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Once in this world, you must always think clearly why you are alive. Only in this way can you properly complete your life journey.
Zang Kejia said: Some people are dead, but he is still alive, and some people are alive, but he is dead.
The older you are, the more thorough your understanding of this sentence will be, which is deafening and enlightening. For those who have passed away but are still alive, they are like all the sages who are still shining with their own dazzling brilliance in the long river of human history.
Their contributions to mankind, their efforts and liberation for the human mind, still affect us today.
Each of us lives on the shoulders of giants. Every child’s compulsory education, every child’s textbook, the knowledge they have absorbed, is taught Experience, all is the crystallization of the wisdom of all the famous artists throughout the ages.
The expertise of every doctor, and the grasp and ability of every doctor in surgery are all bold attempts and breakthroughs made by the ancestors in the past.
Without the 3000 attempts of Edison , we would not have today’s electric lights, nor would we have today’s electricity, various electrical appliances, not to mention the smart products we use, mobile computers.
If there is no Confucius 's Analects,The elegance of our Chinese culture will lack unimaginable parts. This is, although some people are dead, they are still alive.
However, some people are alive but dead. The death here is not death in the physical sense, not biological death, but the death of a person's life in the philosophical sense, because he has not lived a meaningful life.
His life is meaningless, so he is confused, ignorant, and at a loss. He lives in the world, and he's anxious all day long, like a walking dead. Such a person, from a philosophical point of view, is already a dead person.
A person who is truly alive is a person who has fresh vitality, is a person who can always be active, and strives to create hope and meaning for himself, a person who is lively and powerful, so a person's life is really Defined by your own behavior.
Miao Juan said in "Danny Hagrid" such a very reasonable sentence, she said:
"What does one live in the world for? It is to experience and enjoy, no Do what you have done. If you don’t have it, you will strive for it; if you have it, you will have fun; if you agree, you will come; if you don’t, you will disperse. This is simple but correct."
One thing: experience
Experience is the key factor that distinguishes a person from others. No one person’s experience is exactly the same as another person’s. You can have the same experience of something as others, and then have similar feelings and resonances, but you can never have the same life as another person. experience.
are similar and identical. They are two adjectives that cannot be compared.
Some people have a very rich life experience. They have gone to under the knife mountain and crossed the sea of fire . They will go through fire and water for the brothers. It is not a matter of recklessness and enmity, and all the chic and unrestrained things are experienced. What is the meaning? Whatever you want to play, try whatever you want.
dare to do and dare to be, so life experience is extremely rich, it can be said that it is an old saying: "I have eaten more salt than you have eaten, and the bridge I have walked is longer than the road you have traveled. "
This kind of crush is completely life experience, which is easily incomparable by others.
To live alone in the world, if you don’t want to be tired, you must first accept your own life experience.
No matter what kind of poverty you experienced when you were a child, you can accept it with confidence, that is your life, that is, the young self, the harm that a small child can face, and it is also a child’s inevitable Things that need to be experienced.
No matter what you have experienced in your youth, you can calmly face your own recklessness, failure, recklessness, even irresponsibility, evasion, etc. You can accept that imperfect self, and you can accept a series of imperfect life experiences brought by that imperfect self.
, you can naturally face your true face and your true life experience.If you can think of it this way, your life will not be too tired.
Because when you think about it this way, you have a complete acceptance of yourself. You don’t need anyone’s eyes to evaluate yourself, and you don’t need to compare yourself with anyone to determine or improve your life value. You have Know who you are, know what you need, and your identity no longer needs to be defined by others' eyes and mouths.
Such a person, who really lives in his own temperament, is it not that he is free and easy to be happy and enmity?
The second thing: enjoyment
The happiest thing in life is actually the moment when a person sits down and enjoys his own food after a hard day’s work. That is the happiest and happiest time for a person, and it is also the most exciting time a person can do.
The enjoyment after the busy schedule is the simplest happiness. It is like a farmer who has been busy all day in the field and comes home under the moon at night, simply drinking a bite of hot porridge and eating two bites of hot vegetables. The most relaxing time of the whole day.
Lying in bed after tiredness is really an advanced and simple enjoyment.
It is actually very difficult for modern people to enjoy without any burden. Because the modern pace is too fast, people are too pursuit of efficiency, everyone has a lot of things to do every day.
There are a lot of work emails that need to be answered, there are a lot of work issues that need to be dealt with, there are a lot of reports that need to be made, and there are a lot of entertainment needs to be dealt with.
people are busy,Forgetting that I still have the right to enjoy, I dare not stop to really enjoy something. As long as people stop, they will be afraid, and they will have a fear that they have not finished their work, which is purely a waste of time.
Actually, no time is wasted. Every minute and every second of life is meaningful. There are no useless experiences in life. If you spend time enjoying it, you are taking time to recharge yourself. This kind of investment is the most efficient investment and the most useful work.
These are the two things that must be understood in life. One is experience: be brave, be bold, try more of what you have not tried, be brave to experience, and be brave to accept In his own past, such a person can live without being tired.
The second is enjoyment: Although enjoyment is becoming more and more scarce, it is not as hard to find as the sky and the moon. As long as you can do these two points, you will be able to understand it.
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