One who often hears unpleasant words in one's ears, and one that always touches one's heart in one's heart, is the stone of learning virtue. If the words are pleasing to the ears and everything is happy, I will bury this life in poison .
——[Ming] Hong Yingming
" Caigen Tan " is a collection of the best thoughts in ancient Chinese cultural classics. Gathering the essence of life perception and the exquisite wisdom of life can be said to be a treasure of life and life, and the truth of self-cultivation and heart-cultivation.
Although there are many different interpretations of "Cai Gen Tan" on the Internet, most of them are too constrained to literal interpretation, and cannot be based on the coordinates of the Chinese cultural gene and ideological integration system to interpret and understand the roots. . Such explanations are often difficult to grasp the true meaning and spiritual essence of the explanations, and sometimes misunderstandings that are contrary to the original intentions are unavoidable. My interpretation and understanding are limited to academic discussions and exchanges of experience.
In daily life, the following phenomenon is common:
To put it in a pleasant way, you can hear it as you please, and it is often accepted by people willingly and happily.
Things that go well with one's heart are then as people want, and they are often talked about and satisfied.
However, the wisdom of life seems to be making a "joke" with people. Truth is contrary to habits and customs:
is like a good medicine that is good for a disease, and faithful words are good for doing things.
It's like retreating from Chihiro with a squeeze, though difficult things are good for virtue.
Today, we will focus on "Cai Gen Tan" " ". We often hear nasty words in our ears, and there are always heart-wounding things in our hearts. That is the stone of learning virtue. If words are pleasant to the ears and everything is happy, we will bury this life. In the poisonous " theory of value,Let’s talk about the value of " ", which is the life training and hardening of pursuing moral education.
You often hear nasty words in your ears, and they are the stone of learning virtue.
Inconsistent or unpleasant remarks are often rebellious against one’s subjective will or intentions, that is, remarks that are contrary to one’s own opinions or ideas, or contrary to one’s own mood or prejudice Unacceptable.
In a large public or in a group meeting, someone who speaks against oneself will feel very shameless, and feel that it is an insult and provocation to oneself, so that there will be mutual accusations and even intensification of contradictions. Scenes.
Normally, if someone says something against himself, he will feel that this person is ignorant of admiration and scornful of the scenery, and he will inevitably want to ridicule each other. And scattered.
In rebellious words, is it really hated by others? Don't you say anything against your ears forever? How can you be willing to accept the words against your ears? These are common problems that have to be carefully considered.
In terms of social environment, there is indeed a need for an atmosphere of tolerance, mutual trust and no suspicion. In terms of one's own self-cultivation, the cultivation of xinxing is the most important. There must be an attitude of humility and a willingness to be taught.
To accept the rebellious words requires a state of mind that is willing to accept the rebellious words. The cultivation of this state of mind requires not only a deep understanding of the benefits of nasty speeches, but also a tolerance for those who speak ill-spoken speeches. Every time I hear bad words, I show my grace and generosity and noble quality.
I often hear the words against my ears, which is the value of the ancient sages, "Zilu, people tell you to have had a past, you will be happy. When Yu hears good words, you will worship" ("Mencius·Gongsun Chou"). "If you have heard it, you will be happy", because it is helpful for you to change the past when you hear it, so you are happy to accept it. Appreciation of good words is the value meaning of being willing to take the good words of others to enhance one's goodness. In the same way, nasty words are often blunt, slander, and admonishment, which will undoubtedly be of great benefit to one's own inspection of omissions, correction of faults, and reflection on shortcomings.
I can keep my mind clear when I hear bad words, not to be confined by self-confidence, not to be blinded by self-righteousness, not to be caused by rigid self-use; to brainstorm, make up for inadequate decision-making, make up for mistakes, and stop in time. Loss and gains.
I often hear the unpleasant words and kind words, and often listen to the "unpleasant" blunt words, and can use them as the "stone" for my growth and progress:
from this, I feel that I may have spiritual calcium If you are missing, you need to replenish calcium as soon as possible, strengthen your muscles and bones, and strengthen your beliefs.
As a result, if you are aware of the shortcomings of your own personality or temperament, you need to improve it as soon as possible, cultivate and reshape yourself.
As a result, if you realize that you may have insufficient self-cultivation, you need to make progress as soon as possible.
As a result, if you are aware of negligence in your own style or image, you need to rectify it as soon as possible, self-examination and self-correction, and taking a bath for treatment.
There is always a heart-warming thing in the heart, and it is the stone of learning virtue.
Things that touch one's heart, things that don't go well, are often things that are not what people want, that is, things that deviate from one's original intention, purpose and aspirations. In real life, there are often heart-wrenching things, and you will feel that you are not lucky enough to do things, feel that your destiny is bad, and even have the negative consequences of frustrated and depressed.
What is heart-wrenching, is it really useless? Isn't it possible that the heart-wringing thing will never happen? How can people easily accept the things that touch the heart? These are also common problems that have to be carefully considered.
