Someone asked: What if you always use too much force when you are in love, and accidentally force the other party to retreat?
Someone asked: After getting along for a long time, I found that I didn't have the passion at the beginning. Is it because the feelings have faded and should we break up?
Someone asked: How can you tell that the other party is really tempted instead of just making do?
The matter of feelings is simple and simple. It is also unpredictable to say that it is profound. Some people seem to be born with supernatural powers, and they can talk about it without much effort. Some people feel embarrassed all the way. Can penetrate.
Isn't everyone crossing the river by groping for stones? Why can someone be able to feel sweet and happy? Why do you always backfire?
How many facts do you know about the relationship between men and women?
1. The long-distance love race is hard to get what you want
Shen Mengchen In "Listen to Sisters", he was urged to marry, and his words meant to delay Du Haitao's marriage.
Many people know that from the beginning of their relationship and being opposed to their relationship, they were urged to marry by their parents, friends and audience. Everyone was waiting for them to announce their marriage, but they were too late to wait for news.
Shen Mengchen said that Du Haitao could not be urged to urge marriage, and he could not urge even a tornado.
The presence of Kan Qingzi must also have deep understanding.
Kan Qingzi and Ji Lingchen, a pair of lovers once so enviable by so many people, even the names are so matched, in the end they failed to "graduate" from the long-distance love race.
Let’s take a look at those couples who love long-distance running around us. How many couples are really married?
Often the longer the relationship, the more difficult it is for girls to bear it. Once they start to worry, they will try their best to remind her boyfriend that it is time to get married. This is also a kind of pressure.
If you are in a hurry, it is easy for the two to fall out and become enemies, so don't try things like a long-distance running for love, because you don't know whether the end of the long-distance race is getting what you want or whether there is money and money.
2. Allow the other half to be selfish
. Many people think that love is the first thing to do. This is a misunderstanding of love. This concept is widespread in the minds of girls.
have promised me to go to the amusement park, how can I be called to work overtime temporarily? Can you not do this promise?
You moved from Beijing to Shanghai to work. Actually, you don’t want to be closer to me. You just have better job opportunities in Shanghai;
I like spicy food. If you don’t like spicy food, then you can’t Would you like to have some spicy food with me? I'm your girlfriend, shouldn't you let me?
People are selfish creatures,Why ask the other half to give up human nature and leave you alone?
We must understand that he is willing to do this because he loves you, not because he should.
He can occasionally be selfish, and occasionally put himself first, because everyone is an egoist, so are you.
3. Always have the courage to return to zero
What is the most afraid of feelings?
is like drawing a salary from the bottom of the tank and there is no way out.
People who live most comfortably in love are those who dare to say no, dare to go back to the beginning, dare to lose everything.
And this kind of person is the easiest to get happiness.
because they have the ability and confidence to help themselves.
If you are always suffering from gains and losses in a relationship, afraid of losing the other person, afraid of nothing, afraid that this love will have no results, then you must not be able to truly release your charm, and you cannot calm down. Respond to stumbling in the relationship.
People who always cringe and fear can hardly get the love of others without hesitation.
If you have the courage to return to zero at any time, you won't panic even when it's time to separate.
Always have the confidence to start again in order to be comfortable in love.
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