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In this materialistic age, marriage has become a dispensable thing.
According to news reports, China has ushered in a wave of singles, with higher divorce rates and lower marriage rates.
Being with one person for the rest of his life was originally everyone's lifelong pursuit, but now it seems that pursuing one's own dream is more important.
How terrible is the upcoming marriage? Hear this story.
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Due to the urging of the elderly in the family, the protagonist and the protagonist know each other through introductions by others, socialize with each other, and finally get married.
The family conditions of the man are better, and the conditions of the woman are average, but the woman is more beautiful, so they got married for mutual benefit.
When they first got married, they had a pretty good life without much conflict.
After a while, the woman found out that she was pregnant. For the woman, this was a happy thing, but her husband was not happy.
The woman does not know what happened.
After a long time, a strange woman knocked on her door.
The woman unexpectedly discovered that the woman knocking on the door was her husband's ex-girlfriend, and that the ex-girlfriend had already given birth to a girl. Because the child was a girl, the parents-in-law did not allow her husband to marry this woman.
The woman feels like a bolt from the blue sky and can’t believe it.
The ex-girlfriend told the woman that they love each other very much. Because the old man disagrees, they are not married.
However, the male protagonist said to take care of their mother and daughter for the rest of their lives.
The heroine held back her tears, trying to vent her anger. But she knew she was pregnant, so she didn't get angry.
After her husband came home at night, she asked her husband if he was real?
Her husband replied that everything is true!
The heroine cried bitterly, and hated her!
She asked her husband for divorce.
For her husband, she is young and beautiful, virtuous and capable.
So the husband refused her request.
The heroine roared and asked the hero to get out of the house.
The male protagonist cruelly pushed the female protagonist down.
and told the hostess that he would not divorce.
The hostess was taken to the hospital. After rescue, she finally saved the fetus.
Her best friend went to visit her, hoping she could live well.
The daughter told her girlfriend that she was going to divorce.
But my girlfriend said that the marriage that will be married is everyone's choice.
The hostess chose to compromise for the child in her stomach. She asked her husband to sever ties with her ex-girlfriend so that she could live a good life.
Finally, her husband agreed.
Since the hostess knows that her husband and ex-girlfriend have children, she has been living her life.
After the child was born, not only did not add some happiness to the family, but it also brought more conflicts to the whole family.
The heroine gave birth to a girl again. After his daughter was born, his parents-in-law did not hug the baby.
and will show her face to the heroine every day. My husband often stays away at night, neither taking care of the family nor accompanying the children.
This kind of marriage lasts for two years. For the hostess, this marriage is just asking for it. She never wanted to leave this marriage again.
So she filed for divorce from her husband for the second time.
Her husband got worse,Once again committed domestic violence to the hostess, and forced a relationship with her.
The hostess escaped her husband's clutches, and left her home to rent a house outside.
When she went to pick up her daughter a few days later, she found that her door lock had been changed. She can't see her daughter anymore.
Her husband finally agreed to the divorce, but her husband wanted the custody of his daughter.
The male protagonist uses his child to threaten the female protagonist to remarry, and the female protagonist is not allowed to visit his daughter.
Finally, the court awarded the child to the male lead because the male lead has more financial strength and higher income.
The hostess collapsed after receiving the verdict.
So she appealed to the court, but there was no result.
She was finally defeated by her marriage.
So the marriage that is about to be married, not only can't feel happiness, but even the beauty of the world has changed.
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From acquaintance to love to marriage, two people are the blessings of previous life cultivation, and they should cherish each other.
However, if the marriage can't go on, the relationship between the couple is broken, and the fate is exhausted, then learn to let go.
Let go, it may be the best choice for both parties.
But some people are reluctant to let go. After having a child, they even prefer to endure domestic violence every day and endure the derailment of their husband every day. They also choose to die. Even if they are financially independent, they do not choose to divorce.
Why don't you want to get a divorce?
First, the impact of the original ecological family. The parents' generation is noisy and noisy, and they will also spend their entire lives. In the end, he did not choose to divorce. After a divorce, it's the same with anyone, so it's better not to leave and choose to live on.
Second, if you have a child, you have to take responsibility. Once a woman is married, she gives birth to a child. It's no longer oneself. She must be a good wife and a good mother. So in order to give their children a complete home, most women will choose to die instead of divorcing.
Third, the influence of traditional concepts, divorce is no face. Many people now choose to die because they don't have the courage to jump out, can't afford to divorce, and are afraid of divorce. In the face of various pressures from the outside world, many people are afraid of how others see themselves, thinking that they will not be able to see people after they are divorced. So I can only choose to be.
This kind of willful behavior retains only depressive and cold families. Children who grow up in such families are more likely to develop an inferiority personality, distrust marriage, and have a sense of the future. Full of doubt!
Love is a very beautiful thing, but after getting married, most people no longer believe in love, because in real life, all people forget the purpose of marriage.
Some people always say that love is the tomb of marriage. In the marriage that is about to be married, the two people have long lost the original attachment, and there is no love.
Choosing a person who will end up is choosing patience, and patience will only exchange more dissatisfaction. There is a limit to people's "endurance". When they can't bear it, they will act like a volcanic eruption and do things that they regret.
So, if two people really don’t have feelings, they should choose to let go, not just. An upcoming marriage will not only not make both husband and wife happy, but will also affect the life of the child and lay hidden dangers for the happiness of the child's life!
Without love, would you still protect your marriage? Give your opinion.
