After finishing the class this morning, I went to the hotel to attend the wedding of my colleagues with my colleagues who had finished the class. Because we arrived late, we entered the hotel lobby, seats were already full of relatives and friends. The wise man who greeted relatives and friends enthusiastically guided us to our seats.
Seeing the carefully arranged venue, it was full of a strong festive flavor. According to the Chinese people, in addition to obtaining the certificate, this kind of wedding banquet ceremony is a must. Because of the testimony and blessings of relatives and friends, marriage will have a happy beginning. From here, a small family was born and thrived.
Just sitting down, the wedding ceremony has officially started. As the music slowly sounded, the bride's father took the bride's hand to the center of the stage and solemnly handed his daughter's hand to the groom. The groom is my colleague. He is serious, practical and capable. He is a pragmatic man with few words. We all agree that he must be a good husband in the future. In this precious moment of life, the best wishes are in the glass and sent to them sincerely. Then the master of ceremonies presided over and carried out a series of wedding procedures, to the link where the leaders of both parties were invited to give a speech. I sat with my back on the seat next to the main guest seat. When I turned my head and faced the stage, I happened to see the parents of the new couple. Seeing a woman with short curly hair and an elegant red dress, with her eyes open, trying to swallow the tears from her eyes, I felt extremely sad. This should be the bride's mother, right? Sitting next to him should be the bride's father, who was drinking the wine bit by bit. Seeing this scene, my heart was suddenly very sad.
Yes! Their palm pearls got married today and should be blessed to their children, but from now on their daughters can't be with her every day, but have to shoulder the responsibility of a new family as a wife and a daughter-in-law, and she will no longer be the little princess she loves so much. Because the little princess has grown up! I don’t know when I have been able to experience this kind of loneliness very much. It may really be "If you want to know your mother's grace, hold your children and grandchildren in your arms"! After entering marriage as a wife and a mother, I am more and more able to understand this emotion, and the feeling in my heart becomes deeper and deeper.
Seeing the woman's parents forcibly enduring the red eyes, tears flowed down my eyes. When I turned around and wiped my tears, I was seen by a little colleague: "Mr. Zheng, why are you still crying?" "Oh, maybe I'm too old to see such a scene. I think my daughter will experience this in the future. The scene, my heart is mixed with all kinds of flavors, and I am really more and more soft-hearted and more and more lifeless!"
Next, the parents of both parties were invited to the stage. The dowry is very rich, a set of real estate and a passbook of 200,000 yuan. According to the value of a local property, it is now millions. So who can say that raising a daughter does not cost money? But this may be the case for parents. They have worked hard all their lives, always wanting the best for their children, and always hope that their children's small family has a foundation. The husband’s parents gave the daughter-in-law a set of gold ornaments and bought a car, not to mention the wedding room. The wedding ended with sincere blessings and applause from everyone.
In China, when getting married, the man is always happy because of the import; while the woman, the girl who has been raising her for more than 20 years, is like a pot of orchids. The flowers have been taken away, so the woman's parents are emotionally complicated, helpless and full of expectations and blessings! Affected by Western ideas, divorce is now very convenient. But I hope everyone can earnestly run and manage their own family, after all, it is hard-won. Hope that all lovers in the world will eventually become family members, and hope that they will not forget their original intentions after they finally become family members! Don't forget the ardent expectations of your parents, don't forget the blessings of relatives and friends, and live together in this life together!
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