A few days ago, I went downstairs with my mother for a walk, and suddenly saw Uncle Zhang, the wife of Auntie Wang downstairs. Uncle Zhang has been away from home for many years. In his memory, he was handsome and handsome, and now he is in a wheelchair and is not looking old. Aunt Wang pushed him. Seems to be in bad shape. Chat to know. It's too late to have cancer.
Uncle Zhang's current situation today is also caused by himself. He is handsome and romantic. He puts his family aside and does everything outside. When I was young, I didn't know how to take care of my family. Aunt Wang was busy all the time outside the house. I often heard their quarrels and sometimes saw Aunt Wang crying and complaining to the neighbors. Now seeing Uncle Zhang in a wheelchair, he is no longer the same as he used to be. No one can take care of her at all, and now only Aunt Wang takes care of her.
When Uncle Zhang was in his 40s, he met a young and beautiful lover. The lover fell in love with the handsome and mature Uncle Zhang. Uncle Zhang fell in love with the young, beautiful and successful career. Together, on the last day, he chose to leave the family, regardless of the pleadings of the three children in the family and the tears of Aunt Wang, living with his lover and never coming back.
After the sympathetic cohabitation, Mr. Zhang did some business, and the lover was doing sales. The life of the two was also enjoyable. Neither of them wanted to get married, let alone get a marriage certificate, and their lover was more than 10 years younger than him. Uncle Zhang thought that he had met the second spring of his life and bought a house and a car for his lover, and almost all of the business money was placed with his lover. In the blink of an eye, the two of them lived happily for more than 10 years. In the past 10 years, Uncle Zhang rarely went home, and the education of the three children was completely ignored.
As he got older, Uncle Zhang felt that his body was not as good as before, and high blood pressure and diabetes followed. He became an old man with no charm. No more women looked at him more and his lover became more and more towards him. I'm impatient, and when I'm uncomfortable calling my lover in the middle of the night, I pretend to be asleep and don't want to talk to him. I often go to square dancing regardless of his feelings, and sometimes I get to know new dance partners, secretly carrying him behind my back and chatting with others . The lover's heart is no longer in him.
One day Uncle Zhang suffered a cerebral thrombosis coma and was sent to hospital . I need surgery. At this time, my lover remembered to call Aunt Wang and ask Aunt Wang to take care of Uncle Zhang. She also said that she has taken care of Uncle Zhang for all these years. Now I can't manage this situation, and I have no obligation to take care of him anymore. , you are a family after all, tell Aunt Wang the hospital address, and then never went to see Uncle Zhang again.
The children knew that he was angry and didn't want to see him at all. Auntie Wang was soft-hearted. After graduation, she was the father of the child. She went to the hospital to take care of him because of an old relationship. The children later came to see him under the persuasion of Aunt Wang, and Uncle Zhang especially regretted his absurdity when he was young. When I think of my irresponsibility when I was young, I didn't fulfill my responsibilities as a father and my family, and I regret it very much. In the end, the wife took care of him after giving the child so much harm to his wife. He now knows the importance of marriage and family, but it's too late to make up for everything with his current physical condition. Today's bitter fruit can only be swallowed by himself, and he can't blame anyone.
Therefore, a man with a family must take responsibility for his family. It can't be said that he is unresponsible because he is young, and it will cause harm to the family and children. When he is young, he can be unrestrained and pursue freedom, but when he is old, his health is not easy. Only then will you know who is the one who takes care of you, and then you will understand the importance of companionship.Do not use the so-called freedom and passion to understand the responsibility and importance of marriage.