From the social environment, we need a good atmosphere that tolerates failure and considers setbacks. For a person, xinxing cultivation is very important. You must have the spirit of seeking truth from facts, a pragmatic attitude, and the courage to be more authentic.
To accept things that touch one's heart requires a mind that is willing to accept things that touch one's heart. The cultivation of this xinxing requires not only a deep understanding of the benefits of heart-warming things for growth and progress, but also a correct view of heart-warming things. The acceptance of every heart-warming thing is a test of one's own willpower and tenacity.
The unsatisfactory things are mostly contradictory and puzzled. They are often incomprehensible and difficult to overcome. They are often unexpected and unsatisfactory. There is always a heart-wrenching thing in my mind, we must understand the "easy is more difficult" ideology in "Laozi", consider problems from difficulties, and be prepared to experience ups and downs.
People who are accustomed to the things that go well in life are often unable to withstand the "baptism" of difficult and bitter things, or they may be depressed, weak in spirit, low in morale, and loss of confidence. Appropriately experiencing some unsatisfactory and unsatisfactory things will give you a richer experience in life, and you will have some adequate preparation and adaptation to the ups and downs on the road ahead.
You can keep your brain calm when there are things that touch your heart. Instead of taking smooth sailing as a habit, and be prepared for hardships; don’t take everything smoothly as the joy of life, but be willing to look forward to suffering as joy. The spiritual experience; don’t take it easy to do things as the norm, but have the exploring spirit to cross the river by feeling the stones.
I often have heart-wrenching things, and I often think about unsatisfactory adverse events, which can be used as a "stone" for my own goodwill:
From this, I feel that I am unsatisfied, and I need to improve my forward-looking predictions. Level;
perceives his own personality weaknesses, and he needs to cultivate his self-consciousness;
perceives the lack of his own quality, he needs to improve his investigative and research ability;
perceives his lack of will, so Need to consciously sharpen and make up as soon as possible.
His words are pleasing to the ears, everything is happy, and he is buried in poison in this life.
"Speaking is pleasant to the ears", you don't know that there are unpleasant words, and it is easy to fall into the surrounding of ingenious words, false words and sweet words. If you can't listen to the nasty words, no one will be willing to speak up to yourself, and no one will be willing to speak blatantly and honestly to yourself.
"Words are sweet to the ears", blindly obeying what is easy to hear, will become hobbies and hobbies used by villains and tacticians, which can be sculpted and greeted by others.Insincere speech is born from this, observance of words and sex is made from this, gossip and rumors are born from this, slander and slander are based on this, and the words are convincing and righteous.
"Speaking is pleasing to the ears". Every sentence is pleasant to hear. Once it becomes a habit and habit, it will become a utterance. If you can no longer hear the truthful words, you will alienate the upright people and lose self-examination and self-examination. Reflecting on the constructive and good words that have been corrected, it is difficult to get the useful and good words of the group discussions.
"Everything is happy", I don't know that there is a "heart-wringing thing", and it is easy to fall into the illusion of everything going smoothly and everything going well. If you don’t pay attention to the heart, you won’t have an attitude of seeking truth from facts, and you will have to use your will, and everything will be illusory; if you don’t pay attention to the heart, there will be no human spirit. .
"Everything is happy", if you want to make everything to your heart's content, it will become a habit and habit used by villains and good people, and they are allowed to be manipulated, deceived, and false reports are all over the sky, only knowing that there are good things. I don’t know if there is something that is not done or what one wants. Therefore, the person who has nothing to do is born from this, and the strategy of no help comes out from then on.
"Everything is happy", seeing that everything is a successful and smooth thing, once it becomes a habit and habit, it will be self-sealed, rigid, and will no longer get the truth of the matter, and will reject people who are solid , Without the atmosphere of hard work and entrepreneurship, nothing will happen.
Being accustomed to "speaking sweetly" and coveting "things to be happy" will put this life into false illusions, leading to a situation of extreme happiness and sorrow. If you are obsessed with this, addicted to hobbies, greedy into obsessiveness, and forget to return, you will undoubtedly ruin your life in poison.
Once you become obsessive, addicted, or greedy in your life, you have to carry out a self-revolution to destroy your own obsession, addiction, and greed. Rebirth in epiphany and liberation.
I often hear antagonistic words in my ears, and then slander, honesty, and outspoken words roll in. Listening at the same time is clear, and more listening is wise.
always has heart-warming things in my heart,The truth, the facts and the truth are swarming, the truth is truth, and the pragmatism is profit.
The five thousand years of Chinese civilization, which has gone through vicissitudes and continuity, has fully proved the tenacious vitality of Chinese traditional culture and the ability to develop in response to various challenges. This cultural connotation not only comes from the search for truth of "learning·thinking·view", but also presents the rational consciousness and open thinking of "learning·thinking·view". Let us work together to plunge into the torrent of "cultural self-confidence" and contribute to the great rejuvenation of the nation with calm thinking, sober responses, bold struggles, and worthy contributions. Believing in "cultural self-confidence" and practicing "cultural self-confidence", the Chinese nation will surely achieve a great rejuvenation.
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