but even so, her daughter-in-law Xiao Yu remained resolute and reluctant to come out to meet her mother-in-law.
In desperation, the leader called the phone of Xiao Yu’s husband, Luo Wanxiu’s son Jia Yi. After Jia Yi learned that his mother had come to work, he showed extreme disgust and impatientness, and was also unwilling. Meet Luo Wanxiu. Jia Yi bluntly stated on the phone, "I am ashamed of my having such a mother." Luo Wanxiu in Jia Yi's mouth is a selfish person, saying that she only has money in her eyes. In order to fight for family property and divorce, her grandmother He is already very old. Luo Wanxiu beats and scolds his grandmother. His father is a disabled person. Luo Wanxiu also beats him and often beats and scolds himself and his younger brother.
From Jia Yi’s statement, he has long been dissatisfied with his mother. The image of his mother in his heart disgusts him very much. He only cares about money and never cares about family affairs, saying that he does not want to be like this. Luo Wanxiu said that he and his son had a good relationship before marriage. It seemed that there was something wrong with their statement. The reporter asked when Jia Yi broke down with his mother. Jia Yi Said that he had this kind of relationship with his mother before getting married. In the past, his mother used to go to the unit where he worked and was noisy and noisy. He didn't care about other things. He only thought about himself and almost made him lose his job. Talking about this. Jia Yi once again bluntly commented that her mother was a mentally ill, an old woman with personality disorders, and she couldn't communicate normally with her at all.
Facing Jia Yi's remarks, the reporter didn't know whose remarks to believe for a while, but Luo Wanxiu's emotions broke out again when he heard his son's fierce remarks. When he returned home, Luo Wanxiu pulled out the diary she once wrote from the cabinet, which recorded the bits and pieces of her hard life in the past. There are two children in the family, and the husband is still disabled. She has borne the burden of the family alone. She has done a lot of work to survive and runs a shop.
"Pull the cart during the day,Business at night and busy work. For the family to have no complaints, the son is disobedient and has nowhere to say, only at night when there is no one to cry secretly, get up at four o’clock every day to prepare breakfast for them, The blood and tears paid for this family have grown old, and my son will not recognize his mother when he is married." Luo Wanxiu’s efforts to this family over the years are recorded in a single sentence, and the lines reveal her sadness and pain over the years.
Luo Wanxiu believes that the rupture of his relationship with his son has a great relationship with his in-laws and his son’s father-in-law Duan Xintian. It was because of him that the relationship between their mother and son broke down. Duan Xintian said that before the marriage, his son-in-law Jia It is true that Yi will take his mother Luo Wanxiu's hand for a walk, because Jia Yi is the only military officer in the village. He must be very proud to have such a son, so Luo Wanxiu will take his son's hand and walk in the village. But I never deliberately tried to instigate the direct relationship between their mother and child. Luo Wanxiu himself caused the breakdown of their relationship on the day of their wedding.
According to Duan Xintian’s recollection, everything was done on the wedding day. Originally intending to give the couple a good rest, Duan Xintian arranged a nearby hotel for Luo Wanxiu and some relatives, but Luo Wanxiu was unwilling to go to the hotel and insisted on spending the night in the wedding room. This made Duan Xintian very uncomfortable and asked Luo Wanxiu to leave the marriage. This angered Luo Wanxiu. She knelt down in front of the doors and windows of her son’s wedding room and began to chant a spell. Duan Xintian was also irritated when she saw Luo Wanxiu’s doing this. The wedding day was so unlucky.
The two sides are more and more quarrelsome, even Luo Wanxiu. On the day of the wedding, he talked about divorcing his son, and Duan Xintian said that their family is not divorced, unlike Luo Wanxiu. The words are said to stimulate Luo Wanxiu. From this After the incident, Luo Wanxiu would go to Duan’s house every day and write a lot of vicious words on the ground to harass them. Even if the daughter-in-law’s mother passed away, not only did she not come to help with the funeral affairs, she also forbid her son to pay filial piety.This series of behaviors made the Duan family extremely disgusted with Luo Wanxiu.
However, Duan Xintian felt that Jia Yi had to solve the matter in person with his mother, so he persuaded his son-in-law to meet and talk with Luo Wanxiu, and the matter was resolved. But when the mother and son met, no one would give in. Mother Luo Wanxiu just wanted an apology for his son Jia Yi's attitude, but his son Jia Yi expressed disgust with his mother's behavior, so Luo Wanxiu lay down in a emotional breakdown. Rolling on the ground and crying, but even like this, his son Jia Yi didn't feel sorry for his mother at all, but looked at him with a very disgusting expression from the side.
The media found Jia Yi’s father Jia Zhihuan, hoping to use him to ease the relationship between mother and child, but after hearing that, Jia Zhihuan said that this was caused by Luo Wanxiu herself. He has always been a strong person. After hearing about it, neighbors in the neighbourhood also said that Luo Wanxiu is a very strong person. She has a bad relationship with her family, and people in the village dare not provoke her. At the same time, everyone affirmed Luo Wanxiu's dedication to this family for so many years. They said that without Luo Wanxiu, there would be no such family, and the whole family relied on her. When the reporter asked whether Luo Wanxiu had beaten her disabled husband, the villagers strongly said, "This is not available. I know that I live next to his house." Everyone said that Luo Wanxiu is actually too extreme and her mouth is too vicious, but her mind is good.
Eventually intending to allow the mother and child to reconcile, but Jia Yi made such an unreasonable request that his mother Luo Wanxiu’s retirement salary should be divided into half of his father’s monthly salary, but they are no longer a husband and wife relationship. The evening show had to pay the ex-husband monthly, which was unacceptable to everyone. Not only that, he also asked the father to live in the place where the youngest son lived after marriage. He seemed to sever his own worries and not to support his inability to live by filial piety, causing the breakdown of the relationship between the mother and son. Is it the son's unkindness or the mother? In the face of this situation, we cannot make an absolute judgment. Only through this story, we can also learn from it. When we encounter problems, we must solve them in a timely and kind manner. Don't use the most vicious words to attack the closest relatives.This leads to a tragedy in which neither side can reconcile.
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