"Attention Curve" wrote such a sentence: A person's performance, and the strength of the stimulus we receive, is actually an inverted U-shaped relationship.
In other words, a person cannot show his strength without pressure.
But if you put too much pressure on yourself, you will also make yourself play abnormally.
Therefore, when the stimulation and pressure we receive is at a level that we can accept, we can do something more easily.
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Will collapse.
Fengfeng is a very self-motivated person, but he always worry too much about the success or failure of one thing, no matter how big or small things are in life, no one around him has ever stimulated him, but He will always give himself a goal, and the whole goal is often easy to exceed his own ability and tolerance limit, so when the result of this event is not as smooth as he expected,When he fails to reach the result he predicted, his mood and even his life will be affected.
writer Liu Zhenyun also said: "Life does not win or lose, but once you have the heart to win, then you are the loser." There is no standard for judging the matter, but if you care too much about the final result of this matter, then you will lose early at the beginning.
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and the peak is just the opposite of me, no matter the face of what happened, I will always give priority to this In the worst case, I choose to do my best as far as possible within my abilities, and if the result goes against my wish, my heart will not fluctuate much.
The subject two test failed two days ago. After I came out, I just spit out a few words with my friends and left it behind, because I told myself before the test: Then everyone is happy, if not,Then prepare for the subject three exam first, and wait for the subject three exam to be completed just in time for the make-up subject two exam. "
If I lower my expectations from the beginning, I can face it frankly when there are errors in the results. This will not only affect my life, nor will it affect me. Attitude.
each of us needs to work hard in our lives, but it’s just right.
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