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Many men complain, why do my wife still pursue so many opposite sex after marriage?
Flies don’t bite seamless eggs. Sometimes it’s not a man’s problem, but a wife’s problem.
It's not that you become bothered after marriage, but that a woman who is bothered is married. Most of the women who are bothered after marriage cannot do without the following three manifestations. Does your wife have the following behaviors?
1: Promiscuity with friends
Friends are really important in life, but they are only a part, not the whole of life.
Huaxin women think that only by having more friends can my married life become less boring. Every day I try to chat with new friends and go shopping and accept new ideas...
These are what Huaxin women say Said, but in fact it is just to avoid bringing a baby and avoid conflicts between husband and wife.
There is indeed a lot of boring in marriage, but it is this boring that can better prove that the pair is truly suitable for being together forever.
Making friends casually is just to experience excitement and freshness. As soon as the freshness passes, you will start to make a friend. Such a wife will one day be attracted by friends.
In mild cases, you will be away from home for a day, and in severe cases, it will lead to derailment, so women who make friends with casual friends must take care of them.
2: Overdressing yourself to attract the attention of the opposite sex
A normal married woman should be able to take care of children at home with peace of mind, or clean housework to honor the elderly, and give her husband a perfect home.
But the diligent married woman always can't hold back her hot heart, and she wants to escape whenever she encounters trouble or conflict.The way to escape is to vent the anger in your heart.
In a woman's mind, the best way to solve a problem is to dress herself, and a woman who is bothered, in order to make her mood more calm, dress herself too much, nothing more than to get more attention from the opposite sex.
Even a woman who didn't dress up before marriage over dresses up after marriage, either on the way to derailment or on the way to action.
If your wife dresses up a little bit more than usual or sincerely wants to attract the attention of the opposite sex, then you must restrain the woman's behavior and pull the woman back on track.
Three: I am more interested in my husband’s brothers or friends
Whether it’s going out shopping or having a group dinner, a woman will come into contact with her husband’s brothers or friends more or less after marriage. It's a normal thing, but it is a good opportunity for a woman who is bothered.
Through the relationship between the husband, a woman can quickly reach a relationship with her brothers and friends after marriage, and as long as the woman takes the initiative after marriage, most men cannot resist.
The so-called female chasing the male compartment yarn, it is very possible to want the brothers and friends around the husband to fall, and because of the husband's relationship, it is convenient for the woman to communicate with them closely after marriage, which brings a lot of excitement to the woman.
For a woman in such a situation, such behavior must not be tolerated. It not only destroys the friendship between brothers and friends, but also destroys the family.
Conclusion: Whether it is before or after marriage, your wife must be in control, and you can't make a woman make a big mistake because of a momentary heart.
What a man can do is to plan ahead and repeatedly supervise. Only in this way can we make a happy marriage.
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