In this fast-paced era, we often worry that we are lagging behind, so we continue to speed up our pace and dare not slack in the slightest.
However, the so-called "slow work produces fine work", in many cases, efficiency and quality are often inversely proportional.
Some people are eager to improve themselves. Their reading speed is not so fast, but they still force themselves to finish reading a book in three days. It is conceivable that with such "high efficiency", how much can be gained in the end?
To read ten books in a fancy way, it is better to settle down and read one book slowly.
blindly pursues fastness, and the results often backfire.
No hurry to act
" Grandson Art of War" said: "Sppan2span_strong_span_strong" said: "Span2span will win the battle first, and then span_strong". That is to say: those armies that can win battles, they often plan first and have the confidence of victory before engaging the enemy;
those armies that often defeat wars, they often do not have sufficient plans in advance, so they are anxious. To fight the enemy, try to win the battle by luck.
The so-called "plan and then move", only after sufficient planning can it be easier to succeed.
For our business,The same is true.
saw others learn a certain technology and made money, so I was anxious to learn it;
saw others do a certain project and succeeded, so I was anxious to do it.
As a result, others have learned, but they have spent their tuition in vain; others have succeeded, but they have lost money.
The consequence of this is that there is no comprehensive plan before the action.
No matter how good a technology is, no matter how many people make money through this technology, it may not be suitable for us.
If you do not consider your actual situation, then you can only waste time and money.
A project, even if we make money again, it depends on whether we have the corresponding conditions.
If we do not have the corresponding conditions, then no matter how hard we try, it will be difficult to succeed.
"I thought about a thousand ways at night, and got up and walked the same way the next day." This kind of thinking and no action is certainly not feasible;
However, the brain is hot, without sufficient If you plan, you are eager to act, then, the result is often a failure.
Thinking and action, like the two wheels of a car and the two wings of a bird, complement each other. Only by having these at the same time can it be easier to succeed.
success in no hurry
this world,There is his law of operation, which is not shifted by human will.
The Fool, because he was eager for success, violated the law, he walked more slowly.
A man from Song State thought that his seedlings were growing slowly, so he pulled them out to encourage them. As a result, the seedlings died;
The businessman tried his best to betray his conscience and went bankrupt.
Confucius said: "If you have no haste, you can't have it."
is a lot of things. You can only do it down-to-earth and follow the rules.
If a person does not hesitate to violate the law in pursuit of fastness, then even if considerable results can be achieved temporarily, he will definitely fail in the end.
Lao Tzu said: "It's already wrong."
means: "If you don't conform to the Tao, you will soon die."
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Everything in the world is within the Tao.
There is only one way to succeed,It is the fastest, that is, to follow the law, not to be quick or slow, and to do things down-to-earth.
Don’t worry if something big happens
Zeng Guofan said: “Everything must be done in peace and ease. If you are in a hurry, then you will be wrong. So? So calm and peaceful is the first way to deal with things."
When we encounter major or urgent events, we are most likely to be disturbed by major or urgent events.
The so-called "Quiet produces wisdom."
A person can only think of clever ways when his heart is calm and peaceful.
We will find that those who are truly powerful, even if they encounter major or urgent events, they can treat them with a sense of peace.
It is because they are calm inside and are not disrupted by external affairs, so they are often able to make the most correct choice.
The so-called high emotional intelligence, the most important point is to control your emotions.
When encountering happy events, you will not be overwhelmed; when encountering urgent events, you will not be flustered.
Can one person accomplish great things,Just look at his mind. In many cases, the competition between people is not the turn of the IQ competition.
When encountering things, they are angry, fearful, evasive, and irritable. How can such a person be able to perform even if he has a high IQ?
Those who are truly powerful do not necessarily have super high IQs, but they must have a "heart of calmness and no anxiety".
In life, why bother.
Things have their own rules of operation, and we cannot change them. As long as we do our own things well, the ones that deserve to come will definitely come.
People will bully, but they are "regular" and never bully.
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