Text: Teng Xiaoqi
Picture: All from the Internet
I drove home with my friend that day and chatted about their relationship.
My friend said: I find it difficult to fall in love with a hobby. Look at me, there is not even a person who can leave; there is not even a person who can end singleness!
I've seen before. Fu Seoul and Su Mang talked about such a topic.
Fu Seoul: If you were not married when you were 22, will you still be married when you are 30?
Su Mang said: Enough!
I don’t know when marriage has become a measure of women’s success!
At twenty-seven or eighteen years old, it is really an embarrassing age to be inexhaustible!
Many people told me: You are twenty-seven and eighty-eight, you are no longer a 22-year-old girl, don't be too picky!
even I have seen some companies, when recruiting people, I will ask directly,How old are you this year, do you have a boyfriend, and when are you going to get married...
Older unmarried young women not only fail in the blind date market, but also encounter many problems in the workplace !
Regardless of whether it is older than you or younger than you, the conversation after dinner is about the children, the husband, and the opening and closing are all about marriage.
But as soon as the topic reaches you, it becomes: Why don’t you find someone to marry!
Even looking for a job, others will ask you if you have someone and when you are going to get married
To be honest, there are not so many single addicts in this world, at least I am not!
I don’t want to find it, I don’t want to find it, I really can’t find it; therefore, I would rather a single person of high quality than two people of low quality become a kind of gimmick against outside sounds. We model ourselves as A person who loves to be single is actually just to hide that he can't find that person at all!
some time ago my friend was very happy to share with us: After so many years, she finally met the one who can stir her heartstrings! I have to tell my mother, stop introducing me to a blind date!
We all marveled: Is it so sure?
my friend is 27 years old this year,In her own words: the career is not bad, the feelings are all over the place! She has seen more kisses than we have eaten.
The other party is about her age and has just graduated with a master's degree and is doing an internship in a law firm!
Under the guidance of this Scorpio lawyer, they are making rapid progress, but they have never seen a few!
Every time they finish talking, their friends will yell: "Go ahead, too top!"
In the words of friends, they have similar three views and similar interests.
Lawyers like finance and art, which happen to be my friends’ university studies and work; my friends’ favorite thing in their spare time is reading books, while lawyers pride themselves on being a literary youth and have recommended many books to my friends!
everything about him, she likes it so much.
We all urged her: ask him, find a time to meet!
My friend said: It's not good for girls to do this kind of thing.
Later? It's been a long time since my friend mentioned this lawyer, and then my friend actually started dating again.
We are all witty not mentioning this person.
The other day we talked about our friend’s latest blind date. I heard it is a high match!
friend said: This blind date is very good,It's pretty good, the salary is high, there is a house, a car and a deposit, which seems to be quite suitable for marriage.
We looked at our friends, with thin lips and dim eyes, was full of fate!
My friend said: I don’t know when I started, I seem to be a bit resigned. Probably after I broke with the lawyer, I didn't believe in love so much. too difficult!
I also thought about not recognizing fate like this, but I have too many factors that have to be considered, in addition to age, there are expectations of my parents! I can not live for them, but I really can't care about their opinions!
In fact, a girl’s twenty-seven years old is much more charming than her seventeen-eight years old. Without the childishness of seventeen or eighteen years old, there is a touch of adult charm; coupled with well-maintained, they can wear and match, even look better than seventeen or eighteen years old!
But at such a beautiful age, it has become a watershed for unmarried girls. More and more people are beginning to choose to accept their fate, and to die.
Because countless people, including yourself, feel that after 30 years old, there is really no way out.
Men can have thirty-one flowers, but women can’t!
a woman who is not married at the age of 30,Will be pointed out by everyone!
If you can, who doesn't want to find someone who you like and who likes yourself for a lifetime? Seeing time passing by, I desperately wanted to catch it, but even now I lost it!
In the movie " Spirited Away ", there is a line with this line: will have a long, long journey in the future. , We must rely on ourselves, rely on our own ability to complete, rather than rely on anyone!
I once said an irresponsible remark: If it is not for parents, who would want to get married!
Seeing the friends around me step into the palace of marriage, are they happy? I don't know; are they unhappy? I don't know.
But I accidentally came across a data that only 10 million people born in the 90s entered marriage.
I have seen many fateful marriages. Some of them feel that they are getting old and find someone to make do with it; some of them are forced by their parents to be too anxious and are with the person that parents like very much.... .. I have read a sentence before, some people lived to 75 years old, but died at the age of 25.
How about you, have you accepted your fate?
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