The world is panicked, but it is only a few pieces of broken silver, but only a few pieces of broken silver can relieve the world's melancholy. In this society where every inch of land and money is rich, everyone is struggling hard for life and family.
so that many people entered the society early. Faced with the various trials and tribulations of the society, after suffering one after another, they got out of their heads, but only after looking back did they find that they were all focused on work. So naturally, I ignored my own emotional problems.
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realistic portrayal:
this year has been 34-year-old Xiao Zhao is the project director of a company , twenty-four When she graduated from college, she joined the current company directly. As an ordinary employee at the time, she only thought that she must make some achievements in the job.
Both her parents are government backbones who have received higher education, so she has established a very correct outlook on her values and life since she was a child.She knew that only what she got through her own hard work really belonged to her, and that what she got from others was ultimately unreliable.
Looking at the classmates and friends around me, everyone got married early. And all of them have children, and some of the children who got married early have even attended elementary school. Now only has her own "older saint", which means she is rich and beautiful. She feels that she is fully capable of supporting herself and taking care of herself, and it is better to live alone.
In fact, she is indeed worthy of this name, She has a job that others may need to struggle for half a lifetime with a high salary. She has a beautiful face and a charming figure, but none of this can change the reality that she is a real "older leftover girl".
Even if she maintained such an attitude towards herself and her life, she began to have a blind date at the age of thirty due to repeated requests from her parents and elders. She has had blind dates at least a dozen times in four years, but she didn't get together in the end. Either she felt that the other party's condition was not good enough for her, or she felt that she was not satisfied with the appearance of the blind date.
in the blink of an eye 34-year-old she is still single _strong25, A classmate brought a young guy at a class reunion. His name is Xiao Gao. She is very handsome. This year, he was just 27 years old and was already the head of the department of a listed company. He is definitely promising. Expected potential stocks.
The two finally got together under the strong match of friends, is seven years old. But Xiao Zhao felt that everything about him was worthy of him, and the other party didn't say anything because of his age difference, so they got married for half a year.
The days after marriage are not easy for Xiao Gao, Xiao Zhao always looks like a tall man on weekdays _span4 with _strong 25strong at home. , Xiao Gao wanted to get close to her, she said Xiao Gao was vulgar, and that's what she thought of.
Xiao Gao's parents see Xiao Zhao's age is not too young, and she dragged her into an advanced parturient. I was afraid of any dangers during childbirth, so I kept urging Xiao Gao and Xiao Zhao to have a baby.
Because of the pressure of his parents, Xiao Gao often talked to Xiao Zhao about this matter.However, Xiao Zhao's answer always made Xiao Gao very angry, She always said that she didn't want her child to be around her for the rest of her life. She always said that she needs to be alone, and this marriage has begun to make Xiao Gao regret it.
Once the two of them started because they wanted children, and then they vented all the dissatisfaction in their usual life. After a big fight, they got up for a few days. No fire.
On the other hand, Xiao Zhao felt that Xiao Gao said those things about her In her own opinion, there was no major problem because of her own life. After arguing several times, the two people who had just been married for less than a year divorced.
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Case Analysis:
Zhao face of marriage so sacred thing more is the pursuit of free and independent life, She does not want to be bound by marriage. I am very strong in life and do not allow others to have different opinions from myself.She brought the set of living alone intact to the lives of two people, which eventually led to the breakdown of the marriage.
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extension;
men get marriage a few years later, they can put all the spirit of the early to pursue a career and wealth When you reach the age of 30 or 40, your love opportunities will still have , but women are different. By the age of 30, more than 35 years old will not only get older physical appearance, but also decline and lose pregnancy ability. Opportunity for childbirth, so woman's best marriage and love age is only about 10 years, that is, from 23 to 33 years old and over 30 years old, women must mature to face their own life. For a 30-year-old woman, men are always more important than material possessions such as RVs.
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2 strong to see others 2 strong2span strong2span strong2span 25Today without tomorrow is the same as yesterday. No matter how beautiful yesterday, it is just yesterday. Being an ordinary woman, treating herself and others in a simple way, may soon be able to get rid of the fate of being left
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